I certainly do not have the power nor the authority to forbid speaking in tongues. However, I CAN use what God says in His word to make an argument either for or against it depending on what the scriptures say about it.
The Holy Spirit definitely taught that speaking in tongues was a temporary situation as opposed to faith, hope, and charity which are lasting. 1 Cor. 13. In verse 8, He says that miraculous prophesying and speaking in tongues and miraculous knowledge will cease, end, stop. Do you believe what the Spirit says here? If you will accept what the Holy Spirit says in verse 8, then all that remains is to figure out WHEN (??) they will stop. Understanding the PURPOSE of spiritual gifts in the first place is helpful in understanding WHEN and WHY they will stop. Verse 9 is the reason they were necessary to the early church. “ For we know IN PART. (Verse 9) Those early churches had no revelation from God written down for all to follow. They were getting revelation from God in small pieces over a long period of time. A little bit here and a little bit there as the Spirt revealed it to them. In parts and pieces. That’s why Paul ordered all of the various epistles to be read in all the churches. That’s how they got their information of what God wanted them to do.
Even their prophesying was “IN PART”, verse 9. None of it was complete. It was ongoing at that time. They needed these spiritual gifts to help them and guide them. The gifts served a purpose. Paul says over and over, they were for edifying ( building up) and encouraging the church—the saints. But he also says they were temporary. He said they WILL STOP. If you accept the words of the Spirit up to this point, then all you and I disagree on is “WHEN” they will end. Verse 10 tells us “WHEN” they will stop. “When that which is perfect is come, then all that which is in part will be done away.” Understanding that last sentence is crucial to understanding when spiritual gifts like prophesying, speaking in tongues, and miraculous knowledge will be done away. Most of the ones I have talked to about this believe that the word “perfect” in that verse means “Christ.” So they assume speaking in tongues will last until the 2nd coming of Christ. I don’t know if this is what you believe or not. I do not believe this because if that were true, then the Holy Spirit used the wrong pronouns. “Which” and “that” usually point out “things” not people. If the Spirit had been referring to the Christ, He woujd have needed to say, “He WHO is perfect” referring to a person, not “that which” is perfect. That which is perfect is referring to a “thing.” Notice also that the word “perfect” is NOT capitalized, which would be unusual if it was referring to the Son of God.
As much as possible, I believe we should let the Bible define itself. We have the word “perfect” used in Romans 12:2. “ …prove what is that good and acceptable and PERFECT WILL OF GOD.” And again in James 1:25, “ But he who looks into the PERFECT LAW OF LIBERTY and continues in it…”. This explanation of what the word “perfect” means in 1 Cor. 13 is compatible with the contex of that chapter which was to explain that the revelation of God was not yet “perfect” or complete; they still knew the revelation of God only “in part.” But when they had ALL of God’s revelation complete, then spiritual gifts would no longer be necessary or needed and they would cease.
The 27 books of the cannon of scripture were completed in the 1st century with the final book of Revelation by the apostle John. The apostles passed on such gifts by the laying on of their hands on others. But nothing in the scriptures suggests that anyone having a spiritual gift could “pass it on” , other than an apostle. So when the last apostle died, and the last person who had a spiritual gift died, then the era of spiritual gifts ceased.
Your view is possible per Scripture, but I would like to suggest another view I consider to be an insight:
Gifts refers to abilities, and people still have those listed in Rom. 12:6-8 and 1Cor. 12:4-11 (minus miracles),
and these lists do not seem intended to be exclusive, so other abilities such as music and craftmanship may be included.
Even atheists have such abilities/blessings, although they do not glorify God (cf. 1Cor. 4:7, The Parable of the Talents in Matt. 25 and Matt. 5:45).