Sex is a picture of progression in prayer and communion with Him (It’s also a picture of the temple) - the believer begins by praying and inviting Jesus’s presence, calling His name. The believer prays until they feel a release or an importation. Praying and listening until they receive a response.sex is essential in the marriage act, does that mirror the relationship with Jesus? What he taught is the opposite, there’s no marriage in resurrection when we’re in eternal Union with him.
Lovette, this is very basic stuff. Not sure what level of church or spiritual training you’ve received but I would advise to ask God to draw resources and people to you that will help you grow.