Looking for Godly friends, currently in a rough patch right now

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I’m sorry you’re walking through this pain and loneliness. May you hold onto this promise:
Psalm 34:18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
God sees your grief, and He draws near to you in this hard season.
 
I just recently went through my first real break up and it hurts and I feel pretty lonely, so I’m just looking for brothers and sisters in the faith to talk to
That sucks dude...
Dunno the reason why she or you done the breakup....
Feel like explaining?
It helps....may not feel.like it but it helps with the healing. Gets the dirt out of the wound so it can heal cleanly.

And just for the record....unlike my family who thinks that breakups toughen you up....I believe they just make you feel beaten and bruised. A little more shy about trusting someone again.

So spill it....what happened? What'd she say or do? What'd you do and say?
 
I just recently went through my first real break up and it hurts and I feel pretty lonely, so I’m just looking for brothers and sisters in the faith to talk to
There are plenty of brothers and sisters in the faith here. A lot of members here have experienced similar heartbreak, so you are not alone in this regard. Glad to have you onboard with us. Welcome to CC.
 
Hi IsaiahM3 glad the Lord led you to CC, welcome! I may have a different approach to break-ups. In the past when I broke-up with someone, my attitude was...oh well that didn't work out, bless him, and go on to live my life. There's no use to mourning over something that just didn't work out. Move on and pray for the right one from the Lord. God bless you and give you peace, IJNA🙏🙌✨
 
I just recently went through my first real break up and it hurts and I feel pretty lonely, so I’m just looking for brothers and sisters in the faith to talk to
It will hurt but that just means your heart is still open and not hardened. Nothing wrong with feeling pain and don't worry about anything. The Lord strengthen and bless you with the patience to move past this to a happier life. Keep your faith and prayers and know that your brothers and sisters in Christ are here with you.
 
Numbers 6:24-26
New International Version
24 “‘“The Lord bless you
and keep you;
25 the Lord make his face shine on you
and be gracious to you;
26 the Lord turn his face toward you
and give you peace.”’

John 16:33
New International Version
33 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

James 1:12
New International Version
12 Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.
 
Numbers 6:24-26
New International Version
24 “‘“The Lord bless you
and keep you;
25 the Lord make his face shine on you
and be gracious to you;
26 the Lord turn his face toward you
and give you peace.”’

John 16:33
New International Version
33 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

James 1:12
New International Version
12 Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.
I am a King James Man

Num 6:24 The LORD bless thee, and keep thee:
Num 6:25 The LORD make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee:
Num 6:26 The LORD lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.

Joh 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.

Jas 1:12 Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him.