Finding a good Christian girl from France to marry

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MatthewWestfieldUK

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I can't believe that you guys reacted to what seems a blatantly disingenuous post.
 

Lynx

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I can't believe that you guys reacted to what seems a blatantly disingenuous post.
Yeah, it's pretty obvious he's a troll. However... we can still get some amusement from the intellectual exercise of countering his arguments.
 
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That's an opinion piece, in reaction to a very pro femininst piece and sounds like it's quoting just one evolutionary psychologist. We don't even know how respected that psychologist is in his profession because we don't know who he is. You're going to have to do much better than that to support your argument if you want to be taken seriously. That's hardly in the realm of proven fact (heck I can link you to a professor of psychology who consistently states that women are the ones who are sexually selective and men have to compete for them which basically puts women in charge (though I find the view that men would sleep with any willing woman, to be completely unfair and demeaning to the men who are trying to live righteously (and men in general since it pretty much takes away their agency in deciding their sexual behavior)).

No one around here is arguing that a world without men would be good; we're just saying that since a woman is likely to have to take care of herself and make it on her own without a husband at some point in her life, she should know how to do so and how to live independently. That can also protect her from feeling like she has to rush into a relationship when all her relationship options are bad options. Not being socially or economically forced into marriage is overall a good thing (though we haven't done a good enough job of teaching people about the benefits and responsibilities inherent in a good marriage which would be a good thing for society to focus on more).
I'm one of those men trying to live righteously, but I think it's true in fact that many men would sleep with any woman because they have been deceived into thinking that sleeping around will make them alphas (when it's actually the other way around, self-control is what characterizes an alpha male) and that all women are (supposedly) sl*ts. Could a 40-year-old loser pay for prostitution 15 times a month and be an alpha because he has slept as much as the so-called chad that month? Of course not all men are like this, there are men who are (or would be) extremely faithful to their wives & would never accept an one-night stand just as not all women are sl*ts and there are women who are (or would be) extremely faithful to their husbands & would never accept an one-night stand.
 
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No one around here is arguing that a world without men would be good; we're just saying that since a woman is likely to have to take care of herself and make it on her own without a husband at some point in her life, she should know how to do so and how to live independently. That can also protect her from feeling like she has to rush into a relationship when all her relationship options are bad options. Not being socially or economically forced into marriage is overall a good thing (though we haven't done a good enough job of teaching people about the benefits and responsibilities inherent in a good marriage which would be a good thing for society to focus on more).
This is why men willing to follow God like me should pursue women willing to follow God.

(I'm not saying I'm perfect just as my wife will not be perfect)
 

Lynx

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Must be the macho side that included all that profanity. ** does not a free pass make.
 

seoulsearch

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I can't believe that you guys reacted to what seems a blatantly disingenuous post.
Hi Matt!

Hopefully you'll be a member here long enough to witness this, but there are people who sincerely believe the things that the original poster is expressing, and every now and then, we have one join us here in the forums.

I personally find it valuable to answer such posters because the Bible says, "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks." (Matthew 12:34.)

Sometimes, the craziest stories in life are the ones that turn out to be true, and I try not to dismiss a story unless I'm totally convinced it's not true.

In the meantime, engaging with and getting the person to talk is the best way to get them to show what's on their heart, and once the cards are on the table, it's up to the readers to decide what information they do or do not want to take to heart, and whether or not they want to answer any further.
 
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Hi Matt!

Hopefully you'll be a member here long enough to witness this, but there are people who sincerely believe the things that the original poster is expressing, and every now and then, we have one join us here in the forums.

I personally find it valuable to answer such posters because the Bible says, "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks." (Matthew 12:34.)

Sometimes, the craziest stories in life are the ones that turn out to be true, and I try not to dismiss a story unless I'm totally convinced it's not true.

In the meantime, engaging with and getting the person to talk is the best way to get them to show what's on their heart, and once the cards are on the table, it's up to the readers to decide what information they do or do not want to take to heart, and whether or not they want to answer any further.
looks like he wont be talking anymore.
 

seoulsearch

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Must be the macho side that included all that profanity. ** does not a free pass make.
I don't report posts very often, but I reported that one.

Even if it's left up and stays intact, at least they'll be aware of it and what this user is saying in his posts.
 

NotmebutHim

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Semper Fi!

Anyone who's been here a while knows what I'm getting at.......... ;)
 
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Ruby123

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Yeah, fun's over. Back to normal chat until the next entertainer... er, troll shows up.
There seems to be quite a few of them unless that is normal.
 

Evmur

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Hi to all fellow Christians, I’m a 18yo looking for a beautiful innocent French Christian girl to marry and have children raised in faith and humility. The thing is that I’m not from USA and need some advice for finding and dating the right girl in my country, which is France (Im of French descent but live in Luxembourg, considering moving back to France). I ask this because all the dating talks here appear to come from USA or the Anglosphere, and I need advice more suited for my country because the culture is not the same & the circumstances may be different etc. So please I kindly ask you to answer a few questions for me:

> How many single Christian girls are there in France compared to USA & the English world (excluding migrants)?

> In what aspects are Christian girls in France different from Christian girls in USA?

> How different are girls from each of the regions of France (for example the ones from the Sud Ouest & the ones from Grand Est)?

> How different are urban girls from rural girls in France?

> Give me some advice about finding & dating in France if you wish.

Thank you for your answers & good luck for all you!
Innocent ... :giggle:
 

oyster67

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...and what a fine way to cap this weird thread!


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