Recent content by just_monicat

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    Streams of Consciousness & Thoughts~~~

    thanks. it's funny, as a christian, i'm always trying to balance taste and propriety, not to mention modesty. i have wars all the time in my head, actually about what's acceptable. i'm constantly checking my motives, too. as i've gotten older, i find myself less comfortable with the...
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    Streams of Consciousness & Thoughts~~~

    thinking of and praying for you, holly. p.s. one day i'll tell you about gum mishap. : )
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    Streams of Consciousness & Thoughts~~~

    fyi: lil_christian's internet is out until she moves. she probably won't be back online until next thursday. : ( we miss you! in other news, i can't stop drinking this tea. it's so incredibly good. you guys should pick some up if you like flavored tea wonderfulness that tastes like summer...
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    do you "lead" with your flaws?

    ok, i'm going to say upfront: this thread is starting with a rant. : ) one of the things that i find most frustrating when i meet, or get to know someone is when they have the habit of (sometimes, constantly) putting themselves down. about a year ago, i went on a (first) date with a guy who...
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    re-visiting the scene of the crime - getting back together with an ex

    this is inspired by a recent thread about "do you pray for your ex?". it reminded me of something i've pondered in my own life recently. as i mentioned in that thread, i'm friendly with my exes, especially one in particular. part of the reason i broke up with him (and canceled our engagement)...
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    Snack time.

    i've been eating these lately, which have been lovely in this warmer weather. i can't decide whether i like the banana or the strawberry ones better. however, they've mostly inspired me to make my own this summer. my other favorite pick me up is a tall glass of...
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    Streams of Consciousness & Thoughts~~~

    i've had this *very* discussion with friends. but for me, it's an easy fix. if i want a "flesh-toned" bandage to match my skin tone, i can make my own band-aids with this stuff. voilla!!!:
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    Streams of Consciousness & Thoughts~~~

    they're like a puffed cheeto type thingie. side note, that kiddo's pjs are awesome.
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    5 Questions

    1. how good of a swimmer are you? what's your "preferred style/stroke"? i'm a pretty good swimmer. when i swim at the pool, i like to alternate between the crawl, the back stroke, and the butterfly. 2. finish this statement: i feel stupid when _________. when i don't know what a word means...
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    Streams of Consciousness & Thoughts~~~

    i personally love charlotte, but only in part because of this girl:
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    Streams of Consciousness & Thoughts~~~

    what a tiring weekend! i wanted to share a few photos from my hiking exploits yesterday. while there are several lovely trails in this area, this spot is more known for the natural hot springs. or, as i prefer to call it, "home of the hippie soup".
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    5 Questions

    1. what's the most odd or dreadful item of clothing in your closet? why? it's a toss-up, but only because i recently cleaned out my closet. ; ) one item is my old "stay weird" t shirt (the letters are "mirror printed" so i keep it just to watch the perplexed faces of people trying to read the...
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    5 Questions

    maybe if you found the other half of your glasses, you wouldn't find them so difficult. ; p this might help too:
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    Happy Coconut Cake Day! Errr, name a holiday here...

    in honor of friday... If you were given the power to create a recurring holiday, what would original holiday would you celebrate? How would we celebrate the holiday? What would the party look like?
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    Would you live in barbie's town house? How important is your home aesthetic to you?

    how do you decide who and how things are decorated when you share a home? for the sake of discussion, let's all assume we're talking about living with a spouse. i have married friends who live in a house that is decorated impossibly girly--pink frilly touches everywhere. i would go as far as...