Blain and Stephanies future wedding fantasy thread

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Blain

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After talking to my artsie bug about marriage today I just wanted to write down my fantasy of being with her.

I don't want a big fancy wedding but the wedding itself will be amazing if God ever is willing.
I can see us in a beauty cool area close to night with small streams running everywhere making the most quiet rushing water sounds and fireflies everywhere lighting up the night with the stars and a cool breeze that feels wonderful on your skin candles everywhere for light that give off a sweet aroma and everything just has that simple and blissful feel to it while radiating beauty and joy.

As steph and I get up to make our vows I look at her dead in the eyes and she looks away real quick blushing but then looking back into my eyes and as for our rings being the silly goof balls we are instead of rings( although we will give each other rings afterwards) we are each hold a stuffed toy mine is a cute pikachu in a tux with a top hat hers is an eevee with a wedding gown and tiara and after exchanging them and say I do we kiss and begin as one.

This is but one of the fantasies I have had when imagining being able to marry her and it always makes me feel warm inside. But like family Marriage is very important to me I will not make those vows unless I know in my heart I will keep them no matter what. Most people make these vows but when times hard and their at each others throats those vows mean nothing and are thrown out the window.

I don't expect things to always be easy I have grown up seeing what marriage is these days how little it matters to people how easy it is for divorce and this isn't what God taught me marriage is about. I didn't learn what marriage is from my mom or dad or from the people I should have learned it from I learned it from God directly.

I know that love is not always that lovey dovey happy go lucky everything is perfect kind of thing in fact love is long suffering and has to be because love has it's ups and downs and we may even be at each others throats sometimes our bond my bend maybe even severely but it will never break because I remember the vows I made. Even if for whatever reason she was unfaithful with another man which I highly doubt I would still love her and would not divorce her because I didn't marry a human that makes mistakes sometimes I married the heart I knew and fell madly in love with being human and making mistakes just comes with the package ♥
 

ArtsieSteph

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My face is so red I am so happy in my heart I cannot avahdjdnnqvsjdn
 

tourist

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The honeymoon follows the wedding. That certainly can be lovey dovey.
 

ArtsieSteph

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I HAVE SEEN ALL OF THESE ON ETSY XD
 

Magenta

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I usually only see Pikachu items in relation to Blain :D LOL :D
 
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You should get married at a pokestop and set off lures
 

Blain

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LOL that would be so funny I can just imagine I am a person playing pokemon go and I am searching for this pokemon I have always wanted and the I walk into a pokemon nerd weddingXD That story would never get old
 

EmilyNats

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This is so sweet. I I can barely see right now because I'm crying.
 

Blain

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I desperately want to be able to see her any time I want but I don't know of a place nearby her I could live at for low cost I am not above working to be able to live in my own place but I don't know how insurance works there or anything and I have to find a place near her I can live in as I am not exactly skilled enough to make a ton of money lol
 

ArtsieSteph

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I sadly we have no common friends who live in Arizona to try and stay with.... but I know God will make a way somehow
 

tourist

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I desperately want to be able to see her any time I want but I don't know of a place nearby her I could live at for low cost I am not above working to be able to live in my own place but I don't know how insurance works there or anything and I have to find a place near her I can live in as I am not exactly skilled enough to make a ton of money lol
You guys might consider marrying first and then work out the financial details. Of course, before this happens a plan would have to be developed to see if it is feasible. You don't need your own place and she don't need her own place but you both need your own place together. Yes, there is going to be work involved. You will both need prayer for God to provide suitable employment or a means to earn a sufficient funds to sustain a household. As far as skills are concerned you have more than you realize. Love will find a way but you will both need to step out boldly in faith.
 

ArtsieSteph

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You guys might consider marrying first and then work out the financial details. Of course, before this happens a plan would have to be developed to see if it is feasible. You don't need your own place and she don't need her own place but you both need your own place together. Yes, there is going to be work involved. You will both need prayer for God to provide suitable employment or a means to earn a sufficient funds to sustain a household. As far as skills are concerned you have more than you realize. Love will find a way but you will both need to step out boldly in faith.
Well with my father just realizing he has stomach cancer and getting everything set up there I'm not sure marriage right away would be feesable...but I cannot lie that it would be the easiest thing to do right now.
 
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Tinuviel

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Well with my father just realizing he has stomach cancer and getting everything set up there I'm not sure marriage right away would be feesable...but I cannot lie that it would be the easiest thing to do right now.
I don't know the answers to your dilemmas, but I know Someone who does :) He's pretty good at listening to our problems, I hear.
 
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After talking to my artsie bug about marriage today I just wanted to write down my fantasy of being with her.

I don't want a big fancy wedding but the wedding itself will be amazing if God ever is willing.
I can see us in a beauty cool area close to night with small streams running everywhere making the most quiet rushing water sounds and fireflies everywhere lighting up the night with the stars and a cool breeze that feels wonderful on your skin candles everywhere for light that give off a sweet aroma and everything just has that simple and blissful feel to it while radiating beauty and joy.

As steph and I get up to make our vows I look at her dead in the eyes and she looks away real quick blushing but then looking back into my eyes and as for our rings being the silly goof balls we are instead of rings( although we will give each other rings afterwards) we are each hold a stuffed toy mine is a cute pikachu in a tux with a top hat hers is an eevee with a wedding gown and tiara and after exchanging them and say I do we kiss and begin as one.

This is but one of the fantasies I have had when imagining being able to marry her and it always makes me feel warm inside. But like family Marriage is very important to me I will not make those vows unless I know in my heart I will keep them no matter what. Most people make these vows but when times hard and their at each others throats those vows mean nothing and are thrown out the window.

I don't expect things to always be easy I have grown up seeing what marriage is these days how little it matters to people how easy it is for divorce and this isn't what God taught me marriage is about. I didn't learn what marriage is from my mom or dad or from the people I should have learned it from I learned it from God directly.

I know that love is not always that lovey dovey happy go lucky everything is perfect kind of thing in fact love is long suffering and has to be because love has it's ups and downs and we may even be at each others throats sometimes our bond my bend maybe even severely but it will never break because I remember the vows I made. Even if for whatever reason she was unfaithful with another man which I highly doubt I would still love her and would not divorce her because I didn't marry a human that makes mistakes sometimes I married the heart I knew and fell madly in love with being human and making mistakes just comes with the package ♥
Blain,
That was so beautiful, (except furry stuffies beat Pichukas, unless you can buy one that IS furry. :p)

But, reality check time. Steph gets to make the big decisions on the wedding. The groom is just supposed to show up and make the bride cry at the altar by either the personal vow given or two words, "I do."

However, you both agree to where you go for the honeymoon. (I vote for you both getting on that train you took to see her the first time, but I get no vote on that.)
 

Miri

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Came James come along. Oh and remember I said I don't like marzipan on
wedding cake.

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