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If we are talking about commitment, a woman needs to know that she is the most important in the man's heart, after God, of course. So if there's a clash of interest there, even if not intentional, she'll make sure she holds the place she needs.
Real love doesn't play games, or force you to choose. Real love is secure and has the ability that a person can have other things in their life of importance and still love the person and still have that person be the priority. It's not love that causes you to test the person, its your own insecurities. Only time you should have to choose is if your 'other interests' directly interfere with your relationship. And by that i don't mean a woman being jealous that a man likes to go watch football with his buddies once a week instead of sit home with her and watch the Hallmark channel. =P
Real love doesn't play games, or force you to choose. Real love is secure and has the ability that a person can have other things in their life of importance and still love the person and still have that person be the priority. It's not love that causes you to test the person, its your own insecurities. Only time you should have to choose is if your 'other interests' directly interfere with your relationship. And by that i don't mean a woman being jealous that a man likes to go watch football with his buddies once a week instead of sit home with her and watch the Hallmark channel. =P
You know, I think for me, playing games would cause me to have trust issues. Like, why I am I with this person if I can't trust him. Or why is he doing this? etc...
I disagree, so few tall women exist that when I do find one its nice to be able to look her in the eye when I talk to her, as opposed to looking at the top of her head or talking to her hair clips.
Why do women always say "the worse she can say is no" when it comes to asking one out? That's not true; there are many things worse than "no". I've been in a situation where ultimately "no" would have been the better answer.