Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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Kauko

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How much have you drank today?
It may sound surprising but I have not drank today. Last time I did was last night. Maybe this is having effect though.

It was a sarcastic way of saying, that was not what I was taught when I was in school. Forget it, anyway.
 

seoulsearch

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It may sound surprising but I have not drank today. Last time I did was last night.

It was a sarcastic way of saying, that was not what I was taught when I was in school. Forget it, anyway.
This is what drinking does.

We can't even tell when you're sober, because everything you say run together in circles and never makes any sense, so then anything you say just makes it sound like you're drunk, yet again.

Actually... With some of the ludicrous claims you make, I wish it WAS just because of drinking, but if anything, I'm sure the drinking is bringing out what you're really made of.
 

Kauko

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This is what drinking does.

We can't even tell when you're sober, because everything you say run together in circles and never makes any sense, so then anything you say just makes it sound like you're drunk, yet again.
And if I stopped drinking for a week ?
 

Magenta

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It may sound surprising but I have not drank today. Last time I did was last night.

It was a sarcastic way of saying, that was not what I was taught when I was in school. Forget it, anyway.
What were you taught? Are you even capable of learning?

So tell us, what Satan (as the serpent) was called in what you were taught, when HE was not being called by name.

From the first book to the last, you deny what Scripture attests to?

The huge dragon was thrown out – that ancient serpent, named the Devil, or Satan,
that deceived the whole world. He was thrown down to earth, and all his angels with him.


12:13 When the dragon realised that he had been thrown down to the earth,
he began to pursue the woman who had given birth to the boy.
 

Encouragement

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What ones ? Say a few atleast.
do you know ANYTHING about the opposite sex based on real life experiences
1)Not about those females that you judge and condem
2)Not based on what you 'think' females are about either
 

Kauko

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What were you taught? Are you even capable of learning?

So tell us, what Satan (as the serpent) was called in what you were taught, when HE was not being called by name.

From the first book to the last, you deny what Scripture attests to?

The huge dragon was thrown out – that ancient serpent, named the Devil, or Satan,
that deceived the whole world. He was thrown down to earth, and all his angels with him.


12:13 When the dragon realised that he had been thrown down to the earth,
he began to pursue the woman who had given birth to the boy.
Yes, I told you were right !

I complained about what they taught me in school (Im not native english speaker as you may know).
 

Kauko

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do you know ANYTHING about the opposite sex based on real life experiences
1)Not about those females that you judge and condem
2)Not based on what you 'think' females are about either
I never met a righteous girl so I cant tell you

Do you know one ?
 

seoulsearch

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And if I stopped drinking for a week ?
What does a week matter when you're looking to spend a lifetime with someone?

I'm not trying to discredit anyone who is fighting alcoholism and manages to be sober for a week -- that's wonderful.

But in your case, you act like it's some big triumph, and you haven't even done it, but you act like you should be handed everything on a silver platter just after a week, when you won't even put in the effort to read posts in your own thread.

For a person with your disposition, that's barely a start.

Try going a couple years sober and then get back to me.
 

Kauko

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What does a week matter when you're looking to spend a lifetime with someone?

I'm not trying to discredit anyone who is fighting alcoholism and manages to be sober for a week -- that's wonderful.

But in your case, you act like it's some big triumph, and you haven't even done it, but you act like you should be handed everything on a silver platter just after a week, when you won't even put in the effort to read posts in your own thread.

For a person with your disposition, that's barely a start.

Try going a couple years sober and then get back to me.
No I was talking about effects of alcohol.

And yes, the longer I stay not drinking the better.
 

seoulsearch

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I never met a righteous girl so I cant tell you

Do you know one ?

It's ironic that you also don't seem to understand that many of us here have been here a while and have formed connections with a lot of people. Maybe not one in close proximity to you but we all have networks of people we know here, and they have networks of people they know, so if we see someone on the forum who seems like a really nice person, we often try to help them meet other people here or within the circles we all know.

If you seemed like a good Christian guy, there are people here who would be happy to introduce you to other people. Maybe not the dream girl you're hoping will fall on your doorstep, but maybe some people -- and yes, Christian girls -- to start talking to and strike up friendships with.

But you don't seem to understand that your conceit and hypocrisy that could rival the Pharisees, along with your total lack of wanting to do anything about it just isn't going to get anyone here to help you meet anyone else.
 

Magenta

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I never met a righteous girl so I cant tell you

Do you know one ?
Please read your Bible... one that nobody has urinated on, preferably ;)

In it you may find: There is no one righteous, not even one.

I know you know: that includes you :)
 

Encouragement

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I never met a righteous girl so I cant tell you

Do you know one ?
A righteous female is a saved sinner...A righteous man is a saved sinner.
A 'righteous'female is made righteous because of what christ has done for her..nothing she has actually done within herself to make that happen.
However despite being saved and being a child of God.Her God given femininity doesn't change.When you have a relationship with a female never make the mistake of assuming or presuming about her without knowing
about her.Other than the fact that she is Gods child shes STILL female and that will never change.The nature of christ get's developed over many years withing her...being interwoven with her femininity,personality ect.
1)she will have a past that may/may not have some kinda impact on her even now.
2)She may have hurts from the past in one way or another
3)She will have her own social network,best friends..even friends who have hurt her in the past
4)She will have her monthly cycle which will often be unpleasant for her will affect her emotionally even mentally for its duration
5)He will gave her own points of view about God,jesus,life, ect...which will not always be the same as yours and she will have her own deep convictions that you may not agree with
6)She will have her own perspective on what a man should be which has been formed from what life has shown her,what she has heard preached as will as whats happened in her past..( childhood,homelife,school life ect)
7)She will have her own way of dealing with the pressures of life and just because you are in her life she won't change them.
8)She will have her own personal vulnerabilities to a variety of things and may still be trying yo overcome them
9)She will have her limits or levels of tolerance and becoming tearful/fatigued/needing her own space can manifest.
10)Her age,looks,being able to be herself can play a part regarding her self esteem pending on her life experiences
11)She has her own inner strength and will tell you off if she feels you are in the wrong
12)It will be important for her to be listened to and understood
13)She will need to 'feel' valued nkt just be told she is..Sometimes words aren't enough
14)There maybe times she is unwell medically,
15) She will have her good days and bad days
16)She will have her own ambitions of career,when to have kids ect

There are somethings that will affect women much much older which I haven't added.

Need I go on.....This is the reality of having a real relationship with a female whi is a Christian.It's REAL'..Not some dreamlike bubble you have created in your mind and seem to relish in..
I haven't even mentioned about the fact that dating involves money,time,effort,Changing ones lifestyle to a accomodate them.. being flexible at times..and so much more
 

Lynx

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Because the labor market is too much stress for a woman. She is better in home calm doing the things of women. Just see how suicides and emotional problems among women have hit a record high the more they entered the world of men. Women who work outside home are much more likely to get depressed, attempt suicide, suffer from addictions and cheat on their husbands than women who stay home. This is because women are weaker and not prepared for so much stress. Accept it. If women were as strong as men, how could you explain that FEMALE sports teams have all MALE coaches ? (I noticed this in olympics LOL)
Calm? CALM!?!

Have you ever raised kids? Have you ever observed anybody else raising kids?

How in the world can you call THAT calm?
 

Lynx

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Well we did answer the original question of this thread. We know where all the girls are. They are hiding. Frankly I can't blame them.
 

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Because the labor market is too much stress for a woman. She is better in home calm doing the things of women. Just see how suicides and emotional problems among women have hit a record high the more they entered the world of men. Women who work outside home are much more likely to get depressed, attempt suicide, suffer from addictions and cheat on their husbands than women who stay home. This is because women are weaker and not prepared for so much stress. Accept it. If women were as strong as men, how could you explain that FEMALE sports teams have all MALE coaches ? (I noticed this in olympics LOL)
You took the quote of @seoulsearch out of context to suit your own narrative.