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You, your wife and famil continue to be in my prayers in Jesus.
Praise Jesus for bringing you the comfort needed in this trial.

God bless.
pickles
 
Pickles you are awesome. Last night I found myself reading Job. Praise God that we could have such an example of faith. Father you know where the wife you have given me stands. Father you know how hard her heart is right now. Father I Praise you for the trials you have brought upon me Lord and that I will get through them with You leading me and You Guiding me. In you Father is my strength. Father I ask that you would find some one to counsel the wife you have given me in a Godly way. Father she has been seeking counsel from people that dont know You and dont fear or love you. Father I praise You for Pickles. I praise You Lord for the blessings you have given us. Father I praise You for this wonderful day. In Christ's name I pray amen
 
thank you buttacup I will continue to pray for your family as well. Father I pray that you will show buttacup the things you want her to see. I pray for peace for her Lord be her strength and be her Light In Jesus name amen
 
God is working in my life and exposing the truth to the wife God has given me and she is fighting it. She is really being blinded by the false light and hope that this other person is consumed by the evil spirit and is willing to support her in her decision to file for divorce. She has told me that this is what she wants and that I cant change. I know that God is changing me and working in me. I know that God is revealing the truth to her and she does not want to see it. I have prayed that God show her the truth and Praise God that He has. I pray that God will soften her heart and show her that this other guy is not the answer and that divorce is not the answer she is looking for. I pray that God will intervene as I have turned this over to Him and He will put a stop to the evil spirit that is attacking and surrounding her an blinding her. The wife that God has given me has told me that I either move out of the house or she will file for full custody of the children that God has given me. I asked God to speak through me when her and I talked and the words that came out that this guy will not make her happy and that she is trying to replace me with this other guy and in the kids life. I told her that I have changed and that I am growing. She repeated to me that I am not able to change which is true I cant change with out God and I give all the praise and thanks to God for changing and transforming me. I also said that I am unwavering and I will not move out of the house and said that she should seek counseling from someone other then this guy or her friends and she should go to her church and talk to them about it. I asked that she pray about her decision. She said she does not want to hear it.

Father I come before You Lord and ask You to put a stop to this. Father I am trusting You God to intervene. Father I request that You put Your foot down and stop this Father. God I am crying out to you to expose this guy's heart to her that You Father will show her what kind of guy he really is. Father I pray that you will show her the work You have done in me. Lord the family that You have given me is being torn apart at the seems by the evil spirit. Father I have no anger towards the wife you have given me or the other guy. Father I pray that you will show kenyon (the other guy) the truth. Father I pray that You Lord will expose the evil spirit that consumes kenyon. Father anything is possible through you and I trust You Father to handle this situation. Father I know You Lord have defeated the evil spirit so. Father I request that you remove this evil spirit immediately. Father I request that You give the family that You have given me a chance to move forward from this. Father only You Lord can fix the mess that I have created by turning away from you. Father You called me back to You Lord and I heard Your call and I answered. Father I request that Angela will hear Your call and that You convict her and bring her to her Knees before You so that she can find true love, joy, kindness, gentleness and happiness through You Father. I will not give up my faith in You Lord Jesus. You have told me that You will fix this Father and I trust that You will Father. Father I lift up Kenyon to you and pray that You will bring him to You so that we may have another warrior for Christ. Father You are a God of mercy and love. Father I love You and give You all the Praise God. I praise You God for bringing me to my knees before You so that I may see the errors of my ways. Lord I give you Praise for opening my eyes and allowing me to see Your mercy and grace. Father I praise You Lord for what I am going through. Father my hope and beliefs are with You Lord I will not waver in my love for you. In Jesus Name I pray
 
Dear Heavenly Father,r
I come before You. I spread out my hands to You; My soul Longs for You like a thirsty land. Father I request that You answer me speedily. Father cause me to hear Your loving kindness. Father in You I trust. Father cause me to the way I should walk, for I lift up my soul to You Lord. Deliver me from my enemies; In You I have shelter. Lord teach me to do Your will and not my own. Father I surrender my own free will to You! You are my God. Your Spirit is good. God lead me in the land of uprightness. Revive me Lord for Your names sake. Father bring my soul out of trouble. In Your mercy Father cut off my enemies and destroy all those who afflict my soul; For I am Your servant. God you know what is going on in my life and Father I request that You continue to lead and guide me. Father I pray that You alone will deliver the family You have given me from the enemy. Father I request that You answer me speedily. Lord lift the family You have given me the gifts You have given me and Restore this family that loves You. Father I request Your protection of the family You have given to me. Father I request that You remove the evil spirit and reveal the false light that is tearing Your family apart. Lord stretch out Your hands from above; rescue Your family and deliver it out of great waters. Father open the eyes of the blind so that they may see the love and kindness You have for us. Father I request that You remind the wife You have given me and I what marriage is about. Father marriage is a commitment a sacred covenant with You Lord as the head of the house. Father answer our prayers. Father we come to You and request that You work speedily and You reveal the truth to the family that You created. Father reveal the enemy for who he really is. Father I cry out to You Lord to do Your work speedily and deliver us from this attack. Father I give You all the praise and Glory for You are our shelter and Fortress. Father You are our rock. In the name of Jesus I pray. Father I am Your humble servant. Father teach me how to live for you. In Jesus name Amen
 
Lord I request that You rescue this family and deliver it from the hand of foreigners, Whose mouth speaks lying words, and whose right hand is the hand of falsehood. Father lead this family You have created in a journey with You Lord. Restore this family that You have created and unite us as one to walk with You Lord. I praise You for this family that You have created. I request that Your work be speedily and You answer our prayers Father. In Jesus name Amen
 
mdw1369, I am so filled with joy that you have come to the Lord with your marriage and with the work that needs to be done in you. Stay strong and faithful things may get worse before they get better or she may never come to forgive and reconcile and will file for divorce. Which ever happens your walk with Christ is the most important of all and must not waiver.

Like me you have made mistakes. We all have sinned and fall short. Not to make excuses but simply stating the facts. I pray for you and your family my brother. Be patient and be at peace.
 
Stephen if the wife God gave us files for divorce this is not over. I know God is working on her and I know that God will expose this evil spirit that consumes her and this guy. I trust that God will untie the knots.
 
Father I pray to the Holy Spirit. I ask You Holy Spirit to live in my Life and to make Yourself Home. Holy Spirit I ask that You will enter the wife God has given me and make Your home there. Holy Spirit I pray that You will do your work in her life and in my life. Holy Spirit consume her and myself and let us find the love, kindness, joy, gentleness, and forgiveness that You have for us. Holy Spirit I give my life over to You so that You may live through me. Holy Spirit I give the family that God has given me over to You. Holy Spirit I request that You live through Angela and the children that are gifts from God. I pray to You Holy Spirit Amen
 
after another conversation with the wife that God has given me it seems that she has hardened her heart even more and almost despises me. I have not been angry with her and she continues to yell and demand things. I will not waiver or give in for I am trusting God and it seems that she gets more upset every day. I feel that the truth is being exposed and she is refusing to see it. I have asked God to show her the love I have for her. She has told me to stop telling her that I love her and I have said that I will not stop loving her. I am not going to give up for I know that God is in control. She has done and said things that she thinks will hurt me and anger me and God has given me the power to remain calm and not be angry Praise God. I have no anger towards the wife God has given me or even the other guy that is being placed in the middle. I lift them both up to the Lord. I ask the Holy Spirit to come into them and to take control of them. Father I ask that You do not let them fall any more Father I ask that You bring them to You and that You show them love and kindness. Father I ask that they seek You Father. I ask that they look to find God in their lives. Father show them the love and kindness You have shown me. Father I know that I have sinned and I asked Your forgiveness. Lord I ask that Your light shine through me as I walk in this darkness. Father show me the way to pray and to walk with You Lord. Father I praise You for the strength and love You have shown me God and I pray that I can be a worker for You Lord. I pray that I can be a servant for You. I am Your humble servant God. Father do not allow me to be Hurt by the evil spirit that is attacking me from all angles. Holy Spirit I cry out to You to cleanse my heart, mind and soul. I cry out to You God to protect me from the enemy that is determined to try and make me turn against You. Father I will not waiver in my love or trust in You. Father lead me so that I may lead with strong hands stand up when I cant Lord. Show the family You gave me that I am willing to fight for You and for them Lord. Father give me the strength to be everything that You call me to be. Father show me the way to lead the family You have given me. Father Lead me to lead them with strong hands, to stand up when they can't. Father I do not want to leave them hungry for love chasing things that I could give up. Father show them through me that I am willing to fight and give them the best of my life that You have given me, so we can call this a home. I cant do this alone Father so Lead me cause I cant do this with out You Holy Spirit. Holy Spirit make yourself Home in me and and Lead me to do the things You want me to do. Holy Spirit Lead me in this battle for the family that God the father has given me. Holy Spirit work in the heart of the family You have given me and deliver us from the enemies that want to tear this family apart. God I ask that You reunite us as one and that we as a family live to serve You. Father give us the knowledge and the tools to fix this marriage that You have created. Father I praise You for the family You have given to Angela and I. Father I love You and serving You was the reason I was born. God I am ready to serve You and to Live for You continue molding me Into Your image. With unwaivering Love and trust Lord I pray these things to You God. Amen
 
Dear Heavenly Father I pray that you work through his heart to continue to change him and work through his wife's heart to see yours in him and that the demons of resentment and bitterness would leave her. I pray this other man to see you and your truth and turn from his ways. I pray for his children to keep your hedge of protection around them that what is best for them is done. We ask this all in your Glorious sons name Jesus Amen.
 
Its Saturday May 7, 2011. I am excited I get to go home for good. Things with the wife God has given me have not been good. I am really excited to see her even if she is not excited to see me. I love her and have been praying constantly for her. It was a blessing for me to go on this trip where I was away from the house. I have never been closer to God then I am now. God has taught me so many things in the time alone that I have had with Him. I praise God for what I am going through the Holy Spirit is changing me and transforming me. I would like to Praise God for all of you that have prayed and continue to pray. May God Bless you all
 
Keep walking in the spirit. I am praying for you and your family as this battle rages on. Be at peace with your wife and spiritual battle with darkness.
 
I have been home for a day and a half and things are just wow. I have shown my wife support and I have told her that she does not have to move out of the house. I have also told her that I will not move out of the house and leave the kids. She has decided to move in with as my 7yr old called him "boyfriend" which she got rather upset about. She packed a few things tonight and it took a lot to keep from breaking down and crying but after talking to some believers and having them pretty much tell me to stand strong in my faith and rejoice in the Lord and do not be sad because the Joy of the Lord is my strength I have found myself to be okay. I praise God for the people He has put in my life. I also praise God for removing the need well addiction for tobacco out of my life. I pray that most importantly that the wife God has given me will find a personal relationship with Jesus. I praise God for the children He has given me.
 
mdw1369 I am sorry to hear your wife has chosen to move out. I know it hurts and I know that the unconditional love we have with our Father will replace that hurt. You must continue to be strong and rely on God for yourself and foryour children. Everything happening inclluding your faith is being recorded in their minds and will shape their lives.

I am praying with you my brother.
 
I have been home for a day and a half and things are just wow. I have shown my wife support and I have told her that she does not have to move out of the house. I have also told her that I will not move out of the house and leave the kids. She has decided to move in with as my 7yr old called him "boyfriend" which she got rather upset about. She packed a few things tonight and it took a lot to keep from breaking down and crying but after talking to some believers and having them pretty much tell me to stand strong in my faith and rejoice in the Lord and do not be sad because the Joy of the Lord is my strength I have found myself to be okay. I praise God for the people He has put in my life. I also praise God for removing the need well addiction for tobacco out of my life. I pray that most importantly that the wife God has given me will find a personal relationship with Jesus. I praise God for the children He has given me.

Continueing to pray in agreement in Jesus Christ is Lord with you and for all of you.

God bless.
pickles
 
Dear heavenly Father, I am frustrated and You know it. Lord You feel my pain and You feel the pain of the children. Father I am asking You to heal Caleb, He is Your seven year old boy and he is hurting he is discouraged. Father he has spoken out to his mom and she has denied things to his face. Father you know if what she says is the truth or not. Father You know what Caleb said to his mother yesterday and only You know if what he said was true. Father I pray that You will intervene and give Caleb a peace. I pray that you will use me or someone to give him the truth about You. Father You know that I miss the wife you gave me. You know I love her and You know that You are first in my life before anything else. Father I have learned my lesson that I can do nothing with out you. I have learned that if I do try and do anything with out you I fail. Father I have learned that nothing is mine and that it is all Yours. Lord I praise you for teaching me and working in me. I pray that the Holy Spirit will continue to grow in me. Father I also ask that You Lord will make Angela see that she has another choice then the one she is making. Let her see that I have already forgiven and forgotten about this other man. Let her see the love that You have for her and the Love that You have given me for her. Father I pray these things in your precious and Holy name Amen
 
Praying in agreement in Jesus Christ is Lord.
Also dear Jesus, I remember the brokeness I felt as a child when my father abandened us, I ask you Jesus to please bring your comfort and all delight in you Jesus to these sweet children, let not the sorrrows steal the joy of childhood from their hearts, keep tham always close and knowing your perfect love, pease and forgivness.
Thankyou dear Jesus.

God bless.
pickles