Same sex marriage is an abomination and if you support it you are not a christian

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look at the phrase "Holy matrimony" how is it possible to take an abomination and consecrate it Holy?

its not just homosexuality. You can't do that with any sin. That would be like "well, I can't change this one sin I keep repeating. So I'll use my one free pass now.

what about those guys who take many wives? polygamy? is that okay? if they can't settle for the wife of their youth can they just marry every girl they want to sleep with?
 
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what do we know of Holy? it's God. Alone. God doesn't bend to us. We bend to Him. He is bigger than any of our individuality's. It is a fact that if there is something about me that doesn't exist in God, it doesn't win. That's any sin, that's every sin. If you make up of those things that aren't of God you lose yourself. One way, or another.
 
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Ok i am unsure if my one post stayed or was removed..i believe it is a sin..but there are many sins..and to me it is just as bad for a straight person who is a christian to be sleeping around with someone who they're not married to..many deal with the baggage of sexual sin..some of those deal with it in terms of porn..or homosexuality..or infidelity..but its all baggage and i just want to say i would hope everyone would be mindfull its a struggle and i beleve it isn't easy..its a problem/stronghold. We shoudl be compassionate and see people beyond their 'struggle' be it homosexuality, an eating disorder,pride, whatever sin/struggle.. We shouldn't nitpick and we should love the person who is wrapped up in the sin and not act in an isolationist manner and not befriend them or become homophobic. So many in the church treat gays and others as damaged goods..that's a flawed way to reach out to them. Are you surprised so many don't want to hear what you have to say? Why would they? You didn't love them or get to know them first..you just had an agenda to 'convert them quickly'. These things take time..and we should be patient with them, just as God is patient with us. Not excusing anything so everybody please hear what i am truly saying..i am not excusing it..but we should treat these matters with more sensitivity and not bludgeon people with the bible. Just saying..
 

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..We shoudl be compassionate and see people beyond their 'struggle' be it homosexuality, an eating disorder,pride, whatever sin/struggle..
If people are proud about their sin they can not repent of it. God hates the proud, yes, even the look of the proud (Prov.6:17). Those who are proud in their hearts are an abomination to Him (Prov.16:5) and He resists them (1Peter 5:5).
 
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If people are proud about their sin they can not repent of it. God hates the proud, yes, even the look of the proud (Prov.6:17). Those who are proud in their hearts are an abomination to Him (Prov.16:5) and He resists them (1Peter 5:5).
Who doesnt deal with pride Tribesman...the people who i have dealt with personally who have the biggest egos are in fact those who identify themselves as followers of Christ! Not the other way around..and i know what you mean..some may be proud..but don't mistaken the reaction of gays to the church failing the gay community by beating up side the head with a bible and calling the abominations or telling them God hates them! How's that going to get anyone to listen to you? If you are homophobic, treat them like they are unclean or incapable of any good moral choice whatsoever because they are gay how in the world are you going to reach them? Not very effectively i will tell you that..
People take time, and they rightfully have barriers and walls up regarding christians..i myself have walls up when a christian believer tells me 'brother im praying for you,thinking of you' sometimes that means they are simply wanting to get into my business to know what my struggles are so they can 'pray with the church' about my issues. That's not loving your fellow man, that's being a gossip and disguising it as caring. Many times christians say they are telling the truth in love when that only means they're making an ill attempt at 'rushing a gay person to the altar' and hoping that an express salvation prayer and maybe a few weeks of bible study/discipleship will change them. And if that's not the case they take the calvinistic approach and call them a reprobate unregenerate sinner..
that' bad for the gay person who needs Jesus and a bad representation of the church..
 

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Who doesnt deal with pride Tribesman...the people who i have dealt with personally who have the biggest egos are in fact those who identify themselves as followers of Christ! Not the other way around..and i know what you mean..some may be proud..but don't mistaken the reaction of gays to the church failing the gay community by beating up side the head with a bible and calling the abominations or telling them God hates them! How's that going to get anyone to listen to you? If you are homophobic, treat them like they are unclean or incapable of any good moral choice whatsoever because they are gay how in the world are you going to reach them? Not very effectively i will tell you that..
People take time, and they rightfully have barriers and walls up regarding christians..i myself have walls up when a christian believer tells me 'brother im praying for you,thinking of you' sometimes that means they are simply wanting to get into my business to know what my struggles are so they can 'pray with the church' about my issues. That's not loving your fellow man, that's being a gossip and disguising it as caring. Many times christians say they are telling the truth in love when that only means they're making an ill attempt at 'rushing a gay person to the altar' and hoping that an express salvation prayer and maybe a few weeks of bible study/discipleship will change them. And if that's not the case they take the calvinistic approach and call them a reprobate unregenerate sinner..
that' bad for the gay person who needs Jesus and a bad representation of the church..
I did not single out gays. I said that those who are proud about their sins can not repent of them. That is what I wrote. Read my text carefully and do not read in something into it which is not there. Just as you said yourself in another post. The end.
 
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I did not single out gays. I said that those who are proud about their sins can not repent of them. That is what I wrote. Read my text carefully and do not read in something into it which is not there. Just as you said yourself in another post. The end.
Lol, I never said i read into it buddy..but the fact is, we all deal with pride, hence your 'the end' response further proves this..

moving along now..
 

tribesman

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Lol, I never said i read into it buddy..but the fact is, we all deal with pride, hence your 'the end' response further proves this..

moving along now..
What do you mean by this?
 

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The evil one will always come and try to turn people from the TRUTH. It is written the "Truth will set you free" It is a sad situation when no one knws what your set free from.






Answer "False Info" You cant fall for what God calls an abomination if you knw the truth
 
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GAY MARRIDE ON THE BALLOT IN MAINE IT WAS DEFEATED FOUR TIMES,ON BALLOT FOR TIME # 5 PLEASE PRAY IT FAILS I AM POLITICALLY WORKING AGIANIST IT AS WELL AS PRAYING AGIANIST EACH AND EVERY DAY.
 
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In Romans Paul tells us that same sex relationship is shameful and is a sin. Romans 1:26-27
 
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GAY MARRIDE ON THE BALLOT IN MAINE IT WAS DEFEATED FOUR TIMES,ON BALLOT FOR TIME # 5 PLEASE PRAY IT FAILS I AM POLITICALLY WORKING AGIANIST IT AS WELL AS PRAYING AGIANIST EACH AND EVERY DAY.
And this is why I find myself shaking my head with everyday I live, because if you look at the skeletons of a group of people, you can't tell whether they were Gay, Straight, Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, Athiest, White, Black, or anything. Why should people be against something that doesn't involve them? If you feel that gay marriage will somehow corrupt you, then you let it. If you think that gay marriage will corrupt your children, then obviously, you aren't doing what you think you should be doing.
 
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well, you have to think, in the same book that it condemns homosexuality, it also condemns sex outside of marriage, however many Christians participate in this act also. Jesus died so that all the old laws from the Old Testament were void and we could be saved even though we sin. Also, while I'm not gonna use the arguement that God made people gay, there is proof that there are chemicals in the brain that control sexual attraction that could be effected during the pregnancy. While none of this changes the fact that it is indeed in the Bible as an abomination, so is a child born out of wedlock. You have to look at all sides and not just go off of one verse. If you're going off of this, you should refuse to touch women (even in nonsexual ways) while on their period. Sorry for the rant. If you actually read this whole thing, thank you. If not, I understand why. Please understand, I don't mean to offend you though. This is just my belief on this matter.
 
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we aren't questioning here if homosexuality is a sin. The question is can one consecrate a sin as Holy? the answer is an emphatic no.

the bible says marriage is between a man and a woman for this reason a man will leave his parents and cleave to his wife, as one flesh because they came from one flesh, a man was never to cleave to a man, they don't spiritually or physically combine that way, Nor is a woman complete without a man spiritually or physically. If someone wants to sin legally fine. Have the government name it something else. Marriage is Gods and its Holy and its only intended the way GOD designed it. Not man.
 
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we aren't questioning here if homosexuality is a sin. The question is can one consecrate a sin as Holy? the answer is an emphatic no.

the bible says marriage is between a man and a woman for this reason a man will leave his parents and cleave to his wife, as one flesh because they came from one flesh, a man was never to cleave to a man, they don't spiritually or physically combine that way, Nor is a woman complete without a man spiritually or physically. If someone wants to sin legally fine. Have the government name it something else. Marriage is Gods and its Holy and its only intended the way GOD designed it. Not man.

this letter may sound awfully straight forward and indeed it was. There is no negotiating the difference of Holy and sin. I would however like to extend my love to everyone. No matter where you are or what your walk of life is like, I have nothing but love for you.
 
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Same sex marriage is an abomination and if you support it you are not a christian

IDK. Does any one have information on weather or not we can call some one a Christian or a non-Christian?
I truely beleive that on judgment day there will be many jaws dropping when we see people who we thought were saints go to hell and people who we thought were the devils servent go to heaven.
 
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IDK. Does any one have information on weather or not we can call some one a Christian or a non-Christian?
I truely beleive that on judgment day there will be many jaws dropping when we see people who we thought were saints go to hell and people who we thought were the devils servent go to heaven.
Christian= To be like Christ.

you will know them by their fruits.

The words from their mouth is the easiest way to tell





James 3



6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.
7 For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind:
8 But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
9 Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.
10 Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.
11 Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter?
12 Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh.
13 Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.
14 But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth.
 
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Does the christian remain the same? Is the man who was on his way to work dealing with horrible traffic the same man who walked through the church doors? is the man who was at home going through stressful bills, while his children were too loud demanding his attention the same man who walked out of the church? As God does not change, so shall those God dwells in not change. For our lives are hidden in Christ. A christian cannot define between the difference of his life and Jesus'. For they become one flesh. Just as a husband and a wife. A holy matrimony.
 
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It is written that Jesus is the head of the church, even as man is the head of his marriage. The more clearly I see Jesus' love and wisdom the more effectively I can love and guide my family, yea, even my own wife. Jesus is the Archetype of perfection. The indwelling of the Holy Spirit is nothing less than perfection within you. A very real perfection that will teach you all things when you submit yourself, and in all things trust God. What else matters?
 

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Jude 1:23 Some have mercy with fear; Mercifully point out the danger