No.This is your train of thought:
Are you going through a manic episode? I'm putting you on ignore for a while. I'm going to stay on topic on this thread.
I was directly referencing this, not 2nd Time and regardless of whether it's for prepping or not what I said is simply true: whether it's the End Times or not we must live and love and act like it is. Because that's what Jesus tells us to do several times.
I tried to tell you...
Above all you should realize and keep in mind, it is nothing personal. Lanolin ain't out to getcha or prove you wrong or something. She's just being Lanolin.
Absolutely, I understand where she is coming from but like @2ndTimeIsTheCharm was saying the thought process is nonsensical and frankly comes across either manic or (in my opinion moreso) undiagnosed AuDHD.
*shrug
i assent with you that there shouldn't be a right or wrong. that's just the way i spoke it. yes, i could have chosen different words like a psychologist would have. thanks for the correction. true, i seriously consider her view, that's 1 of the reasons why i stare at her constantly, it brings to light what you just said. i assent again. look at other post of mine on this subject, its never an intimidation element. she's not scared of me at all & that's how life should be, she's very comfortable around me. your 2nd to the last statement is where the issue of not seeing the person you are talking to enters. there's a huge amount of reading into what was said that is incorrect. lots of assuming. i certainly know that we are living in an age of a high level of self protection, especially for women. so often here on CC, we all should have in mind what someone is really meaning. lets not be afraid to ask what the direct point is. it will eliminate assuming & guessing. i am hearing your words as a teaching lesson with respect. thank you.Hi Karlon, I've never met your wife or heard yall argue so I don't want to say too much. But please keep in mind that when a couple disagrees, VERY RARELY is it a case of one being 100% wrong and the other 100% right.
As the head of the household, it is your job to seriously consider your wife's point of view and adjust accordingly. No, she shouldn't run the show, but being the head does not mean you will or should always "win", regardless of her debate skills.
I'm just on the outside looking in, but the way you have described yalls "discussions" sounds very unhealthy on many levels. Hopefully that is not actuslly the case, but you owe it to her and yourself to find out.
but I am not Thea and yall chose each other for a reason ❤. . At this point it is between you, God, and your wife and I will refrain from further comment. All the best to you both! 🕊 
wow! super! thank you so much for the compliment. you can be my new Christian sister as i never had a sister. it would be difficult to find an improvement in our marriage. its really fantastic as 2 people dating for the 1st time. very kind posting that i appreciate!Hi Karlon, just to clarify my comment that the discussion style you described sounded unhealthy:
If your wife is coming at you with a lot of "Tommyrot" and off-topic rambling when you are trying to have a serious conversation, that is also unhealthy, unfair to you and something she needs to work on herself.
But yes, as I stated, I've never witnessed yalls discussions and every couple has their own style of communicating. The dynamic you described would drive me absolutely insane lol
I know you love her dearly and If I didn't think so I probably wouldn't have said anything at all. But even great marriages can always be better,
I respect your position as head of the household so IF any change is to happen you would be the ideal one to initiate it. But perhaps all is as it should be
. But that means Imma show up at your antique shop unannounced and re-arrange some displays, critique your pricing and then demand you buy me lunch. It's how I treat all my sibs 
..
my 1st laugh of the day! have you an interest in antiques with a follow-up? speaking of antiques, i completed the buyout of he guy's enamelware & graniteware collection. i've been working on it for hours. women also implement feelings much more than a guy would but that's woman's way of speaking to her man in many ways, like "i want attention", "feel what i'm feeling" or "i want to be listened to more". yes, ma'am, i'll deal with it, i have to, your my sister now!!!! yeah!!! i have said for decades that it is women that bind a relationship together more than men. i've seen so many women stick to their men like real love. thanks for your input. do you want to buy somer antiques? don't forget, i'll have to charge you sales tax & if your late, that's a late fee, & if you sass back, that's an aggravation fee & if you waste my time, that's a procrastination fee. so to SUM it, i'm joking!!!!! nyuknyuknyukOK cool, I always wanted an older brother
For real, I know yall have a great relationship but it's possible Thea is just trying to let you in on her thought process when it seems like she is going off-topic. Women tend to take a LOT of factors into account when making a decision, like wondering what their third-grade piano teacher would think. No, its not always valid input but it's not always useless either. Obviously I'm not there to know but it's something to take into consideration if you can. Women are weird but we do know a thing or two and being heard is important
(Yes I said I wouldn't comment further but that was before you said we could be sibs and all my sibs put up with my rambly observations, so deal widdit)
..
