This may sound a bit naive. I know god gives us signs and things. But sometimes we as humans don’t read them how they should be read. Our ego or pride or desire get in the way and twist them. How do you know god is directing you too the right person? Since he dos give us choice to marry whoever. How do we know?. My woman picker has been broken for years I think so I honestly don’t trust my decisions at all now. What’s your take reading gods signs.
You have to build your relationship with God so that you recognize His voice to be able to follow His instructions (like the servant did) and learn to trust Him with His timing and choices for you (like the servant, Rebekah, and Isaac did).
Don't rush anything, but trust God will answer you and pick the best one for you. When someone comes along, test to see if she is God's choice, like the servant did with Rebekah....
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Lord, God of my master Abraham, make me successful today, and show kindness to my master Abraham. 13 See, I am standing beside this spring, and the daughters of the townspeople are coming out to draw water.
14 May it be that when I say to a young woman, ‘Please let down your jar that I may have a drink,’ and she says, ‘Drink, and I’ll water your camels too’—let her be the one you have chosen for your servant Isaac. By this I will know that you have shown kindness to my master.”
15 Before he had finished praying, Rebekah came out with her jar on her shoulder. She was the daughter of Bethuel son of Milkah, who was the wife of Abraham’s brother Nahor.
16 The woman was very beautiful, a virgin; no man had ever slept with her. She went down to the spring, filled her jar and came up again.
17 The servant hurried to meet her and said, “Please give me a little water from your jar.”
18 “Drink, my lord,” she said, and quickly lowered the jar to her hands and gave him a drink.
19 After she had given him a drink, she said, “I’ll draw water for your camels too, until they have had enough to drink.” 20 So she quickly emptied her jar into the trough, ran back to the well to draw more water, and drew enough for all his camels.
21 Without saying a word, the man watched her closely to learn whether or not the Lord had made his journey successful.
22 When the camels had finished drinking, the man took out a gold nose ring weighing a beka and two gold bracelets weighing ten shekels.
23 Then he asked, “Whose daughter are you? Please tell me, is there room in your father’s house for us to spend the night?”
24 She answered him, “I am the daughter of Bethuel, the son that Milkah bore to Nahor.”
25 And she added, “We have plenty of straw and fodder, as well as room for you to spend the night.”
26 Then the man bowed down and worshiped the Lord, 27 saying, “Praise be to the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who has not abandoned his kindness and faithfulness to my master. As for me, the Lord has led me on the journey to the house of my master’s relatives.”
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As you can see, the servant asked God to reveal to him the right woman for Isaac by her kind and helpful spirit. Yes, she was beautiful, but he was watching her for her good character.
Also notice God was very eager to answer the servant's prayer: Rebekah came along even before he finished his prayer and did exactly as the servant asked God. I'm not saying to pray the same thing, but ask God for someone who is genuine in godliness - and watch them go about with their daily conduct to see if it's genuine or just an act.
Also take your time determiining if a woman was sent by God or not. You can double check with God to make sure. If there IS a check in your spirit, hold off and ask God about it. This why you need to give God your loneliness so that you don’t run ahead of God.
There's also satan who might try to send you the wrong one. That's why you shouldn't rush this whole process. Be careful because he can make the wrong one appear VERY attractive and romantic.
I will pray for your success! Let us know how your journey goes!
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