How do you deal with pronouns

While i no fan of being hateful towards these people, the debate of being born or not is pretty much a toss up. Which answer you get depends on where you look. People against it have studies saying it's a choice. Those for it will say it's not a choice. I don't know which is actually right. Nor do i care, quite honestly. It's not changing my view either way.
There are some who, admittedly, do seem to have a natural aspect of this issue. But it's also well documented that same sex sexual child abuse is also a common factor. So to say, by default, all in that lifestyle are born that way has been proven false. As to the others, again, i don't know. As studies invalidate one another.
I've also heard studies state that those who underwent gender reassignment surgery and spent their lives that way will 'forget' their altered gender and revert back to their physical gender, when dealing with issues such as Alzheimers.

Unfortunately, no matter how passionate your response seems, it simply screams 'liberally influenced college student'. Angrily ranting about gender matters while condescendingly sharing information that sounds like you're repeating what a professor taught you and raging against religious beliefs. There are countless videos on YouTube of SJW's and liberals that, literally, sound identical to how you do now. You likely view yourself as well informed, but your approach makes you sound very typical. It would seem the very approach you're condemning others for is also found in your response. Spitefully spewing information while talking down to people and mocking their belief. Then talking about others not being able to rationalize while not sounding rational yourself.
Quite honestly your post sounds no different than those you're condemning, except for the opposing view. And a lot more rage.

And i say that as a non-Christian that believes in being respectful to the same people you do. But you'll win nothing with anyone with this approach. Which is why similar people are so commonly mocked on YT. Anger, rage and passion don't prove points.

All you people see all this written here. You see what happens when you compromise away the truth of God? Do you people see now how you let a little lie, a little leaven, and it turns into a massive abomination full of deception? Are you all not rather ashamed that you let your children become so deceived like this one here, lining up rank and file to join forces with Satan?

There are only two kingdoms; The kingdom of lies and the kingdom of truth, the kingdom of Satan and the kingdom of God. The two kingdoms can only fight eachother, they cannot fight themselves. God's kingdom will prevail and all the truth which God spoke shall come to pass and his judgements which he pronounced from times ancient will not be changed for all the lies in the world, in the name of Jesus, amen.

So you’re acquitting yourself and condemning her?

I agree with your stance on the seriousness of the transgression, but I suggest you are forgetting that but for the grace of God, go we.

You’re taking Romans 9:13 grossly out of context. That’s cherry picking. No more, no less.

I can see from this post some of us worship different Gods. I'm sorry if I came across as condescending but it's hard to read how some people can have such vile beliefs towards people God also created. Believe it's a sin or not, some of the things I've read have gone above and beyond with being hateful. Also regarding someones comment towards me insulting my family basically, they did raise me to believe that homosexuality and being transgender is a sin but they also raised me to be a free thinker. I didn't know that was something to chastise my parents over. I don't know. It really takes nothing away from you to respect someone's pronouns.

I suppose to accept someone's pronouns is to share in their guilt. So when Jesus returns, He may ask the one who accepted the false pronouns why they did not instead warn the sinner of God's coming wrath.

I can't share false pronouns, but this is out of honesty, not hatred. So you shouldn't think someone hates you just because they don't accept your beliefs.

It's more pointing out that saying "God loves everyone" usually isn't helpful in warning people of the wrath of God. Scripture clearly indicates God hated Esau. The most loving thing for us to do is warn people of God's wrath, with the good news about His love which He showed us through Jesus' death for those who believe in Him. There is no gospel without damnation.

How godly is a rant like this?

Scripture tells us that Rebekah carried two nations in her womb. Esau represents the nations which are unbelievers. Edomites were enemies of Israel, and God.