Who can sit up and tell lies all night...I guess I can

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Kakashi

Kakashi

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chelsers said:
Wow, one must really have to impress you on a first conversation :D
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hahaha, no well i mean, personality wise...and the way some people dress ( like...erm...trashy), and just like the way they act in general. We all have bad days, so i take that into account, but on usual days, you can tell when someone has a good sense of humor. If they don't have a good sense of humor, then that person's definantly not for me lol.
 
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chelsers

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Kakashi said:
hahaha, no well i mean, personality wise...and the way some people dress ( like...erm...trashy), and just like the way they act in general. We all have bad days, so i take that into account, but on usual days, you can tell when someone has a good sense of humor. If they don't have a good sense of humor, then that person's definantly not for me lol.
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Ha I know what you mean. I'm just giving you a hard time because, well, it's fun :)
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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I have to side with Kakashi on this one--I can usually tell pretty early if I'm interested in someone or not. I've had some surprises as far as friends--people I didn't realize I'd get along with so well becoming especially good friends--but not as far as a romantic interest.

And thanks to Kakashi for saying he doesn't like it when women dress "trashy." Around here, it seems like those are the only ones who get any attention. Granted, we know why in general, but still...

Aren't there any good Christian guys out there who like the jeans and t-shirt type? :) And who will tell us the truth and not what they think we want to hear.
 
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chelsers

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I'd have to agree as well, I usually know quickly if I'm interested, but if someone offers me coffee and/or dinner, it's usually a go. I kid...sort of.
 
Sharp

Sharp

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If you don't love someone but they tell you they love you, just tell them you love them so you won't hurt their feelings and then send them an email later. That way you don't have to see them cry.
 
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SamIam

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Or you could send them a fax with the letters....... SIKE! on it
 
J0Y

J0Y

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So....you are living with/dating her...but you dont 'love' her?
I guess my comment would be a question.
What IS LOVE - to you? How do you personally define it and what is her definition?
Herein may lie the confusion maybe??
 
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SamIam

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hahaha thanks!
 
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doubleedge

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God is Love, & without Christ, it is only lust. The Word of God tells us to walk with love (like Enoch, Noa's great grandson), not fall in (for) it like the fallen ones (Luke 10:18) did around the time of the great flood. If U read "The Book of Enoch", everything comes together.
As for the topic, I went through the same thing myself. I got my heart broken because I fell for (into) it. She was/ is the reason I got back into The Word of God!!! It was because of her that I know WHY God is Love. Seems to me like love is a game (trap) women use to get control of a mans heart (like eve did adam). 1 Corinthians 11, The Hierarchy, suggests that these women are unholy! It is wise to profess love, but foolish & vain to lust (another tool women use). U should love her whether or not U share the same love, or even whether or not U decide to tell her. This is The Will of God! Out of two relationships, I have felt love three times. None like the first! Though I have indeed lusted (twice), love is clearly the winner here!
 
whiteknite

whiteknite

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Sharp said:
If you don't love someone but they tell you they love you, just tell them you love them so you won't hurt their feelings and then send them an email later. That way you don't have to see them cry.
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That might seem like a good way to spare yourself the guilt of hurting her in the short run. But think about this: When she gets the e mail, she will realize that you not only lied to her, but also were playing games with her heart. Which more than likely would cause her to really despise you.

If she tells you she loves you and you are honest with her by saying you like her a lot; True, It will hurt. But after she thinks about that for a while, along with everything else that was said; I'm sure she will wind up respecting you more for being man enough to be honest with her.

Chopsui, since you haven't known her for very long; she should come to realize that you are honest, mature and sensible/emotionally stable.

 
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LittleMermaid

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Chopsui101 said:
I have a question, what happens when someone tells you they love you. Me and my gf were hanging out one day and she says "I love you" and I was like dang it...I said, "I like you...a lot" and she was like, "just like?" Well to make a long story short we had a fight right afterward.

Now my question is what to say when someone tells you they love you but you don't love them? Don't get me wrong, I like my gf, she is amazing, but I don't love her, I haven't known her a particularly long time. I tend to find that girls seem to say I love you first and it is always awkward. So ladies...when she says I love you and you don't love her what do you say back?
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Tell her "I really care about you deeply, but I cannot say those three words to you yet. I hope you can respect my boundaries. Even if I did say them, it wouldn't be honest. You would know that I was just saying it because you said it. So let's wait until it comes naturally."

This is why I would never say those words first. But if I did, that answer would make me feel better. :)
 
Lynx

Lynx

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*facepalm*

LittleMermaid you are talking to somebody who was banned 8 years ago...
 
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toinena

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Zoombies are alive!!!

Over half the participants in this thread is banned or has left CC.

But I don't lie, and I like to sleep at night. So I am not in.
 
Mel85

Mel85

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seoulsearch said:
I have to side with Kakashi on this one--I can usually tell pretty early if I'm interested in someone or not. I've had some surprises as far as friends--people I didn't realize I'd get along with so well becoming especially good friends--but not as far as a romantic interest.

And thanks to Kakashi for saying he doesn't like it when women dress "trashy." Around here, it seems like those are the only ones who get any attention. Granted, we know why in general, but still...

Aren't there any good Christian guys out there who like the jeans and t-shirt type? :) And who will tell us the truth and not what they think we want to hear.
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Lynx said:
*facepalm*

LittleMermaid you are talking to somebody who was banned 8 years ago...
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If Lil Mermaid can breath under water, then she can do whatever she pleases.

Lol @ that comment tho.
 
Lighthearted

Lighthearted

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Someone's been very busy diggin' up some graves tonight! Singles forum looks like the grave diggers dug up the whole cemetery!
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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OH man, what an oldie but goodie... .So many cool peeps in this thread who aren't here anymore. :(

I also didn't realize Chop had been banned (but I guess that's definitely old news?)

I understand there must have been a reason. He was definitely one of the most colorful posters of the time, lol.

Chop, wherever you are, I miss talking to you and I hope you're doing well.

Will remember you in my prayers tonight.
 
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