I have often wished that there had been one guy like Mitspa, who would have threatened me with hell when I after a suicide attempt was dumped in a Godless mental hospital and my ex, a pastor, said he wanted to seperate for he didn't know how long and in his anger said it was okay if I looked for someone else, I could take 10, I looked around and asked the only one who was single if he wanted to marry me and he said yes after 2 days, then in my despair I called a pastor, everyone there said it was okay, he had been chatting, that's adultery, go pick someone else. All the idiot could say when I asked him if he could marry us was: Don't jump on him immediately. I went to his church, he preached about it and I yelled from the back that you could divorce with adultery and he said God speaks through that woman. Really. Absolutely noone warned me, noone from church who visited. If there had been one guy like Mitspa I would now still be married, because 7 weeks later he asked me if I wanted to come back and it was too late. We married ourselves with a joint in the mental hospital, just plucked the text from internet, a heroin addict was our witness and Leviticus says it's a sin to go back to your former husband, so I said no. Couldn't explain the rest, he'd think I was nuts, which I was.
There's one woman here who asks for prayer all the time. Her 'fiancee' is very ill. Said she should stop living in sin, more said it, but in a friendly, nice way which doesn't work.
Mitspa, you're right. I like your style.