HOW CAN I BE 100% SURE THAT I WILL GO TO HEAVEN WHEN I DIE?

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Strangely, as long as you have heartfelt consciousness of sin before God it is proof you are still saved.
Regardless of how "heartfelt" your feel about your sin before God it does not prove your fate.

Jeremiah 17:9

"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked; who can know it?"
 
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I try to live as righteous a life as possible since being baptised and try to live a sinless life. But I still have problems with things like swearing and smoking mainly. I wish God would speak to me directly so I know where I'm at spiritually because if theres no hope in making it to heaven then I may as well just live recklessly right?
You want to be saved?

Mark 16:16

Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned.
 
So you must be in opposition to what Paul wrote below.

Romans 10:9-13
That if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead,
you will be saved; for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses,
resulting in salvation. For the Scripture says, “Whoever believes in Him will not be disappointed.” For there is no distinction
between Jew and Greek; for the same Lord is Lord of all, abounding in riches for all who call on Him; for
Whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.”

Some how you have inserted your own works (obedience) into that free gift of salvation.

Which means if you persist at some unknown level of obedience you will be saved?

Your salvation equation is shown below.

Jesus plus my obedience = salvation?

Not sure how you were taught a corrupted version of the Gospel of Jesus Christ?

You may be a Catholic that is whipping yourself with a branch to stop yourself sinning.

If you doing that keep going because you may, in fact, end up becoming perfect!

Matthew 5:48
Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

See Jesus said that.

Problem is Jesus was not talking about your perfection but His perfect righteousness which you receive as a gift.

Romans 5:17
"For if, by the trespass of the one man, death reigned through that one man, how much more will those who receive
God’s abundant provision of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man, Jesus Christ!"

2 Corinthians 9:15
Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift!
what are the remedies for sin in this life?

faith, hope, & charity
prayer
grace
suffering

mt 7:7
mt 7:14
mt 26:41
1 cor 13:13
2 cor 12:9
Lk 9:23
phil 1:29
1 pet 4:1

The purpose of our creation is the means of our salvation!

To Know, Love, & Serve God!

eph 2:10
For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them

thks

2 Corinthians 9:8
And God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work:

1 pet 2:24 Who his own self bare our sins in his own body on the tree, that we, being dead to sins, should live unto righteousness: by whose stripes ye were healed.

Lk 1:75 In holiness and righteousness before him, all the days of our life.

Acts 10:35 But in every nation he that feareth him, and worketh righteousness, is accepted with him.

Jude 1:21 Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.

Romans 2:7
To them who by patient continuance in well doing seek for glory and honour and immortality, eternal life:

Hebrews 10:36
For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise.
(eternal salvation)
 
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Depends whether your trusting in Jesus for your salvation or your relying on your own attempt at righteousness.

Who saves you?

I'm relying on both Jesus and myself because I believe that my actions contribute towards my salvation. As the scriptures say:

"faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead."
James 2:17

"a person is justified by works and not by faith alone."
James 2:24

"faith apart from works is dead."
James 2:26

So I believe that in order for me to be saved I need to put in the righteous work, which is to live and act how Jesus is training me to, and have faith that he's backing me BECAUSE I'm following his instructions. But if I ignore his instructions then He won't back me regardless of the faith I have in Him.
 
I try to live as righteous a life as possible since being baptised and try to live a sinless life. But I still have problems with things like swearing and smoking mainly. I wish God would speak to me directly so I know where I'm at spiritually because if theres no hope in making it to heaven then I may as well just live recklessly right?
1st Timothy , Ch 6 , V 3-16 .
 
yes it says "you shall be saved" but it does not say or imply instant salvation we still must continue to believe and confess

Romans 13:11
And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed.

we don't have eternal salvation because of a momentary and microscopic act of faith!

thks

Promise of future eternal salvation!

Our Inheritance!

Psalm 37:18
The Lord knoweth the days of the upright: and their inheritance shall be for ever.

mk 10:30 But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life. (salvation)


Acts 20:32
And now, brethren, I commend you to God, and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are sanctified.

Galatians 3:18
For if the inheritance be of the law, it is no more of promise: but God gave it to Abraham by promise.

Ephesians 1:14
Which is the earnest (promise) of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, unto the praise of his glory.

Ephesians 1:18
The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints,

Ephesians 5:5
For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.

Colossians 1:12
Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light:

Colossians 3:24
Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.

heb 9:15
And for this cause he is the mediator of the new testament, that by means of death, for the redemption of the transgressions that were under the first testament, they which are called might receive the promise of eternal inheritance.

Hebrews 10:36
For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise.
(eternal salvation)


1 Peter 1:4
To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you,

Here and now we have the Grace of God with the promise of eternal salvation to come! Amen!
You are rejecting that free gift of salvation and that perfect gift of righteousness.

Because you are striving to accomplish that perfection that Jesus commanded.

Romans 5:10
For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having
been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life.

You have nothing to do with that reconciliation and your saved by His life not anything you do in your life.

2 Corinthians 5:18
Now all these things are from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation.

You definitely have a gospel that states that your input into that reconciliation saves you.

What is amazing about grace if it's all about your own effort to realize salvation?
 
So you must be in opposition to what Paul wrote below.

Romans 10:9-13
That if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead,
you will be saved; for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses,
resulting in salvation. For the Scripture says, “Whoever believes in Him will not be disappointed.” For there is no distinction
between Jew and Greek; for the same Lord is Lord of all, abounding in riches for all who call on Him; for
Whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.”

Some how you have inserted your own works (obedience) into that free gift of salvation.

Which means if you persist at some unknown level of obedience you will be saved?

Your salvation equation is shown below.

Jesus plus my obedience = salvation?

Not sure how you were taught a corrupted version of the Gospel of Jesus Christ?

You may be a Catholic that is whipping yourself with a branch to stop yourself sinning.

If you doing that keep going because you may, in fact, end up becoming perfect!

Matthew 5:48
Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

See Jesus said that.

Problem is Jesus was not talking about your perfection but His perfect righteousness which you receive as a gift.

Romans 5:17
"For if, by the trespass of the one man, death reigned through that one man, how much more will those who receive
God’s abundant provision of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man, Jesus Christ!"

2 Corinthians 9:15
Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift!
the narrow road (obedience) leads to life! mt 7:14

((grace questions))

do we have eternal salvation and eternal salvation more abundantly?

Jn 10:10

do we have eternal salvation to be on the narrow road that leads to eternal salvation?

Mt 7:14

Why are we promised eternal salvation if we possess eternal salvation?

Mk 10:30

Why have hope of eternal salvation if we possess eternal salvation?

Matthew 25:46

Romans 2:7

titus 1:2

eternal security opposes the virture of Hope and the holy Spirit of promise!

thks
 
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So you must be in opposition to what Paul wrote below.

Romans 10:9-13
That if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead,
you will be saved; for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses,
resulting in salvation. For the Scripture says, “Whoever believes in Him will not be disappointed.” For there is no distinction
between Jew and Greek; for the same Lord is Lord of all, abounding in riches for all who call on Him; for
Whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.”

Some how you have inserted your own works (obedience) into that free gift of salvation.

Which means if you persist at some unknown level of obedience you will be saved?

Your salvation equation is shown below.

Jesus plus my obedience = salvation?

Not sure how you were taught a corrupted version of the Gospel of Jesus Christ?

You may be a Catholic that is whipping yourself with a branch to stop yourself sinning.

If you doing that keep going because you may, in fact, end up becoming perfect!

Matthew 5:48
Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

See Jesus said that.

Problem is Jesus was not talking about your perfection but His perfect righteousness which you receive as a gift.

Romans 5:17
"For if, by the trespass of the one man, death reigned through that one man, how much more will those who receive
God’s abundant provision of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man, Jesus Christ!"

2 Corinthians 9:15
Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift!
deeds of righteousness

rom 8:1
There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.

((walking refers to the performance of deeds))


Gal 6:7-8

7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

((sowing refers to the performance of deeds))

Romans 8:13
For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live.

((to live according to the flesh or according to Spirit refers to to the performance of deeds))

It impossible to walk, sow, or live without deeds!

The rightous walk, sow, & live by the deeds of the Spirit!

1 pet 2:24 Who his own self bare our sins in his own body on the tree, that we, being dead to sins, should live unto righteousness: by whose stripes ye were healed.

Deeds of the Spirit are the deeds of righteousness!

acts 10:35 we are accepted WITH HIM!

thks
 
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I'm relying on both Jesus and myself because I believe that my actions contribute towards my salvation
Blasphemy, blasphemy, blasphemy.

Colossians 1:13-14
For He rescued us from the domain of darkness, and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, in whom
we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.

Did you transfer yourself from the domain of darkness to the kingdom above?

That gift of the atonement by Jesus, that perfect sacrifice for your evil ways, is what saves you.

You have the traditional heretical understanding of that free gift of salvation given to those, that call on the name
of Jesus.
 
the narrow road (obedience) leads to life! mt 7:14

((grace questions))

do we have eternal salvation and eternal salvation more abundantly?

Jn 10:10

do we have eternal salvation to be on the narrow road that leads to eternal salvation?

Mt 7:14

Why are we promised eternal salvation if we possess eternal salvation?

Mk 10:30

Why have hope of eternal salvation if we possess eternal salvation?

Matthew 25:46

Romans 2:7

titus 1:2

eternal security opposes the virture of Hope and the holy Spirit of promise!

thks
The narrow road, the doorway, the Truth, is and only is Jesus at every point in the New Testament.

Do not pollute the Gospel of Jesus Christ with your pathetic attempts at a personal righteousness.

That narrow road your on is a self centered, self righteous, failed attempt to justify yourself.
 
You want to be saved?

Mark 16:16

Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned.

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven."
Matthew 7:21

"For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,"
Ephesians 2:8

"What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him?"
James 2:14

"For as the body apart from the spirit is dead, so also faith apart from works is dead."
James 2:26
 
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I'm relying on both Jesus and myself because I believe that my actions contribute towards my salvation. As the scriptures say:

"faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead."
James 2:17

"a person is justified by works and not by faith alone."
James 2:24

"faith apart from works is dead."
James 2:26

So I believe that in order for me to be saved I need to put in the righteous work, which is to live and act how Jesus is training me to, and have faith that he's backing me BECAUSE I'm following his instructions. But if I ignore his instructions then He won't back me regardless of the faith I have in Him.


If you are convinced by that preacher that James chapter 2 is THE gospel chapter, then think about this.

James 2:10

10For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all.
Oops! I wonder if that preacher ever committed one sin? 🤔
If so he blew it already and is guilty as if he broke the entire law.
That's what you will be judged by IF that's what you want.
Jesus will therefore judge THOSE people according to their works !
ALL will be found guilty and cast into the Lake if Fire. Revelation 21:8 KJV
If you want to try really hard, just in case Jesus didn't really do it all, the Father will let you. He will not force you to trust His Son and consider His suffering in your place. If you wish to add your own righteousness to what Jesus did, it is akin to tossing your Kleenex, flushable wipes and all manner of filthy rags at His cross, His suffering, His one and only sacrifice.
You might not see your righteousness like that, but it's very offensive to Christ, the Father and the Holy Spirit when people compare their own righteousness to that of the sinless Savior. It is also offensive to the Lord to consider that what He went through was incomplete. He said, "It is finished. And He gave up the ghost.'

But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags.

Isaiah 64

If he trust to his own righteousness, and commit iniquity, all his righteousnesses shall not be remembered; but for his iniquity that he hath committed, he shall die for it.
Ezekiel 33

Could that preacher who put his spin on James 2 as his gospel chapter up and against the entire 100 times God put BELIEVE in the gospel of John alone....might that pastor be mistaken and need to repent (change his mind) about who exactly he wants to trust?
 
What do you mean exactly? I thought being baptised was being born again. Do you mean being baptised with the Holy Spirit? If so, nothing miraculous has happened to me yet. That's basically what I was hoping would happen.
become a born again Christian, study what i told you to & ask the H.S. for assistance. that's it. ask a pastor for help if you can't figure it out.
 
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The reason I need to feel something is because i was forced to leave my old life with God's help, and during the process I lost my earthly elderly father who sadly passed away because I wasn't able to be there to look after him. So I suppose what I want partially is for God to fill that void because He's a personal God so I want to have a personal relationship with Him rather than just being sent letters and messages through His writings.

Many adopted children want to meet their parents so it's no difference me wanting to meet my heavenly Father or any of His Triune characters. I don't think that's to much to ask for really considering I haven't ever had an actual spiritual experience with Him at all before or after being baptised and yet I still believe in him 100%.

Also, I was attacked by demons a few years ago and was put in hospital as a result. Obviously that was different but even then I went to a church a week later for relief because the constant attacks, hallucinations and demonic activity nearly drove me insane, but Id previously studied demonology so I recognised what was actually happening rather than assuming it was late stage schizophrenia (because i was around 43 then).

My point is, demons manifested themselves to me visually, and spoke to me and even physically attacked me so I know that God can appear to me if He wants to like He did for Paul on the road to Damascus, or even to people who have had NDE's (near death experiences). And Im not even saying that I expect him to necessarily appear to me. I just want to have a spiritual experience that I know is from Him.

He already convinced me to turn my life around and follow him so I just want him to interact with me so I don't feel like I'm dealing with this on my own, because once you know He's real and want to live according to His teachings it's hard to communicate with most worldly people that don't know the truth about our reality so life can become a very lonely place, because most people think your nuts if you believe in God let alone Christ.

I wouldn't expect God to appear to me over and over, again, it's not like that. Just one true encounter with Him would be satisfy my craving. But even if He doesn't I will still believe in Him and have faith, because of the evidence of His life and what He has done in mine also. Do you honestly think that this is too much to ask for?
No, it's not too much to ask. I've had a few experiences myself over the last 55 years or so. Even before I was saved, God answered my prayer. It did me no good. I told myself it was coincidence. I believed that God was real, but I imagined Him to be out to make men suffer.

It was another 8 years or so before I accepted Christ. I wrestled with God for years. He called me Jacob one time. I was stupid, relying on logic and reason and looking at self and circumstances. Now I rely entirely on the Word of God. God says that He loves me. That's enough for me now.

My experiences were real enough. But that did not help me when life went pear shaped.

My advice is to study God's word to discover what is yours already in Christ. My best "feelings", if that is the way to describe experiences, have been when I was thanking and praising God for the good things that He has done. There was one time when it was as if nothing around me existed. Just me and Jesus. A few weeks later I was complaining because the military had sent me somewhere I did not want to go.

So by all means ask God to reveal Himself to you. Moses pleaded with God to show Moses God's ways. And God answered that cry. Make sure that you have confessed any sin. You also need to examine your heart to see if there is any unforgiveness there.​
 
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I just wanna add that I'm literally overflowing with love for all humanity even people that have nearly ruined me completely, so when I say I should just live recklessly, I don't mean that I wouldn't be loving towards others. What I mean is to live in a self destructive and self loathing manner by sinning against myself through a sense of worthlessness as I did up until 2 years ago.
Destroying yourself is not loving toward others. You are deceived.
 
Regardless of how "heartfelt" your feel about your sin before God it does not prove your fate.

Jeremiah 17:9

"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked; who can know it?"
Where the new covenant is concerned, it is watertight, God did not put holes in it.
Under the core terms of the new covenant what was written in applicable law is placed in believers hearts, something Paul believed had happened to gentiles believers when he wrote his letters:
Through the law we become conscious of sin Rom3:20
Therefore, if you have heartfelt consciousness of sin before God it proves you are saved and in covenant
 
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You might benefit from a review of what Paul tells us about our salvation, and by implication what he says about his own. He describes salvation in three different ways, which I will present in a random order, just as I was taught about them. He assures us that we are saved, we have been made clean and acceptable to God. He tells us that we are being saved, that we are undergoing a cleansing process that will make us clean and acceptable to God. And he also tells us that we will be saved, that at some future point in time, God will actively cleanse us and make us acceptable to Him.

Now, if you keep all three statements in mind, the only certainty is that at some point in time, you will become cleansed and acceptable to God, whether you can see that time in your present moment of not.
 
If someone wants their marriage to work, they have to work at their marriage. That means spending time with each other and getting to know each other. The Christian life is also about relationship.

I agree completely. In order to make their marriage work they need to spend time with eachother to know eachother, because the Christian life is about having an actual relationship and not just about the husband permanently working away while leaving post it notes all over the fridge or text messages on her phone to communicate with her, when instead he could just call her or come home instead to spend quality time with her at least once in a while.

We need to study God's word to discover the wonderful promises that we have in Christ. We need to fellowship with Him and get to know Him.

I feel that I'm in fellowship with God every day with every spare minute that I get, because when I say I read bits of the Bible everyday that's a bit of an understatement, because right now I've got 7 versions of the Bible spread out on my table and they're all permanently open all the time because I'm constantly scanning, comparing, absorbing and studying His words daily like the Berean Jews of Paul's time, always trying to understand Him better while strengthening my relationship with Him as He teaches me various subjects and different life lessons through the scriptures.

God knows my heart and knows the love I have for Him and for others and how much faith I have in Him. So He knows I don't need a miracle to believe in Him, because the Bibles prophecies and The Dead Sea Scrolls should be proof enough of His existence for any rational thinking person. All I would like from Him is His seal of approval or disapproval of the way that I'm living my life right now and whether it will lead me to heaven or not.

As you probably know, most if not all of God's messenger's and prophets of old had the assurance of heaven like Adam, Enoch, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, Moses, Joshua, David, Solomon, Elijah, the 12 Disciples, Paul etc. So why is it wrong for me to want the answer to such an obvious question? And why do some people think its almost blasphemous to ask that question when its like the elephant in the room to me and a question that I think each of us should seriously question.
 
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