Hi my name is vangel.. Iam a single parent from 2 young man. Ken 5yo,and shanne 3yo. I was separated with my husband 3years ago without real divorced coz he just left us without nothing. I never work into my life, and i cant go to work coz there no someone can help me to take care my kids. I live in my parent home now, and i feel soo aad, i feel like a parasit here.. I never have a friend in my lofe so i soo depresssed about my life and try to get out from ny situation and join in this site. I wish i can get many friend here to help me get strong to through this bad time.
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Hi!Vangel
welcome to CC! Nice to meet you! I am not married yet and won't understand some things married couples have been experiencing but I can listen and I can be your friend! God bless you!Hi SweetmorningDew78 iam soo glad i can be ur friemd and sister in God. I never have a real friend in my life,so i aosh we can be a good and real friend in real world not just internet yeah marriage life is very complicated. I was married with young guy than me, maybe he not ready for real marriage. In first time i cant accept that but by God my heart is healling now. Still try to trust man lol... But will be ok by time i think..
yeah marriage life is very complicated. I was married with young guy than me, maybe he not ready for real marriage. In first time i cant accept that but by God my heart is healling now. Still try to trust man lol... But will be ok by time i think..
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Hi SweetmorningDew78 iam soo glad i can be ur friemd and sister in God. I never have a real friend in my life,so i aosh we can be a good and real friend in real world not just internet
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thanks for replying me back Yeah what I have witnessed 
it seems like marriage is hard God created marriage to let us see what truly love is How we should love our spouse (John 3:16) Let us be friends if u want you can add me sis we can pray with each other Glad to know you are doing ok and your heart is healing...it takes time but it will come just Let God do the mending. BLESSINGS!
You are certainly in a hard situation. You are certainly not a parasite but have great worth in the eyes of God. Praying for God to send the right people to provide support and understanding. Glad to have you as part of our family. Welcome to CC.
SweetmorningDew78 My pleasure to be ur friend sist, u are soo lovely and gentle.. I never hate my ex husband and let him just be my past,so that i can move on, and erase all the bitter past and be happy to have a new life and new froend in this time and future.. I will always there for u too if u need friend for sharing or praying together.
Thank u tourist for ur attention at me. Yes iam in bad situation in 3years i live in my parent home. I got many bad word from my family but thanks God i have a great mom who want to accompany me and understand me. I never have any friend in my life but now iam soo glad joining in this site and got many good friend and brother sister in God.. Soo @tourist let be my brother in God, iam glad having u here,bless u
I am so glad you felt the liberty to reach out to those of us here who want to help. I know for myself that when I am feeling so needy, I find comfort in talking with those who are capable of offering support and encouragement. Usually they can't solve my problems, but they can help steer my thinkng in the right direction, and that is to trust in God through all of our difficult circummstances. He already has the answers, and when we pray, and seek His presence, He comes close to us and lets us know how valuable we are to Him and how much He cares for us.
Since you have access to the internet, why not call some churches to ask if there is someone you can talk to? Often times, a church will have a female staff member who is in a position to listen to those who are searching for answers, and can possibly connect you to a women's group, or an adult group, or a prayer group, and even someone who can act as a mentor to you. Getting connected to the body of Christ will give you the strength you need to move forward. I hope you will take the time to make some phone calls and seek out those who can help you the most. Perhaps they are educated about some Family Services programs in your area and can give you some options for employment or child care. The best thing to do is ask questions. Please don't give up believing hope is out there. it might take some diligent effort on your part to see some changes, but keep this in prayer everyday. God is able.
Since you have access to the internet, why not call some churches to ask if there is someone you can talk to? Often times, a church will have a female staff member who is in a position to listen to those who are searching for answers, and can possibly connect you to a women's group, or an adult group, or a prayer group, and even someone who can act as a mentor to you. Getting connected to the body of Christ will give you the strength you need to move forward. I hope you will take the time to make some phone calls and seek out those who can help you the most. Perhaps they are educated about some Family Services programs in your area and can give you some options for employment or child care. The best thing to do is ask questions. Please don't give up believing hope is out there. it might take some diligent effort on your part to see some changes, but keep this in prayer everyday. God is able.
Hi lovinglady04 iam soo greatfull get ur caring at me.. Yes iam agree with u, even they can not solve my problem, the most important is the support and attention given by the brothers and sisters in the Lord Jesus. I had a church and my mom is evangelist in the church, all people in church know my problems, but there no one to help me. I never get any calling or visit from them. Even their know my situation like this, their never care about me. So that why iam too depresed coz my situation is very bad. Sametime i really want to kill my self, i never talking with people, i just talking with my little kids. My mom always busy with her aervice, and my dad is not an believer. So i spend my time just at home never go outside in 3years. Yeah i really need a friendship and real person. Iam tired just sitting and read bibble, i need the solution. Iam absolutely bored but keep tired with my situation coz my kids
I don't know how your church is set up, or how your town is set up, but have you ever thought of possibly offering some "play time" to another child, or a couple of children, from your church? You could invite the mom and the child over for about an hour or two and let that time together benefit everyone. Or, can you meet at a public locatin? Playground? Library? Park for a picnic? I know stepping out to initiate these things involves a risk, but meeting just one person who will enjoy the same things you do can give you that sense of friendship.
There are many children's activities online that are available free of charge. Can you start a kids club, or a mini bible study for kids in your home and do some of these projects? And invite the moms to bring their children? You can have story time, a bible craft and a small snack. This might allow you to meet another mom. I know your heart craves fellowship. If there are any gatherings hosted by your church, can you call someone to ask for a ride?
Maybe you can ask your mom for some help on this. Ask her for some advice on how to interact with other church members. Maybe other people feel the same way you do and need someone to organize an event, or a place to go where you can all interact with each other. How about planning a pot-luck dinner after your church service? People generally love to mingle and have fellowship when food is there!
But more importantly, commit this to prayer and ask God to give you an idea to get you connected to other women. And please don't give up. God has all your answers and hears all your prayers. Blessings to you today friend!
There are many children's activities online that are available free of charge. Can you start a kids club, or a mini bible study for kids in your home and do some of these projects? And invite the moms to bring their children? You can have story time, a bible craft and a small snack. This might allow you to meet another mom. I know your heart craves fellowship. If there are any gatherings hosted by your church, can you call someone to ask for a ride?
Maybe you can ask your mom for some help on this. Ask her for some advice on how to interact with other church members. Maybe other people feel the same way you do and need someone to organize an event, or a place to go where you can all interact with each other. How about planning a pot-luck dinner after your church service? People generally love to mingle and have fellowship when food is there!
But more importantly, commit this to prayer and ask God to give you an idea to get you connected to other women. And please don't give up. God has all your answers and hears all your prayers. Blessings to you today friend!
Oh lovingladyo4 u are soo lovely and gentle... Thank u soo much for try to give me more way out for my problems.. Ur advice and idea is very good. But i dont know how to talk with people. I never have a real friend since i was in kindegarden. I always got bully since in kindegarden till in college... I never hate people but because bully i cant talk with people free like other do. And i cant go to church coz no one was giving me a ride to go home. Even i asked for a ride.. Iam not complaining this is a life. Hard and no one really care about other. So that why iam soo suprised if u are a new person, can have a care for me a stranger. Thank u soo much, for made me feeling loved. I cant reply ur kindness heart, but i know God know ur goodness will reply ur goodness.. I cant give up.. And now iam trying to more pray at God coz iam tired to be just like this.. I know God heard my pray thank u soo much sister, u madey day more better now, i wish we can be good friend in real life, not just internet... Thank u again, and bless u
Vangelina let's pray together - Father in heaven, we know that you are an all loving and merciful God who looks at us with such tenderness and care. We know that you watch over us and are mindful of all our ways. We know that you have a plan for our lives and that you want us to feel we are valuable in your sight.
I pray for my friend and the situation she has shared here on this website. Only you know her heart and what she longs for. Only you can bring meaning into her life and allow her to feel she has purpose. Only you can orchestrate genuine friendships based on the love found in Jesus Christ.
We ask you now Father to help Vangelina find her purpose and her worth, however you choose to make her aware of it. Help her in her time of need. You said to cast all of our cares upon You because You care for us, and we want to do that right now, trusting that You are able to do exceedingly and abundantly more than we could ever hope or imagine. With God all things are possible.
I ask you Father to protect the heart and the mind of my friend, and keep her close and safe next to You, where she can feel your presence and be assured You love her beyond what she can comprehend. I ask you to build up her faith and let her heart be at peace, knowing that she is precious and honored in your sight. Help this make sense to her in a way that she can be changed and recognize her worth. Let her find joy in her days and weeks ahead and help her to grab hold of the truth in your words when You say "I have loved you with an everlasting love."
Thank you Father, that you are holy, and gracious, abounding in love, and that you hear our prayers. Amen.
I pray for my friend and the situation she has shared here on this website. Only you know her heart and what she longs for. Only you can bring meaning into her life and allow her to feel she has purpose. Only you can orchestrate genuine friendships based on the love found in Jesus Christ.
We ask you now Father to help Vangelina find her purpose and her worth, however you choose to make her aware of it. Help her in her time of need. You said to cast all of our cares upon You because You care for us, and we want to do that right now, trusting that You are able to do exceedingly and abundantly more than we could ever hope or imagine. With God all things are possible.
I ask you Father to protect the heart and the mind of my friend, and keep her close and safe next to You, where she can feel your presence and be assured You love her beyond what she can comprehend. I ask you to build up her faith and let her heart be at peace, knowing that she is precious and honored in your sight. Help this make sense to her in a way that she can be changed and recognize her worth. Let her find joy in her days and weeks ahead and help her to grab hold of the truth in your words when You say "I have loved you with an everlasting love."
Thank you Father, that you are holy, and gracious, abounding in love, and that you hear our prayers. Amen.
Welcome to Christian Chat, Vangel. We all have one friend – the Lord. We can always talk with him (and learn from him).
