How to deal with wet dreams

[zeroturbulence]

Just like I said lol... this can be a sticky subject.

(sticky means awkward )

 

[Jewel5712]

No. It's hard to find redheaded midgets, who work as strippers or hairdressers, that are named Tiffany

Lol..thats pretty specific...fortunately for you..you could probably find a midget who COLORS her hair red..she MIGHT work at Hooters and Tiffany might be her last name of the name of the jewelry she likes..but..if she wants to play patty cake with you..all the better

 

[Jewel5712]

Just like I said lol... this can be a sticky subject.

(sticky means awkward )

Ahhhhhh..lol..glad you clarified that..now go wash your hands..lol

 

[Tommy379]

Lol..thats pretty specific...fortunately for you..you could probably find a midget who COLORS her hair red..she MIGHT work at Hooters and Tiffany might be her last name of the name of the jewelry she likes..but..if she wants to play patty cake with you..all the better

Hooters is child's play.

 

[Jewel5712]

Hooters is child's play.

Wouldnt know...but i heard a lot of men like thier "burgers"...

 

[Jewel5712]

Ahhhhhh..lol..glad you clarified that..now go wash your hands..lol

These postings have DEFINATELY taken on a tangent of its own..lol

 

[zeroturbulence]

stick·y
[ˈstikē]

ADJECTIVE

1. tending or designed to stick to things on contact or covered with something that sticks.
   "her sticky bubblegum" ·
   [more]
   synonyms: adhesive · adherent · gummed · tenacious
2. (of the weather) hot and damp; muggy.
   "it was an unusually hot and sticky summer"
   synonyms: humid · muggy · close · sultry · sweltering · steamy · oppressive ·
   [more]
3. informal
   involving problems; difficult or awkward.
   "the relationship is going through a sticky patch"
   synonyms: awkward · difficult · tricky · ticklish · problematic · delicate ·
   [more]

 

[Jewel5712]

stick·y
[ˈstikē]

ADJECTIVE

1. tending or designed to stick to things on contact or covered with something that sticks.
   "her sticky bubblegum" ·
   [more]
   synonyms: adhesive · adherent · gummed · tenacious
2. (of the weather) hot and damp; muggy.
   "it was an unusually hot and sticky summer"
   synonyms: humid · muggy · close · sultry · sweltering · steamy · oppressive ·
   [more]
3. informal
   involving problems; difficult or awkward.
   "the relationship is going through a sticky patch"
   synonyms: awkward · difficult · tricky · ticklish · problematic · delicate ·
   [more]

Not bubblegum?

 

[Oncefallen]

Just like I said lol... this can be a sticky subject.

(sticky means awkward )

I was wondering if the pun was intended.

 

[Jennie-Mae]

Just my opinion, but outside of extenuating circumstances if a married man is having nocturnal emissions there is something very wrong in their sex life.

You saying I need a private eye to tail him?

 

[Tommy379]

You saying I need a private eye to tail him?

He saying you need to up your game.

 

[selfdissolving]

Wet dreams? You mean like about the ocean? Yea those can be scary! I can see why you don't want them.

LOL

 

[selfdissolving]

 

[ColoradoMinesCole]

Wow, Christians like to really beat themselves up over absolutely nothing.

It's not nothing when you feel like this situation can lead to greater sin and addiction.

Do you have scripture that wet dreams, something that is involuntary, is a sin?

And I know I answered a question with a question. But you brought up King David's remorse for his sins.

I don't even care if it is a sin. I don't like them and I am pretty sure they lead to increased temptation during the day.

 

[theanointedsinner]

I have a question

what if for that moment you did not sin, yet you are being falsely accused of sinning, and that false accusation makes you feel bad, makes you believe that your inevitable sin will be guaranteed so, mind as well sin for relief to "vent it off your mind"

 

[toinena]

I have a question

what if for that moment you did not sin, yet you are being falsely accused of sinning, and that false accusation makes you feel bad, makes you believe that your inevitable sin will be guaranteed so, mind as well sin for relief to "vent it off your mind"

It is still a sin.
It is easier said than done, not to listen to people's accusations. But the only one you are accountable to ultimately is God.

 

[jameen]

Hi all.

I am really tentative about posting about this, but I am kind of desperate at this point.

So some history... I was addicted to pornography for 7 years until I was set free by God. It has been about 1 1/2 years since then. The problem now is that I average about 1-2 wet dreams per week. This is probably due to my 7 years of bondage and the fact that I am lifting weights now (thus creating more testosterone). I would sometimes even say that I feel like I got raped, although not quit as intense. I feel ashamed and disgusting after every time. I know that since I feel a deep remorse and can't really control it that I am still counted as righteous, but sometimes I do have inklings of doubt. Even if I am still in right standing with God, it doesn't fix the fact that after a dream such as these that I am more vulnerable to sexual images that may appear throughout the day (which are pretty much unavoidable in today's society). Even women dressed in skin-tight/revealing clothing can make me start to go down that path before I start feeling shame and force myself to look away. I have actually HALF-seriously considered the pros and cons of making myself go blind so I don't have to go through the endless temptations, which I am sure are contributing to my dreams. (Even though that sounds really serious I don't have any bad mental health problems; don't freak out) I would appreciate any sort of advice on how to overcome this.

Thanks a ton,
ColoradoMinesCole

It is normal for a man to experience wet dreams because even you don't masturbate for a week

the body automatically releases your sperms stored in your body.

there is nothing wrong with it.

what the most important is you stop embracing pornography and never lust any women in your heart.

 

[Faith-n-Christ]

Christians want to guilt themselves over biological functions they have absolutely no control over, and furthermore, were likely created by God, to serve a purpose.

This kind of stuff leads to garbage like the Skoptsy cults.

easy my friend. You are correct, for a healthy person. For someone who had to fight hard to overcome an addiction not so much. Correction with compassion goes down better.
Also remember so called Christians and churches have cause this confusion and dilemma.
You and I know sexual dreams are normal and more prone in the world we live in. I raised a daughter and 2 sons. They all had them. The difference is I talked to them. Not everyone is blessed with that.

 

[Faith-n-Christ]

Hi all.

I am really tentative about posting about this, but I am kind of desperate at this point.

So some history... I was addicted to pornography for 7 years until I was set free by God. It has been about 1 1/2 years since then. The problem now is that I average about 1-2 wet dreams per week. This is probably due to my 7 years of bondage and the fact that I am lifting weights now (thus creating more testosterone). I would sometimes even say that I feel like I got raped, although not quit as intense. I feel ashamed and disgusting after every time. I know that since I feel a deep remorse and can't really control it that I am still counted as righteous, but sometimes I do have inklings of doubt. Even if I am still in right standing with God, it doesn't fix the fact that after a dream such as these that I am more vulnerable to sexual images that may appear throughout the day (which are pretty much unavoidable in today's society). Even women dressed in skin-tight/revealing clothing can make me start to go down that path before I start feeling shame and force myself to look away. I have actually HALF-seriously considered the pros and cons of making myself go blind so I don't have to go through the endless temptations, which I am sure are contributing to my dreams. (Even though that sounds really serious I don't have any bad mental health problems; don't freak out) I would appreciate any sort of advice on how to overcome this.

Thanks a ton,
ColoradoMinesCole

My friend don't beat yourself up. It took courage to confess your struggles. More so over coming your addiction. And living in today's world can be extraordinary challenging. My kids teachers in grade school dresses provocatively. It is in everything you see. Wet dreams are natural and normal. Please know that. My daughter had her first one when she was 16. It made her feel like she was bad. She did not know what was happening to her. My sons it did the same way. I can only imagine your struggles. The Lord does not use shame. The convicts ones heart. Conviction desires change. Shame desires destruction. You are stronger than you give yourself credit. Seek the Lord, remind yourself you are the Lords and are not dirty. Find yourself a promise in the bible. Every time you feel the like you are getting beat down. Quote that verse and remember who you are! Not who you were or fear you may become.

 

[theanointedsinner]

we will never know what innocence feels like