You were rude. I didn't insult you. Perhaps grow up a little bit and stop with the tit for tat. Never had an issue with you on here and suddenly full throw down. Seriously, what's the deal?!
Your opinion is rude when you disregard what the Op is saying,even after she explained herself. And she is being extremely gracious to you and taking blame on herself that she shouldn't. And I'll speak whenever I feel someone needs it. Feel free to block me.
Your second response, quote "My honesty is often seen as mean, but I view it as mean if I'm not so honest...No need to feel defensive. "
I didn't see an apology there at all. Your response bothered her, and that is why I stepped in and I will always step in when I see it's needed. You call it honesty? Maybe it's you who needs to look in the mirror.