God is sovereign. That mean this, in a nut shell.:
" I am the boss, I own everything, all the toys are mine, and I get to do what I want, how I want, with whom, I want, when I want".
So one day the Lord chastises me. I am sitting alone at my kitchen table. He speaks and I hear Him. (I don't mean I imagine I hear Him, I mean I hear Him speak words to me, and ask me questions)
He says "Rod why do you believe, what you believe, and who taught you" (This is a VERY IMPORTANT question, it implies something too, that is VERY important)...
In case you don't see it. It is an accusation, against me, for believing something about Him that wasn't true...
You see I wasn't trusting Him, at that point in my life I trusted only myself"
Also His question was a declaration that He was to be my teacher...
He continues... "You are like a piece of fruit in a bowl" ( he means the fruit are Christians), "with many other pieces of fruit...
BUT YOU are the WORST piece of fruit in the bowl".
"It is NOT your job to change yourself, that is MY job, I am the shepherd, you are the sheep. I am the farmer, you are the land. when I want to change something in your life I will bring it to your attention, all you have to do is agree with me, in whatever I reveal about you, to you.
Then He says something that almost frightens me. He says "Do you have a problem with me "USING" SIN to accomplish my will".
Then He explains saying "Do you remember David" (somehow in a way I can't explain to you, I was able to track with Him, without Him explaining every little detail). I could have said which story about David, there are many of them...So I said yes I remember.
He said and "you remember what I told him". I said yes, you told him he could NOT build you a temple, but that he would have a son that would build it.
Then He says to me, the most profound thing: He says "Now watch me fulfill my own prophetic words, watch me fulfill it". Its then almost as if I see a small projector, watching this play out.
You know the story too. David is just at the right place and the precise right moment, same for Bathsheba, and from that sin, that union, eventually comes a son, who built God's temple.
NO one could have arranged that event, nor any other event in the bible.
SO God is sovereign, whether we can explain it in super duper logical chrsitianese is regardless of the facts