It's really awesome that the married's here are telling us singles what it's REALLY like for them on Valentines Day.
I think that too many times, we singles have fog-laced visions of overly sap-ified romantic scenarios for ourselves... When in all honesty, Valentine's Day (or any other "romantic" time of year, including the "official" holidays) is really just another day, even for couples.
We all "think" it will be different for us... But will it really?
At the very least, the things you've been sharing with us will remind us singles how much effort those "romantic scenarios" actually takes (not to mention, at times, the extra finances.)