To op, I am thinking about how to strengthen my social network within holy spirit guidance, so that I don't become a burden to church, but become a blessing to church, to neighbors.
To op, I am thinking about how to strengthen my social network within holy spirit guidance, so that I don't become a burden to church, but become a blessing to church, to neighbors.
Also I gladly accept help too. Such as car shopping, we all know most women need a guy to help negotiate, checking....I love your giving heart @Churchgoer.
You and others here are always talking about how we can all help, serve, and give to other people.
Your attitude is always very inspiring.
Thank you for being here!
(To be honest, if there weren't people here like you, I would have given up and left a long time ago.)
Also I gladly accept help too. Such as car shopping, we all know most women need a guy to help negotiate, checking....
Today I am going to gym zumba dance. Strengthen existing friendship, explore new friendship.
Seem these days gym is the new place to meet people.

Well it all happened yesterday but I was referred to Dress For Success and now have an entire new wardrobe capsule so I can get ready for job interviews!
Two ladies helped me with outfits and now I have new clothes I have 2 coats, jackets couple of blouses, trousers, a black skirt, and two pairs of shoes. Even a handbag with some makeup in it.
Now my sister can't complain I don't have anything smart to wear.
Also...it was all free!!
When I got to that point my mom instituted quiet times, I didn't have to sleep but I had to be in my room doing something low key and winding downlooks like little girl won't be napping today, so it will be early bed time for her! lol.
we are on the verge of her dropping her nap. we still offer it to her, but most days, she's skipping it. uff. lol.

Well, I don't get online much lately these days, but when I do I always try to pop onto CC and se what ya'll have been up to.
I think about my CC friends all the time.
Love you guys!
Yeah, I have to snoop around to make sure you're behaving yourself here missyJust think of everything we just MIGHT get away with if you didn't keep us in check once in a while!!![]()
Yesterday, I finally went to check out the Quilting Group.
Now, setting the scene here -- this was at a conservative Lutheran Church, and there's a reason why such churches (and synods in general,) are known as Heaven's Gate. I go to the early service, and it's full of walkers and oxygen tanks, but I know this is where God has me for now -- and may He bless them all.
I'm guessing the median age of the quilting group is around 80, if not older.
But it was a LOVELY group of beautiful, spry, sometimes feisty older ladies who were VERY excited to see someone "young" interested in their work. They toil all year to produce all kinds of beautiful quilts that get sold (for donations to the church) or shipped to various charities. Naturally, my favorites were the baby quilts, but I also loved the Christmas quilts for their bright, cheery colors. One lady said they've had requests for military quilts, so I'll be excited to see the designs for those.
All the quilts had been draped across the pews in the sanctuary for the annual Quilt Sale. All the sales had been made, so our first task was to collect and fold all the leftover quilts.
I don't know if it's like this in every Lutheran church, but every one I've been to has a second floor balcony level in their sanctuary. I went to this top floor with two other ladies to gather any quilts left there, and you know how, when you're around more vulnerable people, your protective instinct instantly kicks in.
It was making me nervous watching these older ladies carrying stacks of quilts down all those stairs, but of course, it's not like actually they needed my help. I just tried to grab as many on that top level as fast as I could to try to spare them any extra trips up and down those stairs. I didn't want anyone falling or breaking a hip on my watch!!
Next, I was invited to help some of the ladies finish off a quilt by tying the layers together. Most were using a curved needle, which I've seen (they're used in upholstery or sewing around things like the arms of chairs and sofas,) but I'd never used one.
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Unfortunately, I couldn't quite get the hang of out, but found out it was just another instance where I happen to zig when life zags.
(Continued in next post...)

Oooooh... yeah that's a good point!Maybe He doesn't want your heart getting broken again?