Feeling like a out cast from my family

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Christyg

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My family here lately when I'm around makes me feel like they dont want me around today they had my great niece a birthday party and I'm the only family member that wasnt invited I feel like they dont even care about me and my family any more
 

TabinRivCA

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Hi Christyg and welcome to CC. Re your situation it seems you should have an inkling as to what is the cause of this attitude your relatives have toward you. You know what I've decided after all the experiences I;ve had, I'd rather just go confront someone about something direct than to stress or guess what is going on. I'd sure pray, asking the Holy Spirit to bless your relations and guide you in resolving the issue. I pray it works out for you all, in Jesus' Name, Amen and God bless you.
 

oyster67

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My family here lately when I'm around makes me feel like they dont want me around today they had my great niece a birthday party and I'm the only family member that wasnt invited I feel like they dont even care about me and my family any more
I am so sorry, sister Christy.:cry: We want you to be a part of our family. A warm welcome to CC.:)
 

Isny

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Hello Christyg, I agree with what Oyster said: we want you to be a part of our family at Christian Chat. Here we encourage one another in our daily walk with our Shepherd, Jesus.

Be of good courage and He shall strengthen your heart all yea who hope in the Lord. Psalms 31:24.

We look forward to chatting with you. Welcome to Christian Chat, Christyg. :)
 

CharliRenee

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First, kudos for reaching out. Ouch ouch ouch, how hurtful. I stand in agreement with the others here. You R so welcome here and know that I will lift you in prayer. Hugs.

Oh one more thing...

Could it by chance have been a mistake or misunderstanding, like it wasn't intentional? I have been careless or just negated to remember all parties I wanted to invite to events before. It was just a d da d moment on my part, nothing more.
 

BlessedByGod

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My family here lately when I'm around makes me feel like they dont want me around today they had my great niece a birthday party and I'm the only family member that wasnt invited I feel like they dont even care about me and my family any more
First off, I want to say I'm very sorry to hear your going through this.
Second, I will say this to you. I learned a long time ago that there is the family your born into and then the Christian family you have been Blessed with. If your Blessed to have them be one in the same, then that is awesome! If not, then it's not. Jesus has said that we would be hated by the world, as they hated him first. So, be of good heart, that, although some may discard you and your families worth, it is not a bad thing even though it may hurt. I look back and see that God was pruning dead branches off my tree, so I could flourish in him even more and make room in life for better things. Be of good heart. I don't normally quote scripture, but in this case one comes to mind that applies. May it bring you comfort and lighten your burden in the Good Shepard.

Joshua 1:9
Be Strong and Couragous. Do not be Afraid or Discouraged.
For the Lord Your God WILL be with YOU Where ever you go.

I truly hope that some or all of this God Blesses you heart to be helped and Healed through and in. Be well and I look forward to chatting sometime if you would like.
 

blue_ladybug

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Hi Christy, feel free to post about this in the Family forum. :)

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Bingo

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Hi Christyg, Jesus will always have you. If people don't want you at the party, that's their loss. You will always win with Jesus Christ. Keep a good heart Christyg. Love, peace and good times from New Zealand.