Do you believe it is okay to date more than one person at a time?

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BruceWayne said:
Unless you're in an exclusive relationship, I see no reason not to. Perhaps just make it clear to those involved that you're doing so, finding what's right, nothing serious, etc.
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The thing is that if you made this known during one of the date nights this person would drop you like a hot potato and you will be picking up the tab.
 
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Jewel5712 said:
Absolutely there should be a difference..society says SELF GRATIFICATION..Christians says GOD EDDIFICATION...used to be no dating bout courtship with intent to marry...
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That has always been my policy and that is to never date unless there is someone you would consider marrying.
 
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ChandlerFan said:
It's likely there have been threads like this before, but hopefully one or more of these questions are framed in a unique way at least.

Do you believe it is okay to date more than one person at a time? If so, why? If not, why not? Or does it depend on the scenario or circumstance?

Obviously the Bible does not talk about dating. Dating is more of a late 20th-century social construct. So then are there any standards/guidelines that you use to guide you in the dating world? Do you think there is any difference in the way that culture goes about dating and the way that Christians should?
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I have dated more than one person at a time before. Personally, I think it's ok if everyone involved knows your stance. Its important to not date anyone else when you develop feelings for someone beyond mere friendship.

Of course there should be differences in dating the way the world views it and Christians view it. We need to honor God and apply His word and commandments to those relationships. Its important to be equally yoked and seek His approval. These things are not always easy and I certainly struggle.
 
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