No,Im sorry,you're wrong and this opinion is what Im talking about concerning who the church needs to deal with homosexuality. Homosexuality is not a disease, what you mentioned above are diseases. Science has not proven people are born this way and it is a choice. God would not create someone to be homosexual and then turn around and condemn them. The Bible says in both the old and new testament that homosexuality is a sin. God said it was a sin,He never changes,it was a sin then and it is now. It is a sin against ones own body. Any form of sexual sin is wrong.
As far as blacks not being allowed in church that was a matter of racism and that is also sin. It had nothing to do with anything the Bible says,nowhere in the Bible does it say blacks are different than anyone else.
When Jesus came He made a door between us and God. Unclean was an issue because God is perfect and holy. Jesus,the only perfect and sinless one, made a way for us to commune with God even though we are imperfect sinners and unclean. We can now all come to Him because of the cross. While Jesus would not bar the door to gays or anyone else truly seeking Him,neither would He tolerate sin. He often said "go thy way and sin no more". Jesus dealt directly with sin and so ought we.