J
Am I the only one who is totally fed up with dating games? Apparently people view dating from different perspectives. For some it is just a game. Have you ever run into these situations?
- It’s almost as if you should carry around a checklist to give to whomever should ask. As Gabe said, it’s almost like applying for a job sometimes. How romantic….ugh… Isn’t getting to know someone the whole idea behind dating? Isn’t it one of the most endearing processes?
- For some people certain rules have to be followed. A first date can only be this. A third date must include this. If I ever find the rule book, I’m setting it on fire. You have been warned. Who wrote that thing anyway???
- Some guys will ask you to marry them after two conversations. What’s up with that?
- Some guys will try to date you just to see if you will say yes. Once you say yes, game over. On to the next victim. They don’t really have the nerve to date you, they are simply trying to learn how it’s done.
- Some ladies/guys will date you just to intentionally hurt you in order to get back at someone who LOOKED like you or you remind them of that person somehow. That’s got to be the wierdest thing EVER! Once you understand that, it’s so ridiculous you laugh, which really tends to make them angry. I normally try to be at peace with others, but people who do stuff like that really need psych help.
Maybe these things are exactly WHY people develop checklists. I may start passing out this one J:
1. Are you a christian? A real one or do you just say that to get christians to date you?
2. Are you emotionally unstable?
3. Do you have dating issues/vendettas?
4. Have you ever actually dated a real person?
The games get old. If people will mess with you like that over dating issues, can you even begin to imagine what it would be like to attempt a relationship with them? Just the thought of it makes my brain fuzz up.