Question for men - why don't you wear make up?

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Magenta

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#81
Some women don't need makeup... :rolleyes:
Most probably don't. You should see the comments on this video :D

[video=youtube;OLuRgEyMx70]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OLuRgEyMx70&t=2s[/video]
 
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Miri

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#82
When you go somewhere, can you distinguish whether a woman has straightened her hair with a flat iron or whether she has naturally straight hair?

The burnt bits tend to give it away, :D


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Lynx

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#83
Too much effort.

When I get up in the morning it probably takes me about 15 minutes to get up and out.

its called SSS (S**t, shave and shower)

I haven't got time to put make up on.
And here is the primary answer to the thread's question. If somehow I wound up in an alternate universe where MEN were the ones expected to paint pictures on their faces, I still wouldn't be able to convince myself it was worth the bother. Convenience and comfort are what I put stock in, not artifice.

The time I spent drawing eyebrows is time I could have spent doing something better.
 

hornetguy

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#85
Cause I'd end up looking like this....

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Of course, I'd have to buy a wig.... :eek:

You know the old saying, you can put lipstick on a pig, but it's still a pig....:rolleyes:
 
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#86
"Question for men - why don't you wear make up?"

Question for women - why DO you wear the stuff?

Make up turns a normal woman into an illusion that you can't touch. You can't kiss her, can't stroke her cheek. can't wipe away a tear, can't touch her at all... and you don't know what she looks like, only what the picture she has painted on her face looks like.

Maybe make up kicks it for some guys, but for me I never did like artificial anything. I love flowers but plastic flowers belong in the garbage can. Naturally curly hair is pretty, naturally straight hair is gorgeous, but artificially curled or straightened hair just looks... fake. And it's the same for me with make up. Wear it if you want, but don't ask me if I like how you look. I won't complain about it but I'd much rather you look like you.
I have garlic chive out back. It flowers. It's a very pretty flower, like Queen Anne Lace in petite. But it smells like what it is -- a type of onion grass with raw garlic smell (and taste.) You say you like flowers? Would you like those flowers?

I do, but I have to do something before bringing them in. I have to wave off the flies on them and then wash off the dead flies that got stuck in-between the tiny little flowers. (And I can't wash them all off. Flies really like garlic chive.)

My reason why I used to wear makeup. I'd rather the guy be looking at me than the big honking zit at the end of my nose, on my chin, or forehead. (Worse yet, when there were two zits, instead of merely one.
:eek:)

Now, please tell me you wouldn't be wondering what that black stuff was inside those pretty white flowers, if you saw a vase of them. (The dead flies.) And tell me you wouldn't be spending quite a bit of time trying to figure that out instead of looking at the flowers themselves.

Then tell me you'd actually want to rub a woman's face with a big honking zit on it.

Yeah, really. I'd rather a guy notice me then the dead flies/zits on me.

(Now I'm old enough not to have zits and I am a happy camper to have thrown out the makeup. BUT I truly get why women wear makeup, and don't get why guys don't sometimes.)
 
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#87
I remember an Arlo & Janis cartoon where Janis was contemplating a bit of cosmetic surgery. Arlo didn't see the need of it. Janis said, "But I wear make up. What's the difference between make up and a nip and tuck here and there?"

Arlo replied, "I've been telling you for thirty YEARS you don't need all that make up."

I am soooo old that I immediately thought, "Arlo Guthrie and Janis Joplin did cartoons?" lol
 
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#88
When you go somewhere, can you distinguish whether a woman has straightened her hair with a flat iron or whether she has naturally straight hair?
In college, I had a roommate with dirty blonde/light brown hair who rolled up her h hair at night with an concentrated orange juice container. She said it was to stop her hair from curling.

15 years later, hubby and I were walking through a store, and a strange woman with short, dark curly hair looked surprised to see me and greeted me with great enthusiasm. Hubby recognized her immediately. Not a clue, and that registered enough that she said it. Same roommate. I'm always amused how a hairstyle can change what we look like that much. lol
 
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#89
That's very interesting. By and large, most women have curly or wavy hair. It is a dominant trait. I would say the majority of the time you see a black or white woman with straight hair, it is not naturally straight. Most women with straight hair flat iron it every morning.
Really? The only way any women in my extended family ever gets even the slightest wave/curl in our hair is when gray hair doesn't behave like regular hair. I got excited at the first white hair, until I looked closer and saw it was white. (I was 21. Who thinks they'll have a white hair so young? lol)

Dad has naturally wavy hair. He had six kids and he only passed it along to one. That brother has a combination of some straight and a little wavy here and there. Two generations before my parents and two generations after, but we're all (but 1.5) straight haired. Where do you live that curly or wavy is so prominent? (We're mostly in the northeast now.)
 

blue_ladybug

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#91
Maybe because men don't want to look like Boy George.. lol
 
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Galatea

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#93
The burnt bits tend to give it away, :D


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Believe it or not, my Mom was a teenager in the 1970s. She said they actually ironed their hair with a clothes iron like this because straight hair was "in". No one wanted curly or wavy hair. I think they must have been either very brave or very foolish to iron their hair like this.
 

BillG

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Cause I'd end up looking like this....

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Of course, I'd have to buy a wig.... :eek:

You know the old saying, you can put lipstick on a pig, but it's still a pig....:rolleyes:
You forgot to put your teeth in.

Mind you in my wild days and after a good few points you'd actually be pretty attractive.
 
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Galatea

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At the very least, she has eye shadow in that picture. I suspect foundation too, but could be wrong. And her hair is colored and styled.
You're right. She definitely has on eyeshadow and mascara. I'm pretty sure she has on foundation. She has foundation on her lips, actually. I know some women put foundation and powder on their lips, it is supposed to keep lipstick on better.
 
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Galatea

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Really? The only way any women in my extended family ever gets even the slightest wave/curl in our hair is when gray hair doesn't behave like regular hair. I got excited at the first white hair, until I looked closer and saw it was white. (I was 21. Who thinks they'll have a white hair so young? lol)


Dad has naturally wavy hair. He had six kids and he only passed it along to one. That brother has a combination of some straight and a little wavy here and there. Two generations before my parents and two generations after, but we're all (but 1.5) straight haired. Where do you live that curly or wavy is so prominent? (We're mostly in the northeast now.)
Any hint of wave is considered wavy/curly. In order for hair to be considered straight, it has to be board straight with no wave at all. This web page from Stanford University explains it better than I can: Understanding Genetics

Basically, CC is curly, ss is straight, Cs would be wavy. In order for someone to have straight hair, they'd have to inherit two recessive straight genes from both parents. If your Dad had wavy hair, then is genotype would be Cs, but his phenotype would be wavy. He could give you the straight hair gene, along with your Mom. This means that two people with wavy hair could have children with straight hair, since the wavy genotype is Cs.

I hope I did not thoroughly confuse you, :)
 
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Believe it or not, my Mom was a teenager in the 1970s. She said they actually ironed their hair with a clothes iron like this because straight hair was "in". No one wanted curly or wavy hair. I think they must have been either very brave or very foolish to iron their hair like this.
Ah! Cut me to the quick! I'm old enough to have a 30-something year old daughter? I don't even feel old enough to have a baby yet. :eek:

"Believe it or not?" Yeesh! I'm trying to live with the delusion everybody was a teen in the 70's. lol

Weird thing about the 70's. About 1970, all of a sudden it was okay to let your freak flag fly -- let your hair do whatever it does naturally. Horse combs became big for the kinky/super-curly crew. Indian Princess (long and straight) was in for those of us wavierly challenged.

Then, it changed again about 1972, and flat was back. (Flat-back is good, because no hassle with my hair. lol) And Jane Fonda changed it to layers.

Disco brought the Afro. (Billy Preston. My desire for the 'fro big way! And, yes! I did. Never could get it that big, but because my hair is straight, so it flattened out too quickly.)

[video=youtube;OuaG-TCpbtw]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuaG-TCpbtw[/video]

And by the end of the 70s it was any which way you wanted to play it. (Granted, KC and the Sunshine Band played it as much as Billy, but just saying. lol)

The 70s brought something that just doesn't happen anymore -- drastic change in looks and music. I still miss the days when kids came up with something guaranteed for the parents to hate. Nowadays the kids are listening to the same music their parents listened to and wearing the same style. Right boring!
 
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You forgot to put your teeth in.

Mind you in my wild days and after a good few points you'd actually be pretty attractive.
Good, since he used my photo. lol
 
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Mitspa

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because men are not supposed to look like girls ..