Sorry about you being separated from your wife. Happy you'd like being with her again, shows that you keep on loving her very much, as well as not many wants that after being separated 10 years. Impressive.
I'd like being in a nice house/cabine far away from the city and people, surrounded by forest, close to a water, all by it's own, together with my husband and dog, just enjoying the peace and quietness.....
What human would you like going through fire, water and frost?