How to (appropriately) tell a girl you like her?

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BiblicalChristian said:
Hi all! I am a young adult in my 20s and pretty much have always gotten along well with women, unfortunately I sometimes struggle to tell a girl how I feel about her when I do have feelings. I trust God/Jesus and have Him first in these situations! Unfortunately though sometimes my emotions get in the way and instead of immediately praying about it I just go of emotions... fortunately I’m getting better at this and praying constantly for everything. But there are sometimes when I mess it up and make things a little more uncomfortable then they need to be by telling a woman “I have feelings for you”. While I depend and trust God/Jesus for everything I would like to see what my other brothers and sisters have to say about this too.
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Well, I hope you dont just approach a girl and tell her this off the bat. That's kinda creepy.
Please tell me you ease into asking her out first by being an attentive and kind gentleman. Smiling, pulling out chairs, opening doors...greeting her when you see her...maybe even waiting to walk beside her...we aren't dumb...we will know by your actions that you're interested.
There are many ways to share your feelings without putting yourself and her on the spot and avoiding such an awkward situation. Hallmark always have cards with sentiments that would reflect your feelings. Recording songs on a CD...
Hopefully you'll get some good ideas here from men and women.
Best thing...just relax and let things fall into place.
Actions always speak louder than words!!!!
 
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Just hand her one of these

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