Your
such a trouble maker girl.

Yeah, maybe I should have PM'ed him. I admitted that on the thread. But I was trying to open his eyes to something. I never accused him of being malicious. My intentions were to point out something to him in a way that would maybe, hopefully, jar him into seeing that how he was thinking was not beneficial to him, and also to some people on the thread. You have to admit, well, you don't have to have, but one of his posts was not appropriate. Or borderline inappropriate at best. One man to another, I was hoping to reel him in. If it was just a thread of us cave men, I would have told him to cool it, but not in the way I did. And I never wanted him banned (but you did just say that, I know). He got mad at me, i hope he still isn't. I should have PM'ed. I did what I thought was best at the time.
Unlike trolls who get outright abusive, nasty and confrontational. I think the situations were different enough that your comparing apples and oranges. You know, or at lease you I think you do, that when I said it should be obvious in a relatively short period of time, I am generalizing. It is not a scientific mathematical equation. Better to error the side of giving the benfit of the doubt. But come on Lynn, we all know if it looks like a duck, talks like a duck, etc.