Salvation and eternal life cannot be EARNED because they are priceless. Only the blood of the eternal Son is precious enough to motivate the Father to give us salvation and eternal life. Jesus described this transaction as a sort of exchange - my life for His.
This is not at all an EQUITABLE exchange. In fact, in comparison to what He gave up for us what we offer Him is negligible.
Even so, the Father God invites us to enter into covenant by relinquishing the ownership of our souls to Him:
This is how Jesus put it: 25 For whoever wants to save his life [or who "clings to his life"] will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. (Matthew 16:25)
The word translated "life" is (pseuche or soul) which refers to our mind, will and emotions. In order to enter into covenant with Messiah the life of our soul which comprises our identity in this world, must be surrendered to Him.
When I was first saved it did not at the time seem to be empowering. It seemed more like a time of weakness when I realized I could no longer manage my life
I think agree we have to be drawn but many of those who have been invited to come will not unless they lay aside their own priorities and respond to the call.
I was not searching for God, no desire to go to church, in fact I had a negative desire LOL.
I still do not know how or why I ended up being baptized -but I am very very thankful now.
"relinquishing the ownership of our souls to Him"" the WORD says it this way . "give your life as a living sacrifice."
and what that means; The Father's WILL not our own. and for a human being without the Father Spirit in them that is utterly impossible. proof; 40 years in the wilderness, still could not obey.