The cute barista at Starbucks

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"The cute barista..."

Good to know some girls are as shallow us guys.... hehehe :D
 
Do you go on chat much Arwen or do you mainly hang around the forums? I don't recall seeing you in chat before. Not that I am in there all the time.
 
zeroturbulence said:
What if you like him and he likes you and he is actually a good match for you but because you decide not to pursue it, you never find out? The one thing that people always wonder about when they get older is the "what if's". We don't come across someone that we're attracted to everyday. What have you got to lose? Your pride? Will the world end if it turns out he's not interested? Of course not.

I'm just saying that I'd hate to see you let a chance like this pass by for no good reason. You're young and pretty. This is the time when you should be finding a mate. As we get older our looks fade and our chances of attracting someone begin to diminish. With women its even harder because older men tend to go for younger women and then there's the whole biological clock thing..
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Finally...an honest guy. I've learned more from this post than I have in all of my time here. :)

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Jullianna said:
Finally...an honest guy. I've learned more from this post than I have in all of my time here. :)

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Oh come now Dianna. You can out-attract younger women! And you tend to attract much younger men too! I was speaking generally about womankind. There are plenty of women out there like yourself who manage to buck the trend and get even more attractive with age. But as you know, it takes a good amount of effort, discipline and dedication in the staying fit and healthy department - more than what most women care to take on.
 
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NOTE - I'm only talking about outward physical appearances here, because that's what I was alluding to in my original post.
All women are beautiful.
 
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Sorry to hijack your thread Arwen, but I have to say one last thing..

Lets not start thinking that its only men (in general) who go for the younger (twenties) of the opposite sex.
Women don't find pudgy and balding older men attractive either. (generally speaking) And yes...I can attest to that through first hand knowledge.
 
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Jullianna said:
Finally...an honest guy. I've learned more from this post than I have in all of my time here. :)

Ladies over 30: Dial 1-800-dozen-cats
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Yeah, I know I've posted this one before...but it's just too funny to NOT post again :D
 
I actually tend to prefer older women to younger ones. I mean a year or two younger than me is fine but 25 and younger I would rather just throw myself out of a window...Older women just fit my lifestyle better.
 
Stuey said:
Do you go on chat much Arwen or do you mainly hang around the forums? I don't recall seeing you in chat before. Not that I am in there all the time.
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No I haven't, I'll check it out though
 
I don't think a gal doing this to a guy would be as threatening/intimidating as it would be the other way around..

Put your email or number on a lil piece of paper. Write call me maybe? Email me maybe? on it......

Go order a drink. Give him the paper.

I'm not joking

It's non threatening and shows you're interested without you being all alpha female. He is probably prohibited from hitting on women while on the job, so I wouldn't expect him to respond to any 'hints' or 'clues' that usually work out in the wild.
 
Nautilus said:
I actually tend to prefer older women to younger ones. I mean a year or two younger than me is fine but 25 and younger I would rather just throw myself out of a window...Older women just fit my lifestyle better.
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I like you, too! :D
 
arwen7 said:
No I haven't, I'll check it out though
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If you do venture into chat, then look out for Stuey.....he makes some really weird pies :D

However, I can't help but wonder.....is a guy barista really a "barista"? Wouldn't it be "baristo"? Or, if you're french, "baristeur"? Personally, I kinda like "baristonator"..........hey, go ask him, Arwen! Good ice-breaker, no? ;)
 
Jullianna said:
Finally...an honest guy. I've learned more from this post than I have in all of my time here. :)

Ladies over 30: Dial 1-800-dozen-cats
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Jullianna, some of us guys recognize that women over 30 are like a fine vintage wine, they get better with age.
 
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