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Hello, seeking a nice Christian lady for my oriental Christian friend Anthony. Please reply back if you're interested. Anthony is 46
 

Lynx

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First, howdy and welcome to the forum.

Second, are you Anthony or are you playing proxy for Anthony in trying to find him a girl?

Third, (if you are Anthony) you should really start here by getting involved in conversations so people here can see what you're like. (If you are not Anthony, tell him that HE should start here by getting involved in conversations.)
 
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First, howdy and welcome to the forum.

Second, are you Anthony or are you playing proxy for Anthony in trying to find him a girl?

Third, (if you are Anthony) you should really start here by getting involved in conversations so people here can see what you're like. (If you are not Anthony, tell him that HE should start here by getting involved in conversations.)
I am trying to find Anthony a girlfriend
 

seoulsearch

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I am trying to find Anthony a girlfriend
Just curious as to why he's not here looking himself?

There are a lot of situations where someone claims to be looking for a woman for their friend, son, cousin, brother, etc.

And the reason he's on the site himself is because he's in prison.

Anthony doesn't have to be shy!

Have him join us here. 🙂
 

seoulsearch

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Just curious as to why he's not here looking himself?

There are a lot of situations where someone claims to be looking for a woman for their friend, son, cousin, brother, etc.

And the reason he's on the site himself is because he's in prison.

Anthony doesn't have to be shy!

Have him join us here. 🙂
Sorry for the typo...

The reason he's NOT here himself.

I've also heard lots of stories of "older women" saying, "You would be perfect for my son..."

And it's a scam to win sympathy and ask for money.

This being the internet...

We need to know a lot more about you and your friend before interacting.
 
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Just curious as to why he's not here looking himself?

There are a lot of situations where someone claims to be looking for a woman for their friend, son, cousin, brother, etc.

And the reason he's on the site himself is because he's in prison.

Anthony doesn't have to be shy!

Have him join us here. 🙂
I will try to get him to join this site 🙂
 
Jul 12, 2024
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Sorry for the typo...

The reason he's NOT here himself.

I've also heard lots of stories of "older women" saying, "You would be perfect for my son..."

And it's a scam to win sympathy and ask for money.

This being the internet...

We need to know a lot more about you and your friend before interacting.
Anthony lives in High Barnet on his own in a 2 bedroom flat and is really sweet. I am his friend from church and I am dating his best friend
 

seoulsearch

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CarriePie

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Various things come to my mind reading through this thread.

Does Anthony know about this thread?

Does Anthony actually want a gf/wife? I asked this, because sometimes us single people have well meaning people who think they are being helpful by trying to find us someone. And even if we're open to someone, we might prefer to seek them out ourselves.

And, as has already been mentioned, there is so much we don't know about Anthony. Actually, we know hardly anything at all.

Another thing, just speaking for myself personally, when I see the word "wife" before I even know about someone this causes me to already be alarmed. Heck, I get alarmed if it's mentioned a few weeks into a relationship. These things take time. All the best things in life take time...and the courage to seek out what we desire.

Having said that, all the best to Anthony in finding what he truly wants in life (according to the Lord's will) 🙏
 

DeanM

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Are you sure you want a nice one? A mean one would keep you on your toes. A June Cleaver would be boring after awhile. 😏
 

RodB651

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A nice wife???

Anthony should seek some zest in his life and find a crazy one. 🤔😬

Yeah, I'm kidding.
 

tourist

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Hello, seeking a nice Christian lady for my oriental Christian friend Anthony. Please reply back if you're interested. Anthony is 46
It would be more productive to have Anthony to speak for himself rather than through an intermediary. Probably won't have much interest seeing how that you are both unknown entities. Regardless, glad to have you join us. Welcome to CC.
 

tourist

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First, howdy and welcome to the forum.

Second, are you Anthony or are you playing proxy for Anthony in trying to find him a girl?

Third, (if you are Anthony) you should really start here by getting involved in conversations so people here can see what you're like. (If you are not Anthony, tell him that HE should start here by getting involved in conversations.)
Fully concur with your counsel in this matter.
 

Snackersmom

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I'm just waiting for @Texasgal to pop on and inform us that she ain't nice, and she certainly ain't no lady! 😜

In all seriousness, I wish Anthony the best according to God's will! He might enjoy the fellowship here regardless 🙂
 
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No cruel comments please. I have asked Anthony and he is not interested in anything online. I guess I should not have posted this. I was just trying to help him. God bless and prayers for you all
 

seoulsearch

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No cruel comments please. I have asked Anthony and he is not interested in anything online. I guess I should not have posted this. I was just trying to help him. God bless and prayers for you all

No worries.

Thanks for your honesty. Kudos to you for being a good friend.

Hope everything works out and you and Anthony are welcome anytime!
 

Lynx

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No cruel comments please. I have asked Anthony and he is not interested in anything online. I guess I should not have posted this. I was just trying to help him. God bless and prayers for you all
Yeah... That's the reaction I usually have when people try to find a date for me.

Welcome to the forum anyway. I hope you stay around. There are some pretty interesting conversations to be a part of around here. Maybe even get Anthony to pop in and join a few conversations.