Will You Go Out With Me? (Let's Practice Dating.)

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SamIam

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okay so should you ask someone out that you know will probably say no???
 
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missy2shoes

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How certain are ya that they'll say no?
 
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SamIam

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hahahah preeeeeeeetty darn certain LOL
 
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MusicalMe said:
My past few relationships seemed to be more like me doing something I wasn't interested in because I knew it was important to them, and them not really caring what was important to me - or else complaining the. entire. time.
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Which is why my youth pastor says that giving needs to come from both parties. Becaus if one side is giving, and the other is doing nothing but taking, that relationship is destined to fail.
 
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MusicalMe

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... and fail it did! But that's ok, I try to learn from every relationship and move on!
 
seoulsearch

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SamIam said:
okay so should you ask someone out that you know will probably say no???
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Sam, I say, go for it. At least you'll know! Or, maybe give it time if you feel that's best... but yes, ask!
 
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SamIam

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hahahah ooooooh i dunno... what if i get tooootally rejected!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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chelsers

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SamIam said:
hahahah ooooooh i dunno... what if i get tooootally rejected!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Then she's missing out on the fabulousness that is Sam!
 
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SamIam

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hahahahah!!!!! or she'll be spared
 
seoulsearch

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As in, she'll smack you down and mop the floor with the shattered pieces of your broken heart, laugh like Cruella Deville and say, "MUH HAH HAH HAH HAH, what WERE YOU THINKING, you most pathetic member of the male species??!!"

Or will she say, "I'm really flattered, but I don't feel the same way about you... but I'd really like to stay close friends..."

(Chels and I are on standby to give you more feedback, depending on the answer...)
 
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SamIam

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see im totally thinkin its gonna be the second one!
 
seoulsearch

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Sounds like maybe we need to work on your confidence first more than anything... (probably something we all need work on).
 
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chelsers

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Yes, Sam say it with me "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough and gosh darn it people like me!"
 
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SamIam

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hahahahahha SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE!!!!!!! have you ever seen superstar???
 
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SamIam said:
see im totally thinkin its gonna be the second one!
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While it's a bit more... challenging, if given the first answer, in your case, I'm glad to hear it would most likely be the second one.

All right Sam, what can we do to help boost your confidence here? I mean, wouldn't you rather know than not know? Or is it just that, as long as you don't know for sure, you at least have the rush of the "what if" to keep you going?
 
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chelsers

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SamIam said:
hahahahahha SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE!!!!!!! have you ever seen superstar???
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I heart SNL. I secretly have ambitions to be a writer on the show :) I haven't seen superstar but Molly Shannon rocks my socks.
 
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SamIam

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lol no no its definantly not the second one....... im just a big weenie... besides if someone likes you........... wouldnt they say so!
 
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SamIam

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chelsers said:
I heart SNL. I secretly have ambitions to be a writer on the show :) I haven't seen superstar but Molly Shannon rocks my socks.
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You have to see superstar!! that is like my favorite movie... there is a part where she is in the mirror sayin almost the same thing......... i love anything molly shannon does
 
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