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Hello all,
I am new here so I would firstly like to say thank you for allowing me to join.
So my problem is a serious one so I shall start at the beginning...
I live in the UK and my girlfriend lives in Romania. We first met when I travelled there a few years ago. I believe in my heart that God brought us together. She too is a Christian.
Unfortunately, a couple years ago, she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. The doctors prescribed medication to try to clear it up. Expensive medication, several hundred dollars per month. With no way for her to pay it, I readily chose to pay.
Unfortunately the treatment was not successful and the Cancer only got worse. I had the option of borrowing money to pay for the operation, or letting this cancer consume her.
I have also been supporting her as she has been unable to work due to this illness.
But more recently, I have not been able to help her as my debts have reached a point that almost all my salary goes towards paying them off.
This has mean that my girlfriend has had to resort to borrowing small amounts of money from what family she can, just to survive. With currently virtually no means of income, her situation is getting worse, day by day.
I have tried consolidate my loans, in order to make things easier, but no company will help me due to the level of debt. I even approached the Citizens Advice Bureau for advice, they could not help. So now I do not know what to do or where to turn.
We hope one day to be married, but have not been able to see each other for months now, and due to our situations, we have no idea how long it will be before we are able to once again.
I have been praying for a solution to our problems every day for months.
Thank you for your time.
I am new here so I would firstly like to say thank you for allowing me to join.
So my problem is a serious one so I shall start at the beginning...
I live in the UK and my girlfriend lives in Romania. We first met when I travelled there a few years ago. I believe in my heart that God brought us together. She too is a Christian.
Unfortunately, a couple years ago, she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. The doctors prescribed medication to try to clear it up. Expensive medication, several hundred dollars per month. With no way for her to pay it, I readily chose to pay.
Unfortunately the treatment was not successful and the Cancer only got worse. I had the option of borrowing money to pay for the operation, or letting this cancer consume her.
I have also been supporting her as she has been unable to work due to this illness.
But more recently, I have not been able to help her as my debts have reached a point that almost all my salary goes towards paying them off.
This has mean that my girlfriend has had to resort to borrowing small amounts of money from what family she can, just to survive. With currently virtually no means of income, her situation is getting worse, day by day.
I have tried consolidate my loans, in order to make things easier, but no company will help me due to the level of debt. I even approached the Citizens Advice Bureau for advice, they could not help. So now I do not know what to do or where to turn.
We hope one day to be married, but have not been able to see each other for months now, and due to our situations, we have no idea how long it will be before we are able to once again.
I have been praying for a solution to our problems every day for months.
Thank you for your time.