What is the Difference Between Confidence and Delusion? Can Knowing the Difference Save Us From a Lot of Heartache?

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Edith

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I am a plus size if I get to want a man with perfect abs I am being delusional.
Objectively false. Not even worldly men are as shallow as you seem to want to make them out to be. Back when I used to date, my girlfriend's best-friend was this big marshmellow shmore (and I only say that because she was a terrible person); and her man was chiseled marble. Think that sounds crazy? I'm just getting started. SHE cheated on HIM! And he stayed with her!
 

Edith

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Objectively false. Not even worldly men are as shallow as you seem to want to make them out to be. Back when I used to date, my girlfriend's best-friend was this big marshmellow shmore (and I only say that because she was a terrible person); and her man was chiseled marble. Think that sounds crazy? I'm just getting started. SHE cheated on HIM! And he stayed with her!

Wow that's a big exception
but 10s go with 10s however there are exceptions reason why I talked of God's sovereignty.
 

Lynx

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Objectively false. Not even worldly men are as shallow as you seem to want to make them out to be. Back when I used to date, my girlfriend's best-friend was this big marshmellow shmore (and I only say that because she was a terrible person); and her man was chiseled marble. Think that sounds crazy? I'm just getting started. SHE cheated on HIM! And he stayed with her!
Hmm... She cheated on him with... Another guy?

So there must be SOMETHING about her that brings all the boys to her yard. She was able to attract another guy.
 

SomeDisciple

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Wow that's a big exception
but 10s go with 10s however there are exceptions reason why I talked of God's sovereignty.
Idk; I think you guys are just making up rules for yourselves.

Just take the premise of this thread- compare Milla to Demi Moore (Bruce Willis' actual wife back in the day) and it all goes up in smoke.
 

seoulsearch

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Objectively false. Not even worldly men are as shallow as you seem to want to make them out to be. Back when I used to date, my girlfriend's best-friend was this big marshmellow shmore (and I only say that because she was a terrible person); and her man was chiseled marble. Think that sounds crazy? I'm just getting started. SHE cheated on HIM! And he stayed with her!
Idk; I think you guys are just making up rules for yourselves.

Just take the premise of this thread- compare Milla to Demi Moore (Bruce Willis' actual wife back in the day) and it all goes up in smoke.
It definitely sounds like you've have some interesting observations.

My own have been very different, but I'm certainly not saying that what you've described can't or doesn't happen.