farewell (for real this time)

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Well after about 10 months on CC , I'm pulling the plug. I've realized I have wasted too much time here, hoping to find someone but to no avail. It is evident that I could make better use of my free time to work out more to make myself more appealing to the opposite sex. Thus I will dedicate every fiber of my being to getting as fit as possible until I am impossible to ignore. I am sorry if this offends anyone , but finding people on the internet is for losers, and is a sign of desperation. I am going to go live life in the real world and take my chances. I know I've quit like 10 times already but this time's for real. I know you're all laughing , and this is pretty funny but I'm done hopelessly dreaming. Catch you all on the flip side.
 
Ah I see the problem,you confused CC for a dating site.

Maybe stick around and treat it just as a Christian chat site. :)
 
It sounds as if your struggles run deeper than weightlifting will resolve, Wild.

You don't owe anyone anything on here, but you should at least be honest with yourself.
 
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Well after about 10 months on CC , I'm pulling the plug. I've realized I have wasted too much time here, hoping to find someone but to no avail. It is evident that I could make better use of my free time to work out more to make myself more appealing to the opposite sex. Thus I will dedicate every fiber of my being to getting as fit as possible until I am impossible to ignore. I am sorry if this offends anyone , but finding people on the internet is for losers, and is a sign of desperation. I am going to go live life in the real world and take my chances. I know I've quit like 10 times already but this time's for real. I know you're all laughing , and this is pretty funny but I'm done hopelessly dreaming. Catch you all on the flip side.
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Well, you're talking about searching for love online for losers and desperate people. Yet you're off to the shallowest place in your heart and mind to turn your flesh into something that means nothing. To dedicate yourself into becoming something you're not to make yourself irresistible.
Not only are you sadly delusional, the very desperation you apply to others is screaming out in such an obvious manner it would be laughable if it weren't such a sad state of your heart and mind.
Also that you are so focused on finding someone speaks poorly of your mental and spiritual state. Combine that with a clear lack of understanding if why people go online and a need to insult others in this misunderstanding reveals what an empty, bitter heart you have.
Be as in shape and shallow as you want. But with that shallow and ugly heart hopefully your expectations are in finding a woman just like you. Any woman worth having will be turned off by your attitude. Perhaps that's the root cause you're having now, with not finding anyone.
I genuinely hope you will mature one day and find a better way to exist.
 
I'm sorry to see you go, Wild, but I do understand. You added quite a bit of flavor to this place (I'm thinking, a lot of Russian vodka? :D)

I'm sorry your time here has been so disappointing.

While I wouldn't mind meeting a significant other here, it hasn't happened, but I can tell you I've met many many wonderful people and have made some very close friends--some of whom were even willing to step out of the screen and into my real, face-to-face life (fortunately it wasn't in a Samara-from-The-Ring kind of way.)

And I'm hoping to meet many more!

I will honestly miss you.

Safe journey and God bless you.
 
Hey, did you ever talk to SweetMorningDew like I suggested? PM her, bro. There's a peach if there ever was one. Good Luck
 
Farewell, then.

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Wild said:
Well after about 10 months on CC , I'm pulling the plug. I've realized I have wasted too much time here, hoping to find someone but to no avail. It is evident that I could make better use of my free time to work out more to make myself more appealing to the opposite sex. Thus I will dedicate every fiber of my being to getting as fit as possible until I am impossible to ignore. I am sorry if this offends anyone , but finding people on the internet is for losers, and is a sign of desperation. I am going to go live life in the real world and take my chances. I know I've quit like 10 times already but this time's for real. I know you're all laughing , and this is pretty funny but I'm done hopelessly dreaming. Catch you all on the flip side.
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Finding people on the internet is... somewhat futile I suppose. I've never tried.

If that's the reason you were here, no wonder you are frustrated.

We're not laughing, or at least I know I'm not, but we do wish you would stick around and just chat. This is a great place to hang out and swap thoughts about random stuff.
 
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Finding people on the internet is... somewhat futile I suppose. I've never tried.

If that's the reason you were here, no wonder you are frustrated.

We're not laughing, or at least I know I'm not, but we do wish you would stick around and just chat. This is a great place to hang out and swap thoughts about random stuff.
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This time i aggree with you :)
Wild in this chat you can find many kinds of ppl n you can laught n hearing ppl stories n experiances.
I know real world is always there hope you can stay with our big family christian chat :)

Blessing wild.
 
Wild said:
Well after about 10 months on CC , I'm pulling the plug. I've realized I have wasted too much time here, hoping to find someone but to no avail. It is evident that I could make better use of my free time to work out more to make myself more appealing to the opposite sex. Thus I will dedicate every fiber of my being to getting as fit as possible until I am impossible to ignore. I am sorry if this offends anyone , but finding people on the internet is for losers, and is a sign of desperation. I am going to go live life in the real world and take my chances. I know I've quit like 10 times already but this time's for real. I know you're all laughing , and this is pretty funny but I'm done hopelessly dreaming. Catch you all on the flip side.
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This is a good idea. Probably some hotties up in the gym.
 
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Ah I see the problem,you confused CC for a dating site.

Maybe stick around and treat it just as a Christian chat site. :)
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Well you know, you can meet someone anywhere. My exwife met her loser new husband on game of war.
 
Hellooo said:
It sounds as if your struggles run deeper than weightlifting will resolve, Wild.

You don't owe anyone anything on here, but you should at least be honest with yourself.
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If you put up a goal, like turning your body into a greek statue, and stick to it, positive things can come of it.
 
Hey! Wild :) that is sad to know you are leaving...but you know more than us what's best for you... :)

I didn't know that people on the internet are not part of a real world :D

There are women/men who prefer the outside appearance of a person but there are also who like the inside beauty of a person.

When you are in the real world Wild, look for that person who will love you not because you have six packs but because you are an incredible person inside :) and while looking for that woman maybe think about how you can be more kinder,gentler and nicer so that a real woman will going to notice you :)


God bless you and take care ❤
 
Exercising is good for the outside. Believe it or not, it all starts on the inside. If I may suggest, get to know more (not that anyone can really learn all there is to know) about Jesus. He will take care of the inside, as well as the outside. True story, my unbeliever friends thought I looked “different, good different” the week I spent hearing His word and reading about His love for me. It was effortless! ;)

Wild said:
Well after about 10 months on CC , I'm pulling the plug. I've realized I have wasted too much time here, hoping to find someone but to no avail. It is evident that I could make better use of my free time to work out more to make myself more appealing to the opposite sex. Thus I will dedicate every fiber of my being to getting as fit as possible until I am impossible to ignore. I am sorry if this offends anyone , but finding people on the internet is for losers, and is a sign of desperation. I am going to go live life in the real world and take my chances. I know I've quit like 10 times already but this time's for real. I know you're all laughing , and this is pretty funny but I'm done hopelessly dreaming. Catch you all on the flip side.
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wild if you're going to leave take all your russians with you, because i'm starting to believe all russians are you. paz out.
 
I was hammered when I posted that. Reading it now I came off like a douche. Sorry everybody, internet is cool for meeting people. There are many ways , some works good for some, some other ways are better for someone else. I'll just go my own way, but don't want people mad at me before I leave. I apologize everyone, have a nice life whoever you are.
 
Right, we will add that to the list.

Don't drink and drive.
Don't drink and drill.
Don't drink and dance.
Don't drink and play baseball.
Don't drink and post.
 
Wild said:
Well after about 10 months on CC , I'm pulling the plug. I've realized I have wasted too much time here, hoping to find someone but to no avail. It is evident that I could make better use of my free time to work out more to make myself more appealing to the opposite sex. Thus I will dedicate every fiber of my being to getting as fit as possible until I am impossible to ignore. I am sorry if this offends anyone , but finding people on the internet is for losers, and is a sign of desperation. I am going to go live life in the real world and take my chances. I know I've quit like 10 times already but this time's for real. I know you're all laughing , and this is pretty funny but I'm done hopelessly dreaming. Catch you all on the flip side.
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For what it's worth, I completely understand why you think this way.

It's the exact same reason why we women try to diet and purge ourselves down to nothing.

I can tell you though, I've known some people who were, or became, the eye candy they thought would win them the attention or love they were seeking.

And they feel just as empty, if not more, because yes, people pay attention to them, but it's because they want to use them or treat them like a trophy. But one person told me, "Fake love is better than no love at all." This person went from one extreme--the nobody who was never noticed--to the opposite, with those of the opposite gender fighting over that person--and they felt just as empty, bitter, and alone as they did before. Probably even more so, because they saw just abusive the wrong attention can be.

I'm sorry that you're feeling so alone, and that being here with us and talking to us doesn't seem to help at all?

I guess maybe I'm a bit too naive, but I'd like to think we're all in this together, and that we can help pull each other through.

You're more than welcome to stay.

Some of my favorite people here are the ones who are struggling the most.
 
I understand. Technology can be a black hole. A validation machine, or an entertainment machine. The less I use technology the better off I am really. Sometimes cold turkey is the only way. Good luck. Doing something for yourself is a step in the right direction.
 
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