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I would like to clarify that a wife should not go around looking to see if her husband has been looking at other women and suspect or accuse him of lusting after other women. Love does not think evil and does not operate in suspecting or exposing the sins of others. This would be a terrible thing for any married partner to be engaged in against their spouse and it violates the love of God included in the vows of the marriage. This is why we are under grace and not the law, not to condone the sin of others but to have a mindset of grace that operates by faith in the love of God to restore the guilty party and not to charge or impute the sin. I hope that is clear and balanced.
 

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John 4

. 22Ye worship ye know not what: we know what we worship: for salvation is of the Jews. 23But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him. 24God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth. 25The woman saith unto him, I know that Messias cometh, which is called Christ: when he is come, he will tell us all things. 26Jesus saith unto her, I that speak unto thee am he.
Mathew 5
Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil. 18For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled. 19Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.

20For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.

21Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: 22But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire. 23Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; 24Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift. 25Agree with thine adversary quickly, whiles thou art in the way with him; lest at any time the adversary deliver thee to the judge, and the judge deliver thee to the officer, and thou be cast into prison. 26Verily I say unto thee, Thou shalt by no means come out thence, till thou hast paid the uttermost farthing.

27Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: 28But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. 29And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell. 30And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.

31It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: 32But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

33Again, ye have heard that it hath been said by them of old time, Thou shalt not forswear thyself, but shalt perform unto the Lord thine oaths: 34But I say unto you, Swear not at all; neither by heaven; for it is God's throne: 35Nor by the earth; for it is his footstool: neither by Jerusalem; for it is the city of the great King. 36Neither shalt thou swear by thy head, because thou canst not make one hair white or black. 37But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.

38Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: 39But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. 40And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloke also. 41And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain. 42Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away.

43Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. 44But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; 45That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. 46For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? 47And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so? 48Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.



For we be with the knowledge that nothing is hidden, even our thoughts are known.

So when Yahshua the Messiah taught to even look on a woman in lust, was adultery.. we know it is because our Spirit is not hidden from Yahvah God, sure we could look good outwardly and be evil inwardly... another teaching of Yahshua the Messiah cleaning the outside does not change us within, it is through the New Covenant that we be given a New Spirit to worship Yahvah God in truth and Spirit.

It is that Spirit in me that strives to obey the 10 Commandments knowing that Yahvah God put into 10 Commandments, a guide to living in obedience to him.

Why the Sabbath seems to be debated so much, i know not.

I share what i feel and do, and if it be contrary then so be it.

I feel no conviction from people telling me Sabbath Keeping is not required...


Glory to Yahvah God and Yahshua the Messiah.
 
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The conviction that you are leaving out has to do with the words of Christ under a new covenant of grace in (Mt 5:27,28) that says this...

27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

The law never made that distinction until the words of Christ made it so and these are the words that the Holy Spirit will bring to our remembrance (Jn 14:26). These are the words of Christ under a new covenant that is established in our hearts through grace (Jn 15:7, Heb 13:9, Jn 1:17, Col 1:6).

The (10) commandments, as holy as they are, can't touch the conviction we receive by the Holy Spirit through the words of Christ. The conviction of the Holy Spirit is far greater than any of the conviction that might come through those commandments. The law of those commandments were only a shadow of things to come and not the image of those things (Heb 10:1).

Let's say I am married and I keep the commandment that says, 'thou shalt not commit adultery' but in my heart there have been a few women that I looked upon and lusted after but never followed through with physically. Under the law I have not been guilty of adultery but under the words of Christ I have committed adultery in my heart. The law was inadequate to even convict me of sin in my heart. That is the law being weak through the flesh in condemning sin in my flesh and in my heart (Rom 8:3)

So keeping the law does nothing to make you perfect and doesn't even have the power to convict the heart of sin. It takes the Holy Spirit through the words of Christ to do that and not the law. I may know and understand from the law not to commit adultery but my heart is so deceitful and desperately wicked that it could happen quickly in my heart without me even knowing it (Jer 17:9).
Good post Red33.
It is truly only the Holy Spirit who can convict our hearts of when we do not follow the higher/purer words of Christ than the written law of the Ten Commandments. As no one ever perfectly obeyed those commands, no one by looking to literal commands/laws will ever succeeed in obediance to them
I believe Christ was also showing us that in ourselves we have not a hope of living according to his teachings, for as he said. 'Apart from me you cannot do a thing.' The Spirit convicts us of sin, and leads us to look to Christ, knowing that the law/commandments cannot condemn us as Christ paid the price of our failings at calvary. It is only when we are secure in that knowledge and security that we can live far closer(though never perfectly) according to the good and Holy laws of God he would have us keep.
For surely if we believe faliure to obey the ten commendments leads to death/hell then we give sin a mighty foothold in our lives, for it then can use the good and Holy laws of God to condemn us, but in Christ we are free.

For sin shall not be your master, for you are not under law but under grace
Rom6:14
 

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I would like to clarify that a wife should not go around looking to see if her husband has been looking at other women and suspect or accuse him of lusting after other women. Love does not think evil and does not operate in suspecting or exposing the sins of others. This would be a terrible thing for any married partner to be engaged in against their spouse and it violates the love of God included in the vows of the marriage. This is why we are under grace and not the law, not to condone the sin of others but to have a mindset of grace that operates by faith in the love of God to restore the guilty party and not to charge or impute the sin. I hope that is clear and balanced.
It is one thing to be a law unto oneself in having the truth inscribed on the tablet of the heart, and it is a totally different thing to create ones own rules and regulations and attempting to impose them on others.
I confess, I am under grace, the grace of the Blood of the Lamb of Yahweh. In so being I do have a commandment to obey, and that is the commandment to hear Yeshua and obey what He teaches. If fault is found in this, then I am afraid the fault finder is terribly misinformed and unlearned of Yahweh. If anyone can twist this to mean I am not living in grace, that one is simply reprobate in thinking.
 

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It is one thing to be a law unto oneself in having the truth inscribed on the tablet of the heart, and it is a totally different thing to create ones own rules and regulations and attempting to impose them on others.
I confess, I am under grace, the grace of the Blood of the Lamb of Yahweh. In so being I do have a commandment to obey, and that is the commandment to hear Yeshua and obey what He teaches. If fault is found in this, then I am afraid the fault finder is terribly misinformed and unlearned of Yahweh. If anyone can twist this to mean I am not living in grace, that one is simply reprobate in thinking.
Very well said my friend for the Glory of Yahvah God and Yahshua the Messiah.
 
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John 4



Mathew 5





For we be with the knowledge that nothing is hidden, even our thoughts are known.

So when Yahshua the Messiah taught to even look on a woman in lust, was adultery.. we know it is because our Spirit is not hidden from Yahvah God, sure we could look good outwardly and be evil inwardly... another teaching of Yahshua the Messiah cleaning the outside does not change us within, it is through the New Covenant that we be given a New Spirit to worship Yahvah God in truth and Spirit.

It is that Spirit in me that strives to obey the 10 Commandments knowing that Yahvah God put into 10 Commandments, a guide to living in obedience to him.

Why the Sabbath seems to be debated so much, i know not.

I share what i feel and do, and if it be contrary then so be it.

I feel no conviction from people telling me Sabbath Keeping is not required...


Glory to Yahvah God and Yahshua the Messiah.
If the Sabbath is to be kept, is it to be kept by all believers in Yeshua or just the Jewish believers? What do you say to those believers who have entered into God's rest through His Son (Mt 11:28-30, Heb 4:9-11) and live their life unto the Lord of the Sabbath? They may even do work on the Sabbath by plucking corn or feeding their farm animals and cleaning up after their mess. They may even prepare food on the Sabbath to feed their family or have to work at the local convenient store to pick up some extra money to make ends meet. To these the Sabbath is not only to be remembered but is a life of rest to be lived in Christ.

They are resting in the promises of God by faith. They are resting in God's provisions for them that provides them with all things that pertain to life and godliness (2Pt 1:1-4). They walk by faith in the promises of God and rest in and keep themselves in His love (Zeph 3:17, Jude 21) and have access to the manifold grace of God by that faith Rom 5:1,2). They have no conviction from God to keep the Sabbath as you do living under the dictate of its precept because they freely live in Christ and understand that the liberty of the Sabbath-rest was made for man and not man for the Sabbath (Mk 2:27,28).
 

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If the Sabbath is to be kept, is it to be kept by all believers in Yeshua or just the Jewish believers? What do you say to those believers who have entered into God's rest through His Son (Mt 11:28-30, Heb 4:9-11) and live their life unto the Lord of the Sabbath? They may even do work on the Sabbath by plucking corn or feeding their farm animals and cleaning up after their mess. They may even prepare food on the Sabbath to feed their family or have to work at the local convenient store to pick up some extra money to make ends meet. To these the Sabbath is not only to be remembered but is a life of rest to be lived in Christ.

They are resting in the promises of God by faith. They are resting in God's provisions for them that provides them with all things that pertain to life and godliness (2Pt 1:1-4). They walk by faith in the promises of God and rest in and keep themselves in His love (Zeph 3:17, Jude 21) and have access to the manifold grace of God by that faith Rom 5:1,2). They have no conviction from God to keep the Sabbath as you do living under the dictate of its precept because they freely live in Christ and understand that the liberty of the Sabbath-rest was made for man and not man for the Sabbath (Mk 2:27,28).
Do what you can the day before and take a rest.

If my sons want food and drink it is good for me to give it to him on Sabbath...

I also get them dressed on Sabbath....

But the washing of their clothes can wait for another day, and i'll buy provisions to see us through the Sabbath so i do not need to buy.

Will add tho, my husband does not observe Sabbath.... and no one in my family does either....

Minimal = more rest.

Glory to Yahvah God and Yahshua the Messiah.
 
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Here is some common sense advice based on the teachings of Torah.
 

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If the Sabbath is to be kept, is it to be kept by all believers in Yeshua or just the Jewish believers? What do you say to those believers who have entered into God's rest through His Son (Mt 11:28-30, Heb 4:9-11) and live their life unto the Lord of the Sabbath? They may even do work on the Sabbath by plucking corn or feeding their farm animals and cleaning up after their mess. They may even prepare food on the Sabbath to feed their family or have to work at the local convenient store to pick up some extra money to make ends meet. To these the Sabbath is not only to be remembered but is a life of rest to be lived in Christ.

They are resting in the promises of God by faith. They are resting in God's provisions for them that provides them with all things that pertain to life and godliness (2Pt 1:1-4). They walk by faith in the promises of God and rest in and keep themselves in His love (Zeph 3:17, Jude 21) and have access to the manifold grace of God by that faith Rom 5:1,2). They have no conviction from God to keep the Sabbath as you do living under the dictate of its precept because they freely live in Christ and understand that the liberty of the Sabbath-rest was made for man and not man for the Sabbath (Mk 2:27,28).

If we love God inwardly it will be shown outwardly.
Exodus 20:6
(6) And shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments.
John 14:15
(15) If ye love me, keep my commandments.

If God is our sabbath it will be shown by keeping His sabbath.

 

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If we love God inwardly it will be shown outwardly.
Exodus 20:6
(6) And shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments.
John 14:15
(15) If ye love me, keep my commandments.

If God is our sabbath it will be shown by keeping His sabbath.
If we love God inwardly it will be shown by leading others to the Lord Jesus Christ and His mercy.

It will not be shown by leading others to the Law or teaching others how to keep the Law.

Galatians 3:23-29

23But before faith came, we were kept under the law, shut up unto the faith which should afterwards be revealed.
24Wherefore the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ, that we might be justified by faith.
25But after that faith is come, we are no longer under a schoolmaster.
26For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus.
27For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.
28There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.
29And if ye be Christ's, then are ye Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise.

If God is our Sabbath it will be shown by resting from our own works of righteousness and trusting in His Son and His Sacrifice for us, sinners.
 
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Galatians 3 Paul is addressing the issue of righteousness by works vs righteousness by faith. Faith keeps the law.
 
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We are not made righteous by works but, by faith. Keeping the Law is a result of faith.
1 John 2:4
(4) He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.
 
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Romans 7:7
(7) What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet.
John 16:7-8
(7) Nevertheless I tell you the truth; It is expedient for you that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter will not come unto you; but if I depart, I will send him unto you.
(8) And when he is come, he will reprove (convict) the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment:
1 John 3:4
(4) Whosoever committeth sin transgresseth also the law: for sin is the transgression of the law.

If you get rid of the written Law you are getting rid of the work of the Holy Spirit, for the first work of the Holy Spirit is to convict of sin and He uses the written Law. God's Law is written in His book the Bible, the Bible is the final authority. The Bible is the sword of the Spirit. To get rid of the written Law you have to also get rid of the Bible.

The Law that is written upon our hearts is the written Law. God writes the Law upon our heart and it is lived out in the life. The pharisees only had an external experience but, not an internal. God wants to change us from the inside out.

Exodus 34:28
(28) And he was there with the LORD forty days and forty nights; he did neither eat bread, nor drink water. And he wrote upon the tables the words of the covenant, the ten commandments.
Hebrews 8:10
(10) For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, saith the Lord; I will put my laws into their mind, and write them in their hearts: and I will be to them a God, and they shall be to me a people:

The old covenant was faulty because it was based upon faulty promises. Israel promised to keep God's Law and did not. The covenant given to Abraham was based upon the promises of God and we become part of the promise to Abraham because it was not based upon faulty promises.


Incorrecr, if the laws are now written on our hearts, we no longer need the written law. Just as you highlighted above...8) And when he is come, he will reprove (convict) the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment: When we aare under the law, the law convicts us of sin, as Paul said, he wouldn't have known what sin was if not for the law. Now the Holy Spirit convicts us of sin because the laws are on our hearts and in our minds... thus, no need for the written law.
 
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If we love God inwardly it will be shown by leading others to the Lord Jesus Christ and His mercy.

It will not be shown by leading others to the Law or teaching others how to keep the Law.

Galatians 3:23-29

23But before faith came, we were kept under the law, shut up unto the faith which should afterwards be revealed.
24Wherefore the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ, that we might be justified by faith.
25But after that faith is come, we are no longer under a schoolmaster.
26For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus.
27For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.
28There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.
29And if ye be Christ's, then are ye Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise.

If God is our Sabbath it will be shown by resting from our own works of righteousness and trusting in His Son and His Sacrifice for us, sinners.

Very well said. I love the book of Galatians. It seems to me that those that want to enslave us to the written law would absolutely hate this book. It flies in the face of legalism.
 
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We are not made righteous by works but, by faith. Keeping the Law is a result of faith.
1 John 2:4
(4) He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.
So why is it that you can say that it is by faith that we keep His commandments, but you can't believe that God is capable of leading us directly through the spirit? Why is He incapable of writting His laws on our hearts and in our minds without us studying the written law? Why does Paul contradict what you believe in every book he has written? Why is Jesus not capable of being the DIRECT HEAD of His Church?

I will tell you that He is capable of all I questioned above, and Paul thought so as well. He is my master... not the written law!
 
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I don’t see how such simple things that God teaches should be anything for us humans to toss around! And you all have bibles to read it in, I’m not going to paste your bible in here.

You can’t possible make yourselves holy for living with God forever by what you do. There is no scripture anywhere OT or NT or new covenant or old covenant that says so. You can call it living under grace, New covenant, or label it anyway you want, this is simply so. We are saved through Christ, called the blood of Christ. The Old used a symbol of that blood instead of what happened in the gospels, but this blood has always been so.

I think we can all agree on that, so that part is done, almost all of us here have been saved through Christ, and we can say it another way by saying we are under grace not law. Done. Over and Out. We are in the family.

Now what about the law? We are a baby in the family of God, included in that family. Will our Father raise us without any instruction? He has us as His son, but there will be instructions all along. He isn’t going to say, even, that you know about your inheritance in your heart so I don’t have to say anything to you. Our Father wrote those instructions in a book, and our Father says we are to read them and listen. We are given the HS, or a good inheritance through our rebirth into the family of God, but our Father is going to add to that with words of instruction that we can call law if we want.

Some of our brothers and sisters can give us rules they make up (like the Jews did for the gentiles) and call it law. It is our Father we are to listen to.
 
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So why is it that you can say that it is by faith that we keep His commandments, but you can't believe that God is capable of leading us directly through the spirit? Why is He incapable of writting His laws on our hearts and in our minds without us studying the written law? Why does Paul contradict what you believe in every book he has written? Why is Jesus not capable of being the DIRECT HEAD of His Church?

I will tell you that He is capable of all I questioned above, and Paul thought so as well. He is my master... not the written law!
So you trust your feelings rather than the word of God?
2 Timothy 2:15
(15) Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.

What does God want us to study? It is the word of God, the Bible that we are to study.
John 16:13
(13) Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.

Why should we study when the Holy Spirit convicts of sin and leads into all truth? That is your reasoning. By your reasoning you throw out the need for the written Law then by the same reasoning you can also throw out the need for the Bible.

2 Timothy 3:16-17
(16) All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
(17) That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.

Romans 7:7
(7) What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet.

Paul is referring to the written Law. As followers of Christ He wants us to study His word which includes the written Law and as we study the Holy Spirit will open our understanding if we have a willingness.
John 7:17
(17) If any man will do his will, he shall know of the doctrine, whether it be of God, or whether I speak of myself.


If you read Exodus carefully you will see the Law and the gospel. First God gave the Law, then God gave the sanctuary which teaches the plan of salvation. The sanctuary teaches about Christ. The Law and the gospel is all through the OT.



 
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I have often found the best way to disern truth in Jesus Christ is Lord come in the flesh. :)
Is the scripture where it says, God is not a God of confusion.
This tells us that anything that brings confusion, cannot be from God.

Let the truth be made perfect in all we debate and discuss in Jesus Christ is Lord come in the flesh!

God bless
pickles:)
 
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I have not come to abolish the law but to fulfill it.

Love thy neighbour as thyself, for all the law is fulfilled by this one command.
 
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I have not come to abolish the law but to fulfill it.

Love thy neighbour as thyself, for all the law is fulfilled by this one command.
That is good and right and after He fulfilled it, He expects us to fulfill it ONLY through abiding in Him and letting His words abide in us. To love thy neighbor we abide in Christ and let the Hoy Spirit teach how we do that with our neighbor in the circumstances of life. Let's say you have a neighbor that gets upset with your cats that keep making a mess in their flowers. You communicate with them that if it happens again to call you and you'll take care of it or just throw some water at them and give you a call. Instead of doing that they get upset and in front of others scream at you and says things to embarrass you in front of others.

How do you love your neighbor in this case. Perhaps the Holy Spirit would lead you to not say a thing in retaliation or in your own defense and just keep quiet and keep your cats i for awhile. Perhaps the Spirit would wait for an opportunity where you could bless them in the details of life and in a way that they were not expecting or could resist. Perhaps God would tell you keep turning the other cheek until it becomes a time to stop turning it and speak up in wisdom. There are number of things that God could lead us to do without reacting and getting involved in the flesh so that we could love our neighbor as ourself. You may not see the fruit of it for years down the road and have to wait through longsuffering.