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My uncle's first name combined with my dad's middle name, if a boy. And a variation of my mom's name for a girl.

I chose my Uncle's name, because he became a sort of father figure to me when my dad died.

What about you Liam?

Snacker'smom, have you given Snacker's a new hair style yet, and if so, do you have a pic?

For a Boy I like "Christian" from Pilgrim's Progress. And for girls I like Faith, Hope, Charity, Grace and stuff like that. :)
 
Great question, Liamson (regarding baby names). I've always been partial to "Christopher Michael"... common names, but it just sounds so doggone stately :). I actually love all kinds of names and it would be hard to pare it down to just a few. I knew of someone who had twins, "Nathan" and "Jathan", which I thought was kind of cool. Though I've teased my friends that if I had twins, I would name them classic things such as "Peanut Butter" and "Jelly", or "Salt" and "Pepper". :D

I then feel the need to pull a 180 as far as girls' names go... while I love classics such as "Sara", "Linda", and "Leah", I also love harder-to-find names such as Arianna, Aurora, and Angelica (or maybe I'm just on a roll with the A's here.) :)

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Nod (Holly)--I know you've mentioned before that your Dad is a pastor--what was that like growing up? Did you feel people were much harsher on you because of it? What advice would you have for those in the spotlight and those of us who may be tempted to (unfairly) put higher standards on a pastor's family?

Liamson--if this is too personal, please disregard! Do you feel the field of mental health has helped your family very much, or, in your opinion, is it just a bunch of smoke and mirrors? Or does it really depend on the individual cases? When I was studying behavioral psych in school, I often wondered how much real progress was made. Sure, the people making a living off it claimed there were big strides, but I always wondered what kind of answers you'd get from the recipients.

Ugly--How long did it take to grow your beard? :) Very cool.

Catlynn--What is your favorite thing about being a mom to your daughter (she's so cute), and what advice would you give to other young, probably very scared, mothers-to-be?

FOR EVERYONE: Are you a morning or night person? And what's your favorite kind of sandwich? :) Yeah, I like to be random like that. ;)

I am definitely a morning person--always have been. Even as a kid, I would go to bed at 9 PM, get up at 3 AM, do my homework, then nap for an hour or two before school. I still hold a similar schedule today. Favorite sandwich(es!)--my Mom got me hooked on Reubens! MMM. Other faves include ham and cheese, grilled cheese, and... do cheeseburgers count as sandwiches? (You may notice a common factor here... Don't forget the cheese!) :D
 
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Great question, Liamson (regarding baby names). I've always been partial to "Christopher Michael"... common names, but it just sounds so doggone stately :). I actually love all kinds of names and it would be hard to pare it down to just a few. I knew of someone who had twins, "Nathan" and "Jathan", which I thought was kind of cool. Though I've teased my friends that if I had twins, I would name them classic things such as "Peanut Butter" and "Jelly", or "Salt" and "Pepper". :D

I then feel the need to pull a 180 as far as girls' names go... while I love classics such as "Sara", "Linda", and "Leah", I also love harder-to-find names such as Arianna, Aurora, and Angelica (or maybe I'm just on a roll with the A's here.) :)

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Liamson--if this is too personal, please disregard! Do you feel the field of mental health has helped your family very much, or, in your opinion, is it just a bunch of smoke and mirrors? Or does it really depend on the individual cases? When I was studying behavioral psych in school, I often wondered how much real progress was made. Sure, the people making a living off it claimed there were big strides, but I always wondered what kind of answers you'd get from the recipients.

Well, in my experience Mental health is based a lot on the time energy and authenticity people put into it. Like My mother played the system a lot and the mental health professionals who saw through what she was selling she didn't like, so she found ones that would buy what she was selling. She used her mental condition as leverage against her work and my dad. I felt like I was the only one who could see that and for the most part still do.

However, My birth mother from whom I was adopted is quite the opposite. She has Schizophrenia and has made significant progress due to therapy as well as medications.

Christopher Micheal... wasn't that the name of the boy from Winnie the Pooh?

I like Sara and Leah. I've met too many Linda's to name my kid that. Aurora is a princess' name. :)

The only Arianna I know of is Huffington, which probably isn't best example. And the only Angelica I know is the one from Rugrats, also probably not what you were thinking of.
 
Julianna: How did you meet your husband? :)

Zeroturbulence: You mentioned once that you were agnostic for a while. How did you find Jesus? :)

I would love to tell this, but I am wondering if putting it here is the right thing to do. Have you ever poured your heart out in a long post and then it just gets ignored? Thats one of the things I am afraid of because its not a very exciting story at all. The other reason is that people might scoff at it because a big part of it has to do with catholic stuff.
 
Liamson: Names I like - Jullianna (not my real name as you know) or Amy Nicole (what I'd planned to name my son if he'd been a girl) for a girl. Boy names I like - Kelly, Liam or Iain. My son is named after both of his grandfathers. Family is important to me.

I had always wanted to ask what had sparked your interest in psychology, but you've already answered that.

(For the record, Rugrats rock :) )

Julianna: How did you meet your husband? :)
I had just started my freshman year of college and had gone rollerskating with my roommate. A lot of us were playing crack the whip and racing on skates, and this one cute, quiet guy kept smiling at me and kicking my butt at everything. I started laughing, called him a jerk, he called me a brat and we got married soon after. :)

Jullianna - Do police really like donuts as much as movies say? Did you eat lots of donuts when you were one?
It's a joke. :) In thinking about it, I can't remember ever seeing any of the guys I worked with ever eat a donut. I only like chocolate covered longjohns without the creme filling, but not very often. I'm not big on sweets. :) Cops DO drink a TON of coffee (not me though; don't like it; love my sweet tea and Dr Pepper), mostly to say awake all night. We also liked to meet for breakfast a lot, but it was eggs or biscuits and gravy, not donuts. :) One guy always took my toast.

FOR EVERYONE: Are you a morning or night person? And what's your favorite kind of sandwich? :) Yeah, I like to be random like that. ;)

NIGHT person, absolutely :) I listen great in the morning, but don't expect an answer til around 10 or after.

Favorite sandwiches: grilled cheese, BLT or curried chicken salad. The ultimate: CHILI CHEESE DOGS :D
 
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The only Arianna I know of is Huffington, which probably isn't best example. And the only Angelica I know is the one from Rugrats, also probably not what you were thinking of.

OOHH, the Rugrats... had forgotten all about them!! It's definitely NOT from that show!! :)

Was thinking of a favorite old Saturday cartoon: "Spiderman and His Amazing Friends" (Fire Star... aka, Angelica Jones. :D)

Thank you for your honest answers regarding the mental health field--I find it very interesting that you point out how recipients can play the system... I know this is a bit different, I worked at a school for kids with developmental issues for a semester and it was often a very disheartening cycle. The kids used many of their behaviors for attention... whether positive or negative--there was no way to win or move forward.
 
Ritter: I totally understand how 911 affected the direction of your life. It did mine as well. We need more like you out there. There are people with brains. There are people with wisdom. I've seen few with both at your level.

Likewise, Jullianna and thank you.

Zero, Nod, Seoul, Liz, Green, Lightning, Jules, Ritter, Viola What do you guys have in mind as far as baby names go? (for the children you don't have)

^reminds me of Power Rangers for some reason^

Richard, Seth, Sean, Josh, John and Lawrence.

Heather, Jennifer, Rachel, Paige, and Amy.

I will post this with a caveat that if my future wife has a strong leaning toward a name that isn't ridiculous, I'll concede victory to her.
 
Jullianna: I got this speeding ticket for $124 the other week. You have any friends that would mind looking the other way in Western VA?
 
Do you have a question you've always wanted to ask someone who frequents these forums, but you don't because you don't want to derail a thread? Happens to me all the time. :) Here's your chance. Fire at will.

Gabe: You play drums extremely well. Do you play now for pleasure or for others in some way?

McCharming: Why did you decide to become a vegetarian?

Ritter: Do you plan to run for office someday?

Holly: How did history come to play such an important part in your life?

CHC: Tell me a little bit about the personal struggle you went through..if you are comfortable in doing so.

Green: I know you are a writer. What sort of things do you write?

Kim: I know that you were adopted. Have you learned much about your birth family or have you been interested in that at all? I ask because I HAD to learn as much as I could about my bio dad when I became a cop. (If you aren't comfortable talking about it, I lovingly ask that you just ignore the question. :) )

LightningClap: I THINK you said something in a thread about some serious health issues God had brought you through. Did I? What happened?

niceguy: Why are you so quiet? :)

AGAIN, IF ANY OF THE QUESTIONS MAKE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE IN ANY WAY, PLEASE JUST IGNORE THEM. :) AND FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE POSING QUESTIONS, PLEASE GIVE THEM CAREFUL CONSIDERATION BEFORE YOU TYPE THEM. THANKS. :) I'M NOT A PARTICULARLY SENSITIVE PERSON WHEN IT COMES TO STUFF LIKE THIS, BUT I REALIZE OTHERS MIGHT BE. :)
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Nods is going to love this answer ;) , sports, exclusively, I've watched kids play sports mostly, young'uns and older ones. In my time writing , including college, I've done stories on just about every sport in the book, even lacrosse, Lightnin' :D Nice story, by the way, may God bless you for your transparency. Both you and Seoulseaeching got stories the stuff GREAT books are made of :) ------
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Ritter, why do I call myself GreenNnice? I chose green as my favorite color when I was about age 10 and its stuck, plus, I live in the Pacific Northwest, and, our state, Washington, is 'The Evergreen State,' filled with HUGE pine and fir trees, plus, I am green when it comes to dating, though my age is correct, just never have, although I did dance Friday and Saturday nights in college way back when, and really have had no fear of asking girls out I've just never seen it right time from Him and I know that my choices in life have affected that potential outcome but I've never doubted God's plan for my life, going forward, He has ALWAYS led me blessed, in all my work and family and friends, plus, I have a lot of green in my eyes. :)
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Seoulsearching, I am content because I made a faith choice to believe in God to take care of me in life long aco, and, though I did backslide in my mid-20's, doing things akin to not trusting in God I never most faith in my Creator. I realized I could make great big mistakes of sin and He would provide ways for me to get deliverance :) That mind of storybook way of God personallly loving me with providing individual ways to rebuke different sins has made me privy to His ways of living with no doubt whatever happens now was taking care of in my past so I KNOW God will take care of whatever comes my way in my future :)
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Snackersmommy, yes, the Lord leads, I am at a juncture in my life now where I am getting ready to ask God what He wants me to do for a next step of serving Him, that question you ask of 'property' is something I'm praying only comes true if it is the best way for me to glorify Him in the future. :)
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liam - do you see yourself married in 4 years, why / why not?
Lightnin' - What is the work you said in another post you like doing now , why call it 'career,' as you have?
Julieannie - what makes you think you want to become police officer and not police chief?
Snackersmommy - Why are you named 'nicole,' after who, why and how do you serve the Big Boss?
Nods-- how come at times you post with so much thought and intelligence but most often hard line it?
Elizzy - (I know she hasn't been around c.c. forever, one u girls pm her, k, she did 'complement' thread)
What was your last relationship like, and, has a guy ever treated you very bitterly? What happened?
Lizzytheone - Been in México all your life, , and, also, what could you do without in life?
Jilly - You are spunky , filled with energy, how did you get that way?
Zere - I see a creative, desktop publishing, bit of genius in you. Do you?
KayM - 19 and life! What are you doing with yours now, and why?
Seoulsearching - Have you quit paying the way for guys and started praying for His way to the right guy?
AAA+ - What kind of girl would you describe to God you want?
Ug - Did you have a rough childhood growing up?
Catty - Explain for us how you miraculously became God's girl from being a world girl?
Relena - Did your parents name you after beautiful latino singer, Selena?
POP!clickt - what makes you crackle? Snap? how do yoy know God us ticking your life now?
Realthinggirl (iwannaknowthetruth) - what is the truth to you?
Socialmuse - You're a good debater, despite your mean ways of arguing, why is it you can debate good?
Lukeboywalker - what happened in your life and got you to drop the scotch?

I'm surely leaving some out. I will get you next time, grrrr :D ,the Lord leads. :)
 
Snackersmom: how did Snackers come to be?

Viola: Do you teach adults or kids? Which is easier?

Catlynn: What surprises you most about being a mom?

Kayem: What was your first impression of California? (you DO live in CA, right?)
 
Likewise, Jullianna and thank you.



Richard, Seth, Sean, Josh, John and Lawrence.

Heather, Jennifer, Rachel, Paige, and Amy.

I will post this with a caveat that if my future wife has a strong leaning toward a name that isn't ridiculous, I'll concede victory to her.

Ritter, perhaps you and your future wife can take up a family vote.

I'm sure you'd be more than happy (not to mention experienced) to work on the campaign(s). :) You can't concede victory completely before hearing the voice of the people!! Democracy is alive and well!! :D J/K! :)
 
Julieannie - what makes you think you want to become police officer and not police chief?

I would make a terrible chief. :D Most importantly, I'm not a politician, I don't kiss butt well and I wouldn't have the time to dedicate to the things I really love. I like direct contact with people. I like looking for what most people will never see. I love puzzles. I love the quest. I love bad guys not getting away with it.

Actually though, I've been thinking more along the lines of teaching. We'll see. :)
 
Seoulsearching - Have you quit paying the way for guys and started praying for His way to the right guy?

Green--

You will be happy to know that I've told myself I will not date any more guys who need me to pay their way. I will, from no on, only date guys who can afford to pay their own way (I'm not asking them to pay my way, I'm just hoping that they can at least pay their own.)

This leads to some accusing me of being materialistic and all about money. I've " solved" the problem by not dating anyone for a very long time!!

I do keep praying that someday God will bless me with an amazing, compassionate, Spirit-filled guy... who can afford to pay for his own sandwich (and fries, if we're feeling especially decadent) without thinking I am some kind of prima donna or gold digger (I would appreciate old-fashioned chivalry if he offered to pay for my sandwich, but am able to pay for mine if need be.) ;)

You might say I'm waiting for the guy who has his own green so that I don't have to fork it out (until I'm in the red.) :)
 
Green - I don't see myself being married in 4 years. I would have to fall in love before then and I can't imagine that.


Zero I love your Baby names :)
 
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Snackersmom: how did Snackers come to be?

Viola: Do you teach adults or kids? Which is easier?

Catlynn: What surprises you most about being a mom?

Kayem: What was your first impression of California? (you DO live in CA, right?)
I teach both. For understanding, teens. For some reason, I find that teens tend to do better when learning to play. The younger ones, around 3-5 have attention problems. 6-9 have understanding problems, and 10-12 are pretty close to teens. Once you get past say 20-21, then it starts to become harder for someone to learn. As for behavior wise, pretty much older children and adults are easiest to teach. (Wonder why that might be?)

FOR EVERYONE: Are you a morning or night person? And what's your favorite kind of sandwich? :) Yeah, I like to be random like that. ;)
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Late night person. I tend to have more energy when it's late at night.

As for my favorite sandwich, it would probably be a wrap, because it has less bread than a traditional sandwich has. I especially love it with some type of cream cheese, lettuce, turkey, provolone or munster cheese, and peppers.

Seoul, what's your favorite type of cheese?

For everyone,

Do you on a pet and if so, what kind? Why did you choose your pet, or did it choose you?
 
Green - I don't see myself being married in 4 years. I would have to fall in love before then and I can't imagine that.


Zero I love your Baby names :)

A lot can change in 4 years ;)

and thanks! :)

and I am a late night person, but have been a morning person in the past. Trying to be a morning person again.
 
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