Hmm...well Jules, I suppose it just depends on the guy. There is the whole Master & Commander quote...(lol, for those who don't get the reference, "To wives and sweethearts: May they never meet.")
...but overall, I think a lot of the major (may or may not) stay the same between sexes, but we have HUGE variations in the minor things. (or even what we consider major and minor at times)
So you want a simple, summarized, truthful, easily seen/understood answer? 2+2=4 ...otherwise, I'm afraid life's a bit complicated. ^^() Sorry my friend.