Domestic Violence Support and Safety Form.

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What He wants.
What do you want?

"I am no longer willing to tolerate any form of abuse—especially hidden behind a spiritual facade. Your behavior is harmful, controlling, and completely unacceptable. Stop harassing me immediately or I will have no choice but to report you to the moderators and take whatever steps are necessary to protect myself and others. Don’t ever talk to me again. This is my clear boundary: leave me alone and respect my safety and dignity."

 

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Today Im pretty sure I was raped. I want to talk to someone in DMs because its private information. But I cant DM. I have therapy on Friday I think I can wait until then of nobody can send a DM to me. I cant talk to family or freinds because I dont want anyone to look poorly on the person. If they see im discussing it in public they will get very mad and feel betrayed.

This community is meant to encourage and support women who need strength to leave abusive situations and to grow in healing and hope. It is not a place for private counseling.

Please understand that this forum is designed to provide general encouragement and guidance for survivors, not individual therapy or private discussions about sensitive experiences. If you need confidential support, there are specialized services and professionals who can help you safely.

We ask that you respect the purpose of this group by keeping your posts focused on encouragement, strength, and moving forward. If you would like, we can help direct you to resources where you can talk privately and get the care you need.

Thank you for understanding and helping us keep this a safe and positive place for all members.

 

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Dear Friends,

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. It's a time to remember how serious this problem is and how many people are hurting in their homes. Many women and men face abuse from those they love, and the pain can be very deep. But there is hope and help for those who seek it.

Gabby Petito’s dad recently went to the Purple on the Plaza event to speak for those who still suffer in silence. His courage helps bring light to this dark situation. Gabby Petito’s dad attends inaugural Purple on the Plaza

If you or someone you know is hurting, please know you are not alone. There are safe places and people ready to help. Let’s pray for healing, safety, and peace for all who need it.


Sincerely,

Branch

 

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Gabby Petito March 19, 1999 to August 27, 2021

 

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Nicole Brown Simpson May 19, 1959 to June 12, 1994

 

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Sara Sharif January 11, 2013 to August 8, 2023

 

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Nerine Kidd July 13, 1959 to August 9, 1999

 

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The creation of 1-800 crisis hotlines—including hotlines for domestic violence—was driven in part by real-life cases like that of Francine Hughes, whose story was shown in the 1984 movie "The Burning Bed." This true story showed the urgent need for women experiencing abuse to have a safe way to seek help before resorting to desperate measures.

Francine Hughes endured over 12 years of severe abuse before reaching a breaking point and fatally setting fire to her sleeping ex-husband—a case that captured national attention and exposed the absence of resources for victims of domestic violence. Her trial and the subsequent national airing of "The Burning Bed" became turning points in American awareness, fueling advocacy for stronger domestic violence laws as well as practical resources—like hotlines, shelters, and legal protections—for people attempting to escape abuse

1. National Domestic Violence Hotline
   • Phone: 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)
   • TTY: 1-800-787-3224
   • Text: Text "START" to 88788
   • Website: https://www.thehotline.org
   • Available 24/7, provides free, confidential support, crisis intervention, safety planning, and referrals to local services.
2. Love is Respect (National Dating Abuse Helpline)
   • Phone: 1-866-331-9474
   • Text: Text "loveis" to 22522
   • Website: https://www.loveisrespect.org
   • Focuses on dating abuse with advocacy, safety resources, and education.
3. StrongHearts Native Helpline (for Native Americans)
   • Phone/Text: 1-844-762-8483
   • Website: https://www.strongheartshelpline.org
   • Culturally appropriate domestic and dating violence support.
4. RAINN – Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network
   • Phone: 1-800-656-4673 (HOPE)
   • Online Chat: hotline.rainn.org/online
   • Website: https://www.rainn.org
   • Support for sexual assault survivors.

These resources help survivors find safety, counseling, shelter, legal advocacy, and crisis support nationwide. Calling 911 is essential for immediate emergencies. Websites also offer secure online chat options for discreet help.

 

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Call 911!

Its not that simple. I love this person and they really didn't see what they did as Rape. We talked to a pastor today and they repented and hopefully it won't happen again. They are truly a good person, with faults in certain areas. As we all are. Im feeling better after hearing that things will be better moving forward.

 

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Its not that simple. I love this person and they really didn't see what they did as Rape. We talked to a pastor today and they repented and hopefully it won't happen again. They are truly a good person, with faults in certain areas. As we all are. Im feeling better after hearing that things will be better moving forward.

There is no chance this person will do this to someone else?

 

[Carlyw]

There is no chance this person will do this to someone else?

Absolutely no chance, for sure.

 

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Janis Joplin

Family Abuse:
Janis Joplin experienced emotional neglect and rejection from her family. After the birth of her younger sister, her parents shifted their attention away from her, leading Janis to feel unloved and ignored. She also endured bullying and social exclusion, which further deepened her sense of isolation and pain. Janis grew up in a rough, conservative environment and was often the subject of cruel humor and verbal abuse from peers and even friends.

Relationship Abuse:
While less documented than her family struggles, Janis’s turbulent lifestyle and impulsive behavior likely involved unhealthy relationships. Her unpredictable, rebellious nature and substance abuse may have complicated personal connections.

Addiction:
Janis struggled deeply with addiction to heroin and alcohol throughout much of her career. Her substance abuse was part of her way to self-medicate the pain from emotional wounds and rejection. Tragically, she died at 27 from a heroin overdose.

 

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Whitney Houston

Family Abuse:
Whitney Houston family but also a strict and controlling mother. While direct family abuse is less documented, she reportedly endured emotional pressures growing up in the spotlight.

Relationship Abuse:
Whitney’s marriage to Bobby Brown was reportedly abusive, marked by physical and emotional abuse that took a toll on her mental health. This relationship contributed significantly to her struggles and downward spiral.

Addiction:
Whitney battled addiction to drugs and alcohol for years, intertwined with the trauma of her abusive relationship and pressures of fame. She eventually died from accidental drowning related to substance use.

 

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Amy Winehouse

Family Abuse:
Amy Winehouse’s family life is less noted for abuse but more for dysfunction and emotional strain as she grew into a troubled young adult.

Relationship Abuse:
Amy was involved in toxic relationships that featured emotional abuse. Her romantic struggles with Blake Fielder-Civil were highly publicized and had a damaging influence on her life.

Addiction:
Amy’s battle with severe alcohol and drug addiction was well known. She used substances to cope with emotional pain and mental health issues, tragically dying at 27 from alcohol poisoning.

 

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If you’re forced to stay with an abusive spouse and they can be reasoned with, try the methods listed in Jay Carter’s book (Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them Without Becoming One of Them). If they cannot be reasoned with and you can’t escape, don’t engage or give them any information they can use to pick fights with you. The more they know, the more reasons they have to argue with you. The more ammunition they'll have against you, they'll use it against you. Live submissively—that’s how you’re going to have to live—and he still might beat you. And don't think you're safe just because you’re living submissively. Every time he beats you, you’ll never know if that could be the last. It would be best to get out, but if it's not possible, be praying all the time. There's always hope with Christ. Take one day at a time, pray constantly: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."