Why do some Christians still have male babies circumcised?

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didymos

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Starfield: 'Interestingly, some people get tattoos and piercings without considering the above statement but when it comes to circumcision they do. :rolleyes:
Just a general observation.'

I'm not one of those people:I think the same goes for tattoos and piercings. We're talking about infants here, not about grown ups who decide for THEMSELVES to get mutilated.

Starfield: 'I wouldn't say male neonatal circumcision is 'mutilation'. It does not impair normal physiological function of the organ.
Would you say the same thing too about parents who pierce their babies' ears?'

Yes, I would.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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They don't even give babies a simple pain killer. They just strap the boy down and start cutting away. I watched my son react to the pain. I don't ever want to watch that again.
They may have not given your son a painkiller, but they gave one to mine They numbed the whole entire area before they did it and he didn't even really make a sound.
 
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Missachu

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... and circumcision isn't 'approved by God' for christians too.
It's approved for PEOPLE, not just Jewish people, but ALL PEOPLE. Duh.
That's like saying Christians don't have to follow the Ten Commandments because those were written for the Jews. Ludicrous.
What if the doctors that birthed your child told you that your childs finger will murder him in his sleep unless he gets it cut off before it becomes a problem? Would you 'mutilate' his finger?

In all seriousness though, we are talking about a piece of skin. A PIECE! The only piece of skin that is not even needed.
If it was needed, not only would the body grow it back but many males would not be able to function right.
 
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Missachu

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If I have six apples and I eat two, how many apples do I have left? That will prove that I am right and you are wrong.
4, and I agree on that number only if you ate them whole. But must we discuss in painful detail how you ate them and what part of the apple you did or didn't eat?
 
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We are Christians who give our very lives to Christ, we use the bible to show us the way and the HS guides us in understanding that way. Yet by reading many of these posts they are talking about how they personally, privately reason and question God's words to us. God talks about not making marks on the skin and God talks about circumcision, but the posts about the two things only brings in a man's conclusions about it.

Other posts say that you must look at health guidance first, then decide about what God says. Where is the trust in the God who created us?
 
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didymos

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It's approved for PEOPLE, not just Jewish people, but ALL PEOPLE. Duh.
even needed.
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Jews are obligated to circumcise their infants, christians are not. So there's no necessity for us to do so too.
 
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I wonder if the doctors don't give pain medication to
infants.
 
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Jews are obligated to circumcise their infants, christians are not. So there's no necessity for us to do so too.
It is my understanding that God used the Jews to show us His principles, and in doing that God had them do certain everyday things that was symbolic of those principles like circumcision for putting the mind and heart on spiritual things instead of fleshly. We are grafted in, as it says in Romans. When the gospel was given to the gentiles, we were excused from doing these symbolic things and Paul made a lot of what they symbolized. So we aren't obliged to do them, only to do what they symbolize, but we aren't forbidden. So many are doing them for they are from God, they lead the way to the spiritual, and we want to go the extra mile for the Lord, understanding that it is what they symbolize that God looks at, the reminders God gave are only reminders of the real obligations.
 
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colalella2891

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This thread is kind of ridiculous to me... I mean many people are saying circumcision is wrong because it hurts the baby, when MANY christian parents spank their kids, which also causes great pain for the kids. I know from experience. Also, spanking has been linked to personality disorders, self-esteem issues, etc.

If circumcision is wrong because it hurts the baby, then spanking would be considered wrong too. And I don't think i've ever met a Christian who hasn't spanked their kids. Just my opinion.
 
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dliz

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Haha... Very well said Doctor Azurefire!:)
PTSD in connection to circumcisions? o_O;

Okaay...

I've been a doctor for more than 3 years, and i have done countless circumcisions. I've never had any patient (or patient's parents for the young ones) follow-up to me with any PTSD complaints and such.

The circumcision that the Bible speaks about is, indeed, focused on the circumcision of one's heart, choosing a life that practices GOD's holiness, instead of sinful living.

The removal of the foreskin, or cutting it up at least to liberate the penile head is for health and hygienic purposes. The smegma needs to be removed (very foul-odored and teeming with bacteria) to avoid infections in that area.

As for a child possibly not "surviving" the stress of a circumcision procedure without having any trauma XD well, in my experience, if the parents themselves don't understand the procedure, and therefore, fail to encourage their sons properly, further aggravating the situation by transmitting their own fears to their sons who are to be circumcised/being circumcised, there lies the problem. The boy will become even more afraid, and will find the procedure as more of a torture activity instead of a health necessity. In this case, i believe the parents need to be educated and informed about the procedure and why it is being done. If they brought their son for circumcision half-heartedly, i refuse to perform the procedure, since i i know that a lot of drama will ensue XD totally unnecessary.

In our country, having a circumcision in males is actually a "rite of passage into manhood". Any boy 8 years old and above who have not been circumcised usually get teased and end up being called gay. It's not a good thing, i know. But it implies that i boy who refuses to get circumcised has no courage at all. To some extent, i agree to that. The pain is actually very tolerable, virtually non-existent during the procedure, even if it's done with the patient awake and using only local anaesthesia, of course. So if a boy couldn't "endure" such a simple, practically painless procedure, i do wonder about the boy's upbringing. Whether he is being spoiled rotten, or being trained to become tougher to, at least, bear with painful or scary experiences one can go through in life.

If the boy has a phobia at the sight of blood, that's a different story. I find that some kids (and even parents) are afraid of seeing blood, which would make the procedure, again, a dramatic event XD but i do my best to re-assure them before, during, and after the procedure. If they profess that they really can't go through with it, i never force them. But when they agreed, i patiently "walk them" through the procedure, as short as it may be. When they see that the bleeding is well controlled after suturing the cut skin, and that it's done fairly quick and painlessly, they all just laugh at their initial panic XD and they proudly call their newly-circumcised boy a young man.
 
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danschance

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LOL! No, tattoos are not approved by God. So no. If they were and had some kind of benefit besides cosmetic, then most likely yes. But that is not the case. Next argument please.
Circumcision is no longer approved by God. The bible says we should be circumcised in our hearts and on our lips. Cutting the foreskin of a male is mutilation.
 

onlinebuddy

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It is my understanding that God used the Jews to show us His principles, and in doing that God had them do certain everyday things that was symbolic of those principles like circumcision for putting the mind and heart on spiritual things instead of fleshly. We are grafted in, as it says in Romans. When the gospel was given to the gentiles, we were excused from doing these symbolic things and Paul made a lot of what they symbolized. So we aren't obliged to do them, only to do what they symbolize, but we aren't forbidden. So many are doing them for they are from God, they lead the way to the spiritual, and we want to go the extra mile for the Lord, understanding that it is what they symbolize that God looks at, the reminders God gave are only reminders of the real obligations.
So many are doing them for they are from God, they lead the way to the spiritual, and we want to go the extra mile for the Lord, understanding that it is what they symbolize that God looks at, the reminders God gave are only reminders of the real obligations.
I do not see the connection between allowing your kid to be circumcised and going the extra mile for God.
I wonder how many parents think of going an extra mile for God when they are getting their male children cut. Why then do atheists do it to their children? I'm of the impression that most people (Christians and Atheists) do it because it seems to be the right thing to do- more for cultural reasons than spiritual- and not much thought is given.
 
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danschance

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I do not see the connection between allowing your kid to be circumcised and going the extra mile for God.
I wonder how many parents think of going an extra mile for God when they are getting their male children cut. Why then do atheists do it to their children? I'm of the impression that most people (Christians and Atheists) do it because it seems to be the right thing to do- more for cultural reasons than spiritual- and not much thought is given.

Exactly. It is done purely because of conformity to cultural norms.

The New Testament forbids this practice. That means it is fine to NOT have it done.
 

onlinebuddy

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Well friend that's not what we are saying, actually the opposite. If God used circumcision back then with the Jewish nation, it must mean something other than a sign of Abraham and his children. Like eating pork, even though pigs were created, God told us not to eat it, most likely for health reasons if you look at it with the same perspective.
That's what many are saying- that it is for hygiene or health reasons. All I know is that circumcision was a sign of a covenant, that is not required today. Christians need not be circumcised physically, but MUST be circumcised at the heart.

it must mean something other than a sign of Abraham and his children
I don't see any other meaning. That was the only meaning. Please let me know if there is another meaning.

Like eating pork, even though pigs were created, God told us not to eat it, most likely for health reasons if you look at it with the same perspective.

Being forbidden from eating pork is a different issue altogether. It cannot be compared to cutting away a part of your child's body. And yes, pigs were designed to clean the dirt of the earth, and not for human consumption. So it makes sense to forbid man from eating pork.

Contrary to what many believe (about the foreskin being a useless piece of skin), circumcision involved giving up for the Lord a useful part of your body. A foreskin has a function, if you ask an informed person. God did not design it without a purpose. In a covenant, there is a sacrifice made by both parties involved. Why would God demand a piece of skin that was worthless anyway? God knew that circumcision amounted to sacrificing a small part of your body and being willing to go through all the pain. It was a term of the covenant.

The new covenant has terms too (Luke 14:33), and the expectation is higher than the OT.

In conclusion:
1 Cor 7:19-For neither circumcision counts for anything nor uncircumcision, but keeping the commandments of God.
 
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Onlinebuddy: How does circumcising mean going the extra mile? You quoted 1 Cor 7:19-For neither circumcision counts for anything nor uncircumcision, but keeping the commandments of God. That tells us that God sees the heart, rather than the physical doing.

But if people do something that reminds them of what God requires of them, something that helps them never to forget, it is going the extra mile. It is making sure that they actually do what God requires, not because it is necessary at all, but because you want to always obey.
 

maxwel

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PTSD in connection to circumcisions? o_O;

Okaay...

I've been a doctor for more than 3 years, and i have done countless circumcisions. I've never had any patient (or patient's parents for the young ones) follow-up to me with any PTSD complaints and such.

The circumcision that the Bible speaks about is, indeed, focused on the circumcision of one's heart, choosing a life that practices GOD's holiness, instead of sinful living.

The removal of the foreskin, or cutting it up at least to liberate the penile head is for health and hygienic purposes. The smegma needs to be removed (very foul-odored and teeming with bacteria) to avoid infections in that area.

As for a child possibly not "surviving" the stress of a circumcision procedure without having any trauma XD well, in my experience, if the parents themselves don't understand the procedure, and therefore, fail to encourage their sons properly, further aggravating the situation by transmitting their own fears to their sons who are to be circumcised/being circumcised, there lies the problem. The boy will become even more afraid, and will find the procedure as more of a torture activity instead of a health necessity. In this case, i believe the parents need to be educated and informed about the procedure and why it is being done. If they brought their son for circumcision half-heartedly, i refuse to perform the procedure, since i i know that a lot of drama will ensue XD totally unnecessary.

In our country, having a circumcision in males is actually a "rite of passage into manhood". Any boy 8 years old and above who have not been circumcised usually get teased and end up being called gay. It's not a good thing, i know. But it implies that i boy who refuses to get circumcised has no courage at all. To some extent, i agree to that. The pain is actually very tolerable, virtually non-existent during the procedure, even if it's done with the patient awake and using only local anaesthesia, of course. So if a boy couldn't "endure" such a simple, practically painless procedure, i do wonder about the boy's upbringing. Whether he is being spoiled rotten, or being trained to become tougher to, at least, bear with painful or scary experiences one can go through in life.

If the boy has a phobia at the sight of blood, that's a different story. I find that some kids (and even parents) are afraid of seeing blood, which would make the procedure, again, a dramatic event XD but i do my best to re-assure them before, during, and after the procedure. If they profess that they really can't go through with it, i never force them. But when they agreed, i patiently "walk them" through the procedure, as short as it may be. When they see that the bleeding is well controlled after suturing the cut skin, and that it's done fairly quick and painlessly, they all just laugh at their initial panic XD and they proudly call their newly-circumcised boy a young man.
This is SO much more info about circumcision than I EVER wanted to know!!!
:)

I am so glad this happened when I was a baby.

If it happened as an adult, I'd have constant nightmares...
especially if it was a female doctor aiming a knife down there.

: )
 

dliz

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Haha. My uncle is a surgeon and I was scanning through their photo album and saw a picture of man around his 40s who underwent circumcision.
I think it was brave of him. Lol. And Azurefire is right about part wherein a guy is ridiculed when he hasn't been circumcised by the time he reached puberty. Men have this perception that it's a manly thing to do which is true. Lol. But then again circumcision is done for hygienic purposes and also it should also be done at an early age because as you get older your foreskin hardens. I dont know the rationale behind that. Ask Dr.Azurefire for more precise answers. Lol.:)

This is SO much more info about circumcision than I EVER wanted to know!!!
:)

I am so glad this happened when I was a baby.

If it happened as an adult, I'd have constant nightmares...
especially if it was a female doctor aiming a knife down there.

: )
 
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maxwel

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Haha. My uncle is a surgeon and I was scanning through their photo album and saw a picture of man around his 40s who underwent circumcision.
I think it was brave of him. Lol. And Azurefire is right about part wherein a guy is ridiculed when he hasn't been circumcised by the time he reached puberty. Men have this perception that it's a manly thing to do which is true. Lol. But then again circumcision is done for hygienic purposes and also it should also be done at an early age because as you get older your foreskin hardens. I dont know the rationale behind that. Ask Dr.Azurefire for more precise answers. Lol.:)
Some of the discussions on CC really mess up my sleep at night.
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