Sounds like a horrible experience. Years ago, when I was single and frequented the AOL chat rooms, I allowed myself to get scammed out a $1000. I'm older and wiser now. Sorry to hear your discouraging experiences.Mmm sorry been there done that. The worst that happened ? Well nothing BAD as such, but I had an uncomfortable feeling about it. Also I was not in the headspace for it. And I pretty much had to decide after only 3 dates, whether I was going to partner up with someone, though he lived in another town on another island. Yea, travelling would be expensive.
It's not gonna happen.
And the last time I was on a christian singles actual dating site I was scammed of $2000 and had to go to the police.