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Ok. You presented very little information, I didn't claim to know more (see questions above).
My opinion still stands. I desire to know as much about someone as I can. The things of most importance to ME are their morals and values. I have found that the people I most enjoy talking to are the people who wish to discuss their(and my) beliefs.
Just because one person (on a "reality" show no less) was put off by that doesn't mean everyone is. I want seriousness in a relationship. If this is arrogant, then I guess I am doomed.
My opinion still stands. I desire to know as much about someone as I can. The things of most importance to ME are their morals and values. I have found that the people I most enjoy talking to are the people who wish to discuss their(and my) beliefs.
Just because one person (on a "reality" show no less) was put off by that doesn't mean everyone is. I want seriousness in a relationship. If this is arrogant, then I guess I am doomed.
Bottom line you are correct when you say what I put in bold: if she perceives someone acting someway to be too serious that is her personal perspective. To backup my original post; the general concept was to say.. don't focus on being overly or too serious.. but to enjoy dates, relationships and marriages while maintaining christian values and morals.