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Dawnwawny said:
My kids are 33 and 24. They are on my side, my husband cheated on me so the kids were not happy about that. I want them to forgive their dad and build strong relationships with them. I know God has plans for me. It’s just hard to go thru it. Selling the house division of assets starting a new bank account etc… he switched the energy bill and water bill in his name and I cried I felt stupid for crying. I was married 30 years. I have to get used to being single a new normal I have to establish.
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Worse thing that a man can do is to cheat on his wife. There is no excuse. Irreparable harm is done as the marital trust can never be restored.

During my first marriage my X cheated on me too, also physically and verbally too.

May God be with you and guide you on this most difficult journey that lies ahead. Yes, you have to establish a 'new normal'. Hopefully it will be a better, and there will be peace in your mind and joy in your heart.

God does indeed have plans for you but there will be scars that remain.
 
tourist

tourist

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Publican said:
A good friend who had a rather difficult marriage once asked me if I knew why divorce costs so much.
I said I hadn't really thought about it. He said, "because its worth it."

I'm sorry sister. Been divorced myself and its a total life overhaul, and it sucks. At multiple levels of every kind if suckage you can think of. And then there's the kids. My heart breaks for you. I just hope you are moving into better circumstances and you are safe. Divorce can be ugly too.
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Yeah, I've been there too, been there, done that, bought the t-shirt.
 
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Dawnwawny

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tourist said:
Worse thing that a man can do is to cheat on his wife. There is no excuse. Irreparable harm is done as the marital trust can never be restored.

During my first marriage my X cheated on me too, also physically and verbally too.

May God be with you and guide you on this most difficult journey that lies ahead. Yes, you have to establish a 'new normal'. Hopefully it will be a better, and there will be peace in your mind and joy in your heart.

God does indeed have plans for you but there will be scars that remain.
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Thank u
 
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Dawnwawny

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tourist said:
Worse thing that a man can do is to cheat on his wife. There is no excuse. Irreparable harm is done as the marital trust can never be restored.

During my first marriage my X cheated on me too, also physically and verbally too.

May God be with you and guide you on this most difficult journey that lies ahead. Yes, you have to establish a 'new normal'. Hopefully it will be a better, and there will be peace in your mind and joy in your heart.

God does indeed have plans for you but there will be scars that remain.
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I feel like I will never be able to trust a man again. I feel unlovable.
 
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