I gave you my point in my own words. What could you not understand in my post?
If exhaustive divine determinism were true, why would Jesus be upbraiding for not recognising Him as Messiah people God predetermined not to recognise Him as Messiah?
Mat 11:25 At that time Jesus answered and said, I thank thee, O Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because thou hast hid these things from the wise and prudent, and hast revealed them unto babes.
Mat 11:26 Even so, Father: for so it became (egeneto: became) good in thy sight.
Or, perhaps, Jesus noticed that despite the general rejection by the elites, there were uneducated plebs who seemed to recognise Him, and Jesus was here appreciating that the Father was conveying the gospel by means that the proud elite would despise, but the humble were able to get the gist. If hiding these things from the wise BECAME good in God's sight, there must have been a different strategy that God had tried before this became His approach. We see Jesus reasoning with the Jewish leaders at age twelve. We see God providing the Jewish leaders with scripture that spoke of Him, but they nevertheless would not come to Him. So, God sent Jesus to the poor and needy and uneducated with Kingdom King story-time events and miracles that they received and kept coming back to Him to inspect Him more closely. The Pharisees and Sadducees despised this methods and only came to Him to refute and oppose Him.
Mat 11:27 All things are delivered unto me of my Father: and no man knoweth the Son, but the Father; neither knoweth any man the Father, save the Son, and
he to whomsoever the Son
will (boulEtai: present deponent subjunctive, i.e. may be being counselled)
reveal (apokalupsai: aorist active infinitive, i.e.
to keep on revealing)
him.
The Son reveals the Father to whomsoever the Son is being counselled by the Father to keep on revealing the Father to them. How does Jesus keep on revealing the Father to people the Father counsels Him to do so? By living in relationship with such people. This does not mean that they will "see" the Father in Jesus. Even Philip failed to see the Father in Jesus despite living in community with Him for three years. .
Jhn 14:8 Philip saith unto him, Lord, shew us the Father, and it sufficeth us.
Jhn 14:9 Jesus saith unto him, Have I been so long time with you, and yet hast thou not known me, Philip? he that hath seen me hath seen the Father; and how sayest thou
then, Shew us the Father?
Yes, Jesus is fine with God using methods that are accessible to the humble, poor and uneducated but are dismissed by the proud elite. The proud elite could "get it" if they would humble themselves like Nicodemus. Jesus is indeed there to reveal the Father, but He does so through His lifestyle, which perfectly expresses God's heart.
You seem to be assuming that God revealing Himself through Jesus to someone means that that person will necessarily see God through Jesus at the time Jesus is showing God to them. The scriptures don't give that guarantee. Certainly only those that God reveals Himself to can believe in Him. But not all whom God reveals Himself to end up recognizing and believing what they are being shown.