Men and women cannot be best friends with one another. Acquaintances, friendly, talkative, married, confidants, yes, ... but best friends? No.
There are just some things men and women can never have in common (like popping out babies), so you cannot ever quite reach this bestest best friend thing with someone of the opposite sex.
I disagree, completely. IF you are talkative, friendly, and, you said word, 'confidants,' orac, that, to me, is a pretty good definition of being best friends, and, girl.knowledge 'bathroom' giggly stuff is not of concern regarding criteria for being a best friend, there is much deeper issues that qualify best friends than triviality commonality stuff. I think putting God first is best and then everything, else will.work out perfectly as you remember to love others, including your spouse, who God will faithfully bring more and more intimate relationship.between you that, based in God, I think, is the ideal consummation definition of a best friend, and, the talking of making babies and girl talk stuff is no necessary for guy and gal to become best friends and then bester and bester friends as the Lord leads, which is bestest, perfectest, rather, well, Ok, His leading two who are one one will be most perfect .
And, most best