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HeIsHere said:
I have no interest in your false doctrine, been there, done that.
Anyway I am going back to the content of this thread and not responding to your bogus interruptions and accusations.
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Don't worry. I know how well you "stay" on-topic and your leftist programming but i'll be here to correct you when needed.
 
SonJudgment said:
Frankly, and this isn't an accusation I do think you have good intention, but it is kinda sus to be trying to start a form on a forum looking for vulnerable women. Like if you actually are being abused what you think CC gonna do for you? And that's even frankly unfair to CC to put them in that spot. Go call the cops and go to the secular court or go back to your father and tell him the whole truth even if you think it embarassing, tell him the whole truth, and let him judge the situation and counsel you about what is best to do.
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Exactly!
 
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HeIsHere said:
Well feel free to leave this thread then since it is obviously is not an area of interest.
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Okay I will do this for you, but I'm just going to say again it's not really wise to take that all for a complete stranger on the internet, nor is it even really fair to CC to expect that. If you're actually being abused then go to the cops and the secular law or if for some reason you are doubtful or can't do that then go to your father and get his counsel and get real justice, get real results to get you out of the situation.
 
SonJudgment said:
Okay I will do this for you, but I'm just going to say again it's not really wise to take that all for a complete stranger on the internet, nor is it even really fair to CC to expect that. If you're actually being abused then go to the cops and the secular law or if for some reason you are doubtful or can't do that then go to your father and get his counsel and get real justice, get real results to get you out of the situation.
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What are you talking about. :rolleyes:
 
HeIsHere said:
What are you talking about. :rolleyes:
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Allow me to reformat maybe for concision before I remove this from the watch list then.

-It is not prudent at the least of it and is sus at the most of it if we're just honest to have like a DV form on here in my opinion because you don't know who is behind the screen. I'm not saying that's the case with Branch here, since some of the advice is actually legit good advice and sound in some of the posts for sure and the contact numbers these are smart and what they should be calling.
-It is unfair to CC to expect them to enforce this or condone it because it's an internet forum not a licensed DV clinic, and furthermore like it's not to their CC staff it's a form to just a private member, that's kinda ridiculous to then say you're gonna start blaming CC for some conspiracy or whatever.

The most important part directly to the subject:

-If you are seriously being abused, and stressed actual abuse, physical abuse, you indeed need help
-You are best helped by going to the secular authorities (cops and the courts in the US and most of the world) not an internet forum.
-If you have doubts whether something constitutes abuse, or have doutbs about your secular government, then the Biblical recommendation is the appeal to your father and do what he thinks best, and be honest with him too even if you feel embarassed so that he knows what to do correctly. Frankly speaking he will probably suggest to go to the secular authorities too anyways, the road usually leads back to that route anyways.
 
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SonJudgment said:
Allow me to reformat maybe for concision before I remove this from the watch list then.

-It is not prudent at the least of it and is sus at the most of it if we're just honest to have like a DV form on here in my opinion because you don't know who is behind the screen. I'm not saying that's the case with Branch here, since some of the advice is actually legit good advice and sound in some of the posts for sure and the contact numbers these are smart and what they should be calling.
-It is unfair to CC to expect them to enforce this or condone it because it's an internet forum not a licensed DV clinic, and furthermore like it's not to their CC staff it's a form to just a private member, that's kinda ridiculous to then say you're gonna start blaming CC for some conspiracy or whatever.

The most important part directly to the subject:

-If you are seriously being abused, and stressed actual abuse, physical abuse, you indeed need help
-You are best helped by going to the secular authorities (cops and the courts in the US and most of the world) not an internet forum.
-If you have doubts whether something constitutes abuse, or have doutbs about your secular government, then the Biblical recommendation is the appeal to your father and do what he thinks best, and be honest with him too even if you feel embarassed so that he knows what to do correctly. Frankly speaking he will probably suggest to go to the secular authorities too anyways, the road usually leads back to that route anyways.
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Thank you!
 
Dear Sisters,

There are some men whose behavior is marked by abuse, violence, and harmful control, and this can deeply wound both wives and children. While we cannot always understand the full reasons behind their actions, Scripture teaches us that sin and evil can lead men to misuse their God-given role of protector and provider, turning it into a source of pain instead.

It is important to recognize the warning signs of abusive behavior in some men, so you can protect yourself and your family:

  • Patterns of anger, jealousy, or controlling behavior that isolate you or intimidate you.
  • Disrespect and harsh treatment that belittles or devalues you or your children.
  • Secretive actions, dishonesty, or behaviors that make you feel unsafe or uneasy in the home.
  • Use of threats, manipulation, or physical force to assert power over you.
  • Lack of accountability, refusal to seek help or acknowledge wrong.
Remember Proverbs 22:24-25 warns us: “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared.”

Some men’s struggles with sin or secret sins may cloud their judgment and lead them down destructive paths, but this does not justify abuse. The Lord calls us to justice and protection of the vulnerable.

If you see these signs, do not ignore your intuition or dismiss your pain. Seek wisdom, safety, and counsel from trusted believers, pastoral leaders, or professional help. Your well-being, and the well-being of your children, is paramount.

God’s heart is for love, peace, and restoration. You are precious in His sight.

With care and prayer, Branch
 
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Dear Sisters,

I want to speak to you today about something important many of you may face in places meant to support and empower survivors of abuse. Sometimes, there are people who refuse to respect boundaries and disrupt the safe spaces created for healing and strength.

In our forum, Eli has repeatedly been asked to leave and to respect others’ space, but he continues to stay and challenge those who are trying to find support. Though he tries to play the victim, the reality is that this forum was never meant for him. Its purpose is to empower women, to give voice to those who have been silenced, and to provide protection and encouragement.

When someone refuses to leave despite requests and tries to dominate or control the conversation, it often reveals a deeper resistance to empowerment—an attempt to undermine healing and keep women from finding strength.

Remember, true empowerment comes from setting boundaries, standing firm, and refusing to tolerate those who seek to disrupt or dismiss your pain.

You deserve to be heard, respected, and supported. Don’t allow anyone to diminish your voice or trample your journey to freedom.

God bless you all! Amen.
 
Branch said:
Dear Sisters,

I want to speak to you today about something important many of you may face in places meant to support and empower survivors of abuse. Sometimes, there are people who refuse to respect boundaries and disrupt the safe spaces created for healing and strength.

In our forum, Eli has repeatedly been asked to leave and to respect others’ space, but he continues to stay and challenge those who are trying to find support. Though he tries to play the victim, the reality is that this forum was never meant for him. Its purpose is to empower women, to give voice to those who have been silenced, and to provide protection and encouragement.

When someone refuses to leave despite requests and tries to dominate or control the conversation, it often reveals a deeper resistance to empowerment—an attempt to undermine healing and keep women from finding strength.

Remember, true empowerment comes from setting boundaries, standing firm, and refusing to tolerate those who seek to disrupt or dismiss your pain.

You deserve to be heard, respected, and supported. Don’t allow anyone to diminish your voice or trample your journey to freedom.

God bless you all! Amen.
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Incorrect.
A discussion forum is NOT your platform to bully people. This is why i told you earlier to not use your hurt to hurt others.
I called you out on post 85 when you went over the line but due to your pride and ego or other reasons you are unable to see the errors of your ways which go beyond this topic.
I will be here to call you out again in this public forum but i'd also like to congratulate you on post 128 where you're making an effort.
Good job.
 
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