Xoxojacky, I apologize.
I just realized I read your post completely wrong. I had thought you were a male who was asking females 21 and over to message you... Back in the day, guy's names used to be in blue and girl's names used to be in pink, so now days you can't really know at first glance.
I understand that a lot of new users assume Singles is a place to post a dating site-type ad and look for potential dates, but the actual purpose of Singles is to discuss topics and concerns relating to singleness from a Christian perspective.
I hope you'll jump right in and post some of your own threads/discussions, as well as joining the others in session.
And you could very well get to know a special someone along the way.