My kids are 33 and 24. They are on my side, my husband cheated on me so the kids were not happy about that. I want them to forgive their dad and build strong relationships with them. I know God has plans for me. It’s just hard to go thru it. Selling the house division of assets starting a new bank account etc… he switched the energy bill and water bill in his name and I cried I felt stupid for crying. I was married 30 years. I have to get used to being single a new normal I have to establish.
Worse thing that a man can do is to cheat on his wife. There is no excuse. Irreparable harm is done as the marital trust can never be restored.
During my first marriage my X cheated on me too, also physically and verbally too.
May God be with you and guide you on this most difficult journey that lies ahead. Yes, you have to establish a 'new normal'. Hopefully it will be a better, and there will be peace in your mind and joy in your heart.
God does indeed have plans for you but there will be scars that remain.